I am sorry she passed away - she was an amazing gal the few encounters I had with her on TB.
This conversation has nothing to do with her passing away. The fact that she did pass away is upsetting, but the 2 events are completely unrelated. This conversation happened yesterday and OTHER PEOPLE keep bringing it up. I wasn't raised to just sit back and let others put words in my mouth or speak badly of me.
Why would you want to stay where you aren't welcome?
You all seem very concerned about this...
I refuse to be bullied. I'll stay and continue to learn about my body and TTC.
Telling you that you are an asshole after you have repeatedly proven that you are is NOT "cyber bullying".
Also if you don't like it GTFO.
My opinion about a hair style DOES NOT make me an asshole. Standing up for myself because you disagree with me DOES NOT make an asshole. You all ganging up and repeatedly telling me to GTFO and carrying on and on and on and on and on...yes, that is bullying.
Nope, just raised to act like a smug asshole I guess.
This.
Except replace facebook with GKU.
So you barge in to an established community & spew some shit. When you get called out on it, instead of listening to any other side of the argument, you immediately resort to name calling, tantrums & trolling. You act like an asshole (and I truly believe it's purposeful) and then I'm cyber bullying you because I call a spade a spade?
You've been here like a week. Yesterday would have been a good opportunity for you to sit back & maybe learn how things are around here, but instead you were hell bent on being perceived as someone who's "not gonna take any shit" when instead you looked like a fucking fool. You can speak your mind here, you can disagree here. When you act fucking disrespectful to the members of the community you're trying to be a part of, people calling you out isn't cyber bullying. Please stop with that nonsense.
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Add me to the "white as a ghost" team. It's especially unfair, as I'm part native. My dad and sister tan beautifully, my mom and I turn into lobsters and then revert back to our natural, pasty state. Why couldn't I have gotten the "able to tan" gene? It's not fair
DH and S are also super white. DH claims to tan, but I'm pretty sure his freckles just merge together, he's got a ginger's complexion, but with slightly darker hair. S has been told since birth that he's a pasty white boy, and therefore is not allowed outside without a hat and a ton of sunscreen.
ETA: I'm ignoring the troll. She's clearly not listening, so I'm not going to waste my breath
Well, I would love to stay and argue with you about the definition of bullies and opinions and other nonsense that you keep telling me to not bring up but then you bring up and get all huffy about...but I've got a wonderful weekend planned with my kiddos. Stay classy...HA! See ya Monday!
mamabee, it's one thing to say you don't like dreads, and another to day that it's associated with being dirty and lazy. How can you not see the difference between what is and is not an acceptable opinion? You mocked our admins and were just plain childish after being called out on your mistake, and rightfully so. If you want to stay, then stay, but please have some respect and do not add any more fuel to fire on this emotional day. That's all I've got to say.
Telling you that you are an asshole after you have repeatedly proven that you are is NOT "cyber bullying".
Also if you don't like it GTFO.
My opinion about a hair style DOES NOT make me an asshole. Standing up for myself because you disagree with me DOES NOT make an asshole. You all ganging up and repeatedly telling me to GTFO and carrying on and on and on and on and on...yes, that is bullying.
Okay, I am going to try one more time. My view is this: your opinion did make you sound like an asshole because it was just hurtful! You basically called people that have dreadlocks disgusting/gross/dirty (or whatever word you used). That is just plain mean!! Can you not see that? And you said that it was lazy! What fuels that opinion?? What argument do you possibly have for having that opinion?
And what further makes you sound like an asshole is that you are digging your heels SO far in the ground about the possibility that you may be wrong! It's an opinion, yes, but it is a hurtful one with which the majority of this community disagrees. This should mean something to you.
This isn't one of those things where like, yeah, you are the only one who thinks the way you do, but you must stand by your convictions because they are morally sound! No, this is one of those things where you came off tactless, but don't want to be proven wrong, so you just act like you don't care because FUCK 'EM ALL! It's so wrong.
No one cares that you don't like dreadlocks. What people care about is that you made it out to be that people with dreadlocks are beneath you. THAT is the problem. It is so silly to stick up for an argument the way you have. It's just sad to me that you wouldn't care to even ENTERTAIN the opposite view. You wouldn't even watch that video because you were being So. Fucking. Stubborn.
Please read what I am writing and think about it. I really am trying to explain to you how I feel.
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Post by akraus2015 on Apr 24, 2015 16:42:30 GMT -5
FFFC: I have been a dirty love-titing lurker for the past two days without contributing anything of significance, mainly because I'm always mobile and was too lazy to actually post anything.
FFFC #2: Somehow in the past two years I have gone from a completely independent, self-sufficient adult who always managed life on my own very well, and have turned into someone who can't even sleep through the night without my fiancé. When the hell did that happen?!
My opinion about a hair style DOES NOT make me an asshole. Standing up for myself because you disagree with me DOES NOT make an asshole. You all ganging up and repeatedly telling me to GTFO and carrying on and on and on and on and on...yes, that is bullying.
Okay, I am going to try one more time. My view is this: your opinion did make you sound like an asshole because it was just hurtful! You basically called people that have dreadlocks disgusting/gross/dirty (or whatever word you used). That is just plain mean!! Can you not see that? And you said that it was lazy! What fuels that opinion?? What argument do you possibly have for having that opinion?
And what further makes you sound like an asshole is that you are digging your heels SO far in the ground about the possibility that you may be wrong! It's an opinion, yes, but it is a hurtful one with which the majority of this community disagrees. This should mean something to you.
This isn't one of those things where like, yeah, you are the only one who thinks the way you do, but you must stand by your convictions because they are morally sound! No, this is one of those things where you came off tactless, but don't want to be proven wrong, so you just act like you don't care because FUCK 'EM ALL! It's so wrong.
No one cares that you don't like dreadlocks. What people care about is that you made it out to be that people with dreadlocks are beneath you. THAT is the problem. It is so silly to stick up for an argument the way you have. It's just sad to me that you wouldn't care to even ENTERTAIN the opposite view. You wouldn't even watch that video because you were being So. Fucking. Stubborn.
Please read what I am writing and think about it. I really am trying to explain to you how I feel.
Telling you that you are an asshole after you have repeatedly proven that you are is NOT "cyber bullying".
Also if you don't like it GTFO.
My opinion about a hair style DOES NOT make me an asshole. Standing up for myself because you disagree with me DOES NOT make an asshole. You all ganging up and repeatedly telling me to GTFO and carrying on and on and on and on and on...yes, that is bullying.
I find it to be your bullshit fucking apology for offending people that makes you an asshole.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
Same here. It's even better when the other person/people cancel plans, because then you can stay at home and don't have to feel responsible for coming up with excuses.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
Same here. It's even better when the other person/people cancel plans, because then you can stay at home and don't have to feel responsible for coming up with excuses.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
+1, so much more as I get older. When I moved to Colorado by myself I so badly wanted to try meetup but my social anxiety got the best of me every time I RSVP'd to an event and I would never show up. I see so much of my mother in me as I get older, and she struggles with severe social anxiety, and I'm afraid I'm starting to get more and more uncomfortable trying to make new friends as an adult.
Confession: I'm a homebody to a fault. Making friends as a grown up is hard, and I'm supposed to go to a meetup / game night? I'm finding every excuse in the world to stay home, and be a lump instead.
FFFC: I have been a dirty love-titing lurker for the past two days without contributing anything of significance, mainly because I'm always mobile and was too lazy to actually post anything.
FFFC #2: Somehow in the past two years I have gone from a completely independent, self-sufficient adult who always managed life on my own very well, and have turned into someone who can't even sleep through the night without my fiancé. When the hell did that happen?!
I'm always mobile. I never shut up. What kind of phone do you have?
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