After being 3 days late, AF finally showed up today after I had purchased some FRERs for testing tomorrow. I had also just looked up what my EDD would have been. I feel so very stupid for letting myself think we'd be one of those "as soon as you stop trying" couples. The worst part is my husband came with when I bought the tests so I let him down as well. I'm just so mad at myself for allowing myself to hope.
Oh well, not much I can do about it I will call tomorrow to schedule my HSG and Thursday is my CD3 blood draw for the 3 remaining things. Yay, I suppose.
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Post by snakefisherbub on Apr 1, 2015 22:40:48 GMT -5
Bumping this, don't care. Thanks for all the hugs and love yesterday.
I'm spotting! Hell fucking yeah! Strange to be excited for my period but it means moving on. Dr wants me to come in and check the last Hcg, my FSH, estradiol, TSH, hemoglobin a1c, and vitamin D since it's been 6 months since last checked. She did say that we could try again if hcg is zero. Haven't talked to my husband so I don't know if we will or not but we can.
So sorry guys about being late with checking in with everyone. I promise once I am done in "training" with my new job I will be a better community member!
kariann12-Good luck with your decisions. It is a super hard jump to go from TI to IUI. When H and I first started talking it seemed so far away but now it is here!
longhornwino0907-I am so sorry for the BFN. Hugs to you and all the feelz. The news of needing injects is like a kick to the gut and for that I am sorry to you. I hope your trip to HP world is amazing so at least you have some good news!!!!
rufus426-we are doing a veggie garden too this year! I hope you have great results!
lovegrilledcheese-Hope the meds aren’t getting to you like the last time! FX and everything else for Friday!!!!
@wineandcupcakes-Good luck with all your prep!
mainewifey-Good luck getting your H to do his labs. Hopefully he will see the point and make the appointment!
@bloodyjack87-Glad you made a decision and hope it works for you!!!
joy-I was the same way, I knew the odds but wasn’t ready to jump all in yet! I thik we were hoping to be able to conceive as close to the “normal” way as we could. It is a big leap to take TI out of the picture!
Stringy-hugs. I am sorry you are having a tough time and it does suck that you get the feelings of “it doesn’t matter anyways”. Extra hugs! We decided our treatment plans each month based on what we were comfortable with and what the RE suggested…which isn’t ever the same.
So sorry guys about being late with checking in with everyone. I promise once I am done in "training" with my new job I will be a better community member!
britterrss-I am sorry the metaformin made you sick! That stinks!
Daikoku-I feel like we are always on the opposite sides of the WTO/2WW and I miss your updates! FX for your Hubby’s SA on Friday!!!!
Rama-I had that type of thing happen this month. Small spotting on Saturday, what I thought was the start of CD 1 Sunday morning and by the afternoon it was done. When I had my CD 3 u/s I told the RE I was not even sure it was CD 3 at all! He did the ultrasound and confirmed that my lining was thin again and indeed the world’s lightest period was indeed a period. It still weirds me out, even with the confirmation!
getzystark-welcome! Good luck at your upcoming appts!!!!!
So sorry guys about being late with checking in with everyone. I promise once I am done in "training" with my new job I will be a better community member!
lilsneezy-I am sorry your husband is not being very supportive of you. Hugs. Feel free to vent and let it out here, that’s what we are here for!
snakefisherbub-All the big squishy hugs to you today! (also, the like is for support, not because anything you are going through is “likable”)The world is so unfair and some days it hits harder than others!! I hope your labs come back saying you can be done with those blood draws and able to start the process of moving forward. More hugs to you. Glad to see spotting has started!
cateyes I'm actually going in today for b/w and ultrasound! Yesterday was CD1 and they had 1 appointment today... The calendar at work is light today, so I'll be taking an early lunch! I'm not looking forward to it, but it is what it is and maybe we can get some answers!
Yay for spotting snake! Fx everything is back to where it should be!
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
Ok ladies... Talk to me about fibroids. Apparently my tilted uterus is actually a large fibroid. I have 3- one large and two smaller one. Pros and cons of surgery? I'm leaning towards the surgery to remove the 3 fibroids and repair the uterus where the large fibroid is pushing into.
Questions that I should ask the dr?? I was not expecting this, so I came in totally unprepared.
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
Ok ladies... Talk to me about fibroids. Apparently my tilted uterus is actually a large fibroid. I have 3- one large and two smaller one. Pros and cons of surgery? I'm leaning towards the surgery to remove the 3 fibroids and repair the uterus where the large fibroid is pushing into.
Questions that I should ask the dr?? I was not expecting this, so I came in totally unprepared.
I don't have any personnel knowledge but wanted to wish you luck!! I know that after surgery there is a recoup time where you cannot TTC, I believe 3-6 months.
Ok ladies... Talk to me about fibroids. Apparently my tilted uterus is actually a large fibroid. I have 3- one large and two smaller one. Pros and cons of surgery? I'm leaning towards the surgery to remove the 3 fibroids and repair the uterus where the large fibroid is pushing into.
Questions that I should ask the dr?? I was not expecting this, so I came in totally unprepared.
This is for sure something you'd want to talk to your doctor about vs us. Only your doc will be able to tell you if he thinks they are hindering getting pregnant.
I believe cateyes is correct that there is a bench period while you heal. Only you and your doc can decide if surgery is best for you.
IUI 1-3 BFN IVF #1 - Oct '15 - 10R, 3M, 0F IVF #2 - August 16 - 12R, 11M, 5F. 1 to transfer and 2 to freeze - BFP!! - MMC caught at 7w5d FET #1 - 1/26 - BFP, due 10/14
Ok ladies... Talk to me about fibroids. Apparently my tilted uterus is actually a large fibroid. I have 3- one large and two smaller one. Pros and cons of surgery? I'm leaning towards the surgery to remove the 3 fibroids and repair the uterus where the large fibroid is pushing into.
Questions that I should ask the dr?? I was not expecting this, so I came in totally unprepared.
This is for sure something you'd want to talk to your doctor about vs us. Only your doc will be able to tell you if he thinks they are hindering getting pregnant.
I believe cateyes is correct that there is a bench period while you heal. Only you and your doc can decide if surgery is best for you.
Good luck!!
Oh I'm definitely talking to my doctor- I was just completely blindsided yesterday. Wanted thoughts on people that had the surgery (and I got those on 3T) and what questions I should ask before. I have no clue about fibroids. I have picture perfect cycles, no heavy bleeding, no painful cramps. So I was shocked. His comment was 'it sure is crowded in there', which makes me want to get them out! He still thinks my cycle varying lengths will need additional help, but I think it was my uncontrolled (unknown) diabetes. Since I've controlled my blood sugar my cycle varies from 26-28 days (before there were a few 33 day cycles).
He told me we would only be benched one cycle. Leaving the fibroids could cause an increase risk of miscarriage. But there is no way to knowing this is what is causing us to not get pregnant. I'm just scared. I was expecting everything to be normal.
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
I'm way late getting back to this but it's been a rough few days. Just wanted to add welcome hugs to getzystark. You're definitely in the best company. Best of luck with all the testing coming up. snakefisherbub, I'm so sorry you were having such an emotional week and in limbo. I was too, and I'm so glad to see that you've updated with some spotting and good news. FX for this cycle! Cythe, you should always have hope for yourself and don't beat yourself up too much. I've done the same thing. I bought a pregnancy test at Walgreens and couldn't even wait to get home to pee so I went in the Walgreens bathroom just to find spotting. Huge hugs to you. I know how heartbreaking that is.
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