I just found out I'm infertile

[joy]

Mar 23, 2015 11:29:00 GMT -5 joy said:

Mar 23, 2015 8:37:26 GMT -5 heatherj9603 said:

It's a sad sad world that we live in when people think IF is okay to joke about....

August '15 decided to rant about people on Baby Names who had opinions on names but weren't pregnant.  Apparently, my opinion doesn't count because I can't get pregnant.  Way to think through your fucking words, August 15.

The rage and complete heartache I feel over these statements can't be measured.  So, yeah - I believe that people can joke about IF just as much as someone can tell me that I don't count because I can't have a child.

Some people are complete assholes.

The one poster who said it did "apologize" but there isn't enough money in the world to make me read their hurtful thread

[joy]

Mar 23, 2015 11:31:11 GMT -5 bunnyfungo said:

Mar 23, 2015 11:29:00 GMT -5 joy said:

August '15 decided to rant about people on Baby Names who had opinions on names but weren't pregnant.  Apparently, my opinion doesn't count because I can't get pregnant.  Way to think through your fucking words, August 15.

The rage and complete heartache I feel over these statements can't be measured.  So, yeah - I believe that people can joke about IF just as much as someone can tell me that I don't count because I can't have a child.

Some people are complete assholes.

Do we need to start a board war? Because that shit's not okay. ::hugs:: joy

NOOOOO.  Please no.

The thread is dead and buried on Baby Names.

[joy]

I wasn't totally innocent in the argument. I did get say "eff you" to a poster. The whole thing was emotionally charged.

[TheEleventhHour]

@wineandcupcakes HUGS. Sorry you had to read this first thing.

Ugh joy I read that thread on Baby Names and a little on that BMB. People suck.

[joy]

Mar 23, 2015 11:35:24 GMT -5 TheEleventhHour said:

Ugh joy I read that thread on Baby Names and a little on that BMB. People suck.

I honestly don't think they mean to.  I've joked about things that I wish I hadn't once I'm in the situation.  I get that it happens.  It's easy to be flippant and not think through what your words are really saying sometimes.  We all do it.

[joy]

Mar 23, 2015 11:37:50 GMT -5 @bloodyjack87 said:

Mar 23, 2015 11:25:55 GMT -5 @wineandcupcakes said:

Thanks, troll. Since finding out I need IVF and likely won't even respond well to it last week, I have been an emotional, crying mess who has been having spontaneous breakdowns. In fact, I took the day off and am still in bed at noon. I wake up and this is the first thing I read.

Fucking awesome, asshole.

Big (HUGS)!!

Oh dear.  Yes, big hugs to you @wineandcupcakes.

[longhornwino0907]

So many ((hugs)) @wineandcupcakes!

[ldubhawksfan]

((Hugs))) joy and @wineandcupcakes

[BrewGirl]

Ugh. Hugs joy and @wineandcupcakes.

Some people will never realize what self-entitled assholes they are. So a premature giant FUCK YOU to all the crazies that decide to show their nastiness this week. I'm sure we are not done with the morons.

[ttcminicofer]

(Hugs) joy and @wineandcupcakes I'm sorry!

[becwheat]

I am still surprised when people are hurtful and insensitive.. I should know better by now!

[divinemsbee]

Mar 23, 2015 11:29:00 GMT -5 joy said:

Mar 23, 2015 8:37:26 GMT -5 heatherj9603 said:

It's a sad sad world that we live in when people think IF is okay to joke about....

August '15 decided to rant about people on Baby Names who had opinions on names but weren't pregnant.  Apparently, my opinion doesn't count because I can't get pregnant.  Way to think through your fucking words, August 15.

The rage and complete heartache I feel over these statements can't be measured.  So, yeah - I believe that people can joke about IF just as much as someone can tell me that I don't count because I can't have a child.

Some people are complete assholes.

EDIT: NOT AN INVITATION TO START ANYTHING.  I've just been stewing over the past since last week and out it came.

I thought it was August '14, not August '15. I haven't been into the baby names thread on August '15 because I'm worried I'd piss people off, but if I need to kick ass and take names in there, let me know. I will absolutely take care of that.

[youdontsay]

Hugs to joy and @wineandcupcakes

[bibliothecary]

Mar 23, 2015 11:29:00 GMT -5 joy said:

Mar 23, 2015 8:37:26 GMT -5 heatherj9603 said:

It's a sad sad world that we live in when people think IF is okay to joke about....

August '15 decided to rant about people on Baby Names who had opinions on names but weren't pregnant.  Apparently, my opinion doesn't count because I can't get pregnant.  Way to think through your fucking words, August 15.

The rage and complete heartache I feel over these statements can't be measured.  So, yeah - I believe that people can joke about IF just as much as someone can tell me that I don't count because I can't have a child.

Some people are complete assholes.

EDIT: NOT AN INVITATION TO START ANYTHING.  I've just been stewing over the past since last week and out it came.

LMK if I need to do anything. That is not fucking okay.

[rablissful]

@wineandcupcakes ((hugs)) I am so sorry about your news. Trolls suck. Stay in bed as long as you need to.

joy I read that thread and got all ragey as well. At first I thought they were kidding but after it came out that they went back to their boards to bitch and moan I started turning bright red and getting angerface. I don't generally comment on the baby names board but I do love to lurk there.

[kawaiikitsune]

Mar 23, 2015 7:14:05 GMT -5 mistabinx said:

I'm gonna go out on a limb and say anime-like avatars should raise red flags at this point.

My inner weeaboo otaku is sad.

Edited because I used the wrong word.

[joy]

Mar 23, 2015 12:28:51 GMT -5 divinemsbee said:

I thought it was August '14, not August '15. I haven't been into the baby names thread on August '15 because I'm worried I'd piss people off, but if I need to kick ass and take names in there, let me know. I will absolutely take care of that.

oh shit, was it??  I'm sorry to slam to the wrong board!

[bibliothecary]

Mar 23, 2015 12:54:13 GMT -5 joy said:

Mar 23, 2015 12:28:51 GMT -5 divinemsbee said:

I thought it was August '14, not August '15. I haven't been into the baby names thread on August '15 because I'm worried I'd piss people off, but if I need to kick ass and take names in there, let me know. I will absolutely take care of that.

oh shit, was it??  I'm sorry to slam to the wrong board!

It's okay, love! If my people get out of line, you just LMK.

[bibliothecary]

^^^Accurate.

[divinemsbee]

Mar 23, 2015 12:57:12 GMT -5 bibliothecary said:

Mar 23, 2015 12:54:13 GMT -5 joy said:

oh shit, was it??  I'm sorry to slam to the wrong board!

It's okay, love! If my people get out of line, you just LMK.

It's totally fine, and let me know if Aug15 starts shit, we're generally a pretty boring bunch so far. You said August 15 was out of line and my first thoughts were very Liam Neeson in Taken, "I will find you" (whoever said that). And then I started going through threads because what was said was just so incredibly shitty and insensitive (I was on the BNB thread, but not the month board one).

For real, I'm sorry anyone said that. It was just crappy for absolutely no reason.

ETA: I'm not the only one with Neeson thoughts.

[kawaiikitsune]

Mar 23, 2015 12:45:01 GMT -5 mistabinx said:

Mar 23, 2015 12:43:24 GMT -5 kawaiikitsune said:

My inner weeaboo is sad.

I don't know what a weeaboo is but you know I lurves you gurrrrl

It's basically someone who is obsessed with Japan/anime, although it's usually used in a derogatory manner.

[♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪]

Hugs to @wineandcupcakes and joy.

Not gonna lie, I love seeing how many people are willing to internet-cut a bitch.

[butlerfan]

Hugs @wineandcupcakes and joy