Oh ya I just remembered another one. I HATE Ross Geller from friends! That is HATE in all caps. I want to throat punch him Everytime I see his ugly mug and hear his incredibly whiney voice!! I am sure this is definitely a UO but I just can't help it! HATE that whiney little biotch!!
100% agree I hate Ross and also I hate the entire show friends. I tried watching it a few times and it was so boring I could not.
Oh ya I just remembered another one. I HATE Ross Geller from friends! That is HATE in all caps. I want to throat punch him Everytime I see his ugly mug and hear his incredibly whiney voice!! I am sure this is definitely a UO but I just can't help it! HATE that whiney little biotch!!
100% agree I hate Ross and also I hate the entire show friends. I tried watching it a few times and it was so boring I could not.
Oh that's sad he was totally my favourite. I don't really know why: he was just a bit of a mess and always got in the worst situations. Those paste pants he made with sweat and baby powder to pull on his leather pants was the funniest thing ever. And the spray tans all on his front side: I'm laughing just at the ten year old memory. I'll take the minority side on this one. Loved Ross. Ended up marrying a Ross which I felt was quite appropriate.
Ok, here goes. I haven't been very active on this board for awhile as I felt it had lost some of its spark. I really enjoyed the littlebee post today especially the earlier posts debating how to liven up our BMB and how to do away with glitter farting unicorns, hair pats and general squeeing. So, here's my UO. That "I'm not going to be that parent." post really irritated me. Whether posters intended it or not, many posts came off as very judgemental. I'll be honest here - before I had children I too had a list of things I wouldn't do. And then I had kids and I learnt quickly that whether your kids are newborn or 4 years old, whether they are typically developing or have special needs, whether they eat or sleep well or not, whether you have great partner and family support or not, being a parent is really tough. Unless you are truly abusing or neglecting your child, you will never receive judgement from me. Rant over. Flame away. I'm good with some healthy debate around here. Edit: spelling
I was saying to DH, if everyday we dont end up accidentally killing the child we're doing well. Lol. But I think the majority of the posters wanted to come off more light hearted about the fails when it came to parenting time, rather than judgmental.
Also, those in public who STARE at my tummy.. I don't mind a glance if you must.. I'm really not that interesting but to full on stare at me just angers me. I'm only pregnant.. I haven't grown a second head.
But... :::whispers:::: ... you had the sex.
Oh my god I am dying with this!! (ETA tried to post laughing emoticon but I failed miserably)
Ok, here goes. I haven't been very active on this board for awhile as I felt it had lost some of its spark. I really enjoyed the littlebee post today especially the earlier posts debating how to liven up our BMB and how to do away with glitter farting unicorns, hair pats and general squeeing. So, here's my UO. That "I'm not going to be that parent." post really irritated me. Whether posters intended it or not, many posts came off as very judgemental. I'll be honest here - before I had children I too had a list of things I wouldn't do. And then I had kids and I learnt quickly that whether your kids are newborn or 4 years old, whether they are typically developing or have special needs, whether they eat or sleep well or not, whether you have great partner and family support or not, being a parent is really tough. Unless you are truly abusing or neglecting your child, you will never receive judgement from me. Rant over. Flame away. I'm good with some healthy debate around here. Edit: spelling
I think the sentence I bolded is key here... It's very natural for FTMs to have a picture of how they will parent, and of course it isn't always realistic. How could it be??
Also "you will never receive judgement from me"...... Unless you feel they are judging someone else, then you're free to judge them?
OK, my question to you, @badwolf321, do you quote scripture to friends that you know are religious or to whomever you might be speaking with?
The reason I question this is because I am not a religious person and when DH and I were going though our losses, people would quote scripture to us not knowing our thoughts on God or church or anything. That drove me insane.
To me, you have to know your audience. If you know the person will appreciate it and/or use in in their struggle/daily life, then great. Putting out there on FB to everyone going through a tough time=not appropriate IMO.
You do have to know your audience. I know fully well if someone isn't religious that scripture more than likely won't help. It has no depth to them.
Oh ya I just remembered another one. I HATE Ross Geller from friends! That is HATE in all caps. I want to throat punch him Everytime I see his ugly mug and hear his incredibly whiney voice!! I am sure this is definitely a UO but I just can't help it! HATE that whiney little biotch!!
100% agree I hate Ross and also I hate the entire show friends. I tried watching it a few times and it was so boring I could not.
I love the show but hate Ross! It would have been better if they had just replaced him. The stuff that happened to him was funny but he was in no way funny at all!!
Don't know if this will be unpopular here but it is with the ladies I work with. My DH has well over 150 sick days built up and after I go back to work I will not have any. I usually stay home with the kids when they are sick but my DH is going to have to. They are horrified by the thought and think only moms can take care of sick kids. Give a guy a break people. My DH stays home all summer with the kids I think he can take care of a sick kid.
I know it's Friday now, but I needed to put this somewhere. I hate chevron prints now. They're so overdone and all the baby bedding has been ruined with them.
Do horizontal lines have a fancy schmancy name too? Lol. I never woulda guessed. My first thought was maybe a type of fabric like velvet or lace or something! Lol.
Don't know if this will be unpopular here but it is with the ladies I work with. My DH has well over 150 sick days built up and after I go back to work I will not have any. I usually stay home with the kids when they are sick but my DH is going to have to. They are horrified by the thought and think only moms can take care of sick kids. Give a guy a break people. My DH stays home all summer with the kids I think he can take care of a sick kid.
I hate the general mentality that men are incapable of taking care of babies/kids. Those onsies with instructions for dads insult me beyond belief. I know they are meant to be funny but it is so insulting to me that they even exist.they are not incapable of caring for their children.
Don't know if this will be unpopular here but it is with the ladies I work with. My DH has well over 150 sick days built up and after I go back to work I will not have any. I usually stay home with the kids when they are sick but my DH is going to have to. They are horrified by the thought and think only moms can take care of sick kids. Give a guy a break people. My DH stays home all summer with the kids I think he can take care of a sick kid.
I hate the general mentality that men are incapable of taking care of babies/kids. Those onsies with instructions for dads insult me beyond belief. I know they are meant to be funny but it is so insulting to me that they even exist.they are not incapable of caring for their children.
We had issues with my mil after my dd was born. She would say things like when she watches the kids it's for me. Little things like that really hurt my dh's feelings. He usually lets things roll of his back but I finally had to say something to my mil when it was just the two of us. I explained to her that it hurts his feelings and that we coparent. She stopped after that. When I told him about my coworkers he said that they were taught that way and they do not know any different. He is a school teacher and takes care of a room full of kids during the school year and he gets to stay home during summer vacation with our kids. I'm jealous of the summer part. He still teaches martial arts at night. I think the summer is great for him to be able to bond with them and staying home when they are sick will only helps strengthen it.
I hate the general mentality that men are incapable of taking care of babies/kids. Those onsies with instructions for dads insult me beyond belief. I know they are meant to be funny but it is so insulting to me that they even exist.they are not incapable of caring for their children.
We had issues with my mil after my dd was born. She would say things like when she watches the kids it's for me. Little things like that really hurt my dh's feelings. He usually lets things roll of his back but I finally had to say something to my mil when it was just the two of us. I explained to her that it hurts his feelings and that we coparent. She stopped after that. When I told him about my coworkers he said that they were taught that way and they do not know any different. He is a school teacher and takes care of a room full of kids during the school year and he gets to stay home during summer vacation with our kids. I'm jealous of the summer part. He still teaches martial arts at night. I think the summer is great for him to be able to bond with them and staying home when they are sick will only helps strengthen it.
That is good that you were able to explain it. Aww, yes very much so. Will definitely strengthen their relationship. I would be jealous of summers also. He is right, I think it is a brought up way. Le sigh.
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