Post by zombiesquad on Apr 13, 2015 14:25:48 GMT -5
I can't. I just can't. I mean I have, but I just felt extremely awkward and not sexy. So I can't. Nope. Not happening. Since my cycles tend to be on the longer side, it's usually not an issue anyway.
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Post by kawaiikitsune on Apr 13, 2015 14:26:18 GMT -5
My periods are usually very heavy with terrible cramps so I don't want MH anywhere near me. On the occasion I have a light flow or am spotting, I don't mind it and neither does MH. Hello, shower sex! No need to put down a towel and clean up is a breeze.
MH and I never actively try to have sex during my period; however, I used to have alot of breakthrough bleeding throughout my cycle so we had quite a few surprise visits during sex. Both of us got over it, otherwise we would have never had sex at all.
Also over the past few months I've become a sort of SS and only get my period for about 2 days, so obstaining during is not much of an issue these days.
Doesn't his penis hit the soft cup? ::anatomically confused::
My husband can feel it, but it bothers him at a 2 on a scale of 1 to 10... the cup is pretty high up there, and pretty flexible (the cup part), so it doesn't interfere too much. We still don't tend to have sex on my heaviest days because I don't feel sexy, but it is nice to have the option...
I will say, it's easier in a non-standard sized tub/shower. You need something wider than a standard tub so you can straddle.
First, we don't have a tub/shower, just a square shower stall. With our height difference, it doesn't work. Second, anything in the shower/water makes things dry. No. No. NOPE.
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Post by mlgnumbers on Apr 13, 2015 14:56:31 GMT -5
We do. Not on the heaviest day, usually, but the other 2-3 days are up for grabs. We've got a simple system that keeps the mess to a distinct minimum. Neither he nor I can usually go a full three days without it.
And also, shower sex during one's period is much better than at other times of my cycle...natural lubrication that's fairly plentiful and resistant to being washed away immediately, but easily cleaned up after the fact.
Post by singingsea on Apr 13, 2015 14:59:42 GMT -5
H is not bothered by blood. Usually we lay down an old towel or it's shower sex. Shower sex is not my favorite. Especially when the water starts to get cold
Let's most definitely have a fight about who and who isn't doing shower sex right. Because it's super duper important to me where and when other people choose to have their secks.
Post by notthedroids on Apr 13, 2015 15:38:34 GMT -5
We do not but it's mainly because I always feel like shit during my period (migraine, cramps, etc). H doesn't seem against it, he just won't ask for it because he knows it's the last thing I want at that point.
Let's most definitely have a fight about who and who isn't doing shower sex right. Because it's super duper important to me where and when other people choose to have their secks.
As long as you aren't doing it in the shower, that's all I care about.
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Let's most definitely have a fight about who and who isn't doing shower sex right. Because it's super duper important to me where and when other people choose to have their secks.
As long as you aren't doing it in the shower, that's all I care about.
FTR, don't have sex in the shower. MH always wants to get in with me and I'm like, newp. Doesn't work.
Andplusalso, I barely have time to shower and shave my legs and such that needs to be done, I def don't have time to try to have sex while I'm in there too.
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