WTF Wednesday
Apr 8, 2015 9:44:01 GMT -5
Post by Sparkly on Apr 8, 2015 9:44:01 GMT -5
I'm so sorry mrss44! Wisdom teeth SUCK! (any tooth/teeth/mouth related thing sucks as far as I'm concerned, actually)
cabgirl, wow. just wow. That is horrible about your coworker and her daughter.
My WTF is to my DH. He's just annoying me. We go through phases where he isn't very proactive or helpful. I hate nagging and bossing him around, but I need help. I can't do everything myself, and I shouldn't have to. It's always when I'm having a hard time or extra stressed that it gets like this too, and he blames me for being negative and bitchy ... Well, maybe if you just DID things instead of my having to always ask for help when it should be obvious that I need it, I wouldn't be in such a bad mood! Ugh!
My specific issue last night was that I asked for help due to not feeling well, and he didn't give it. I texted him from work and asked if he could make dinner. He said yes, then I got home and he hadn't done anything so I ended up making it. Then I asked if he could get DD ready for bed (change diaper, pjs, teeth) and I would nurse and put her down (I usually do the whole routine). He changes her then brings her to me. I was like, "Did you brush her teeth?" He says no, rolls his eyes, and begrudgingly takes her to do it, but then of course she melts down because she's being taken away from me. If he had just DONE IT, she would have been fine. So the 5-10 minutes I wanted to sip some wine and zone out before putting her to bed (which is a nightmare usually) were ruined.
I honestly don't mind or feel that the "workload" or whatever is unevenly split, it's just he has to hold up his end of the bargain, and we should both have the opportunity to ask the other for help from time to time if we need it. I wish he felt that way and could pick up the slack when I'm having a tough time. I usually try to when I know that's the case for him. Sorry for the long rant.