I'm realizing that I tell my husband way more than most people do. I pretty much tell him everything. He knew the first day I was on the boards. It just comes up in our daily "how was your day? what did you do?" conversation.
MH will say to me, So how are the girls?
MH knows about this too. He asks me at least a few times a week, "Anything interesting happen on your board today?" And he took a picture of me wearing his gaming headphones the first time I joined in on chat, because he thought it was funny how the tables had turned. (I used to tease him for talking to "pretend" people on the internet)
Exactly. Also- I want to tell him things. When I get new clothing or new shoes I want to show him. He's my best friend- I get excited to tell him these things. Never once has he asked me if I should have really bought something or asked me to return anything.
My husband is my best friend, in every way. But I do not think it necessary to tell him about every penny I spend. That just seems ridiculous to me.
My husband is my best friend, in every way. But I do not think it necessary to tell him about every penny I spend. That just seems ridiculous to me.
I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. I was saying the I tell MH everything and I get excited to tell him stuff. I'm also a talker and sometimes don't know when to shut up. So he gets to hear about all the stupid boring little parts of my day. Just me I guess.
I'm the same with MH. I come home from a grocery shopping trip and feel the need to tell him about everything I bought and if I found any especially good deals. I know he doesn't really care but I like talking to him and he's a good sport and listens attentively.
I keep money in an account that my husband can't access. He knows that it exists but doesn't know what's in it. (there's rarely more than 100). The reason for this is because he has screwed us over with impulse purchases multiple times. I only recently gave him his debit card back but i'm considering taking it away again. He tried to get me to agree to buying a case of beer from Belgium. He thinks its a good investment.
Post by mustloveerica on May 1, 2015 9:52:45 GMT -5
DH doesn't know I'm on here. Not because I'm embarrassed but because it just never came up. I don't think he would care. He chats on video games and and stuff.
Also my avatar is me (although my face isn't shown) and my real name is Erica. I fail at online security.
DH doesn't know I'm on here. Not because I'm embarrassed but because it just never came up. I don't think he would care. He chats on video games and and stuff.
Also my avatar is me (although my face isn't shown) and my real name is Erica. I fail at online security.
ghostmonkey, I'm going to need you to go ahead and say something hateful/that I disagree with. The amount of agreement/LTs shared betwixt us lately is making me uncomfortable.
I'm the same with MH. I come home from a grocery shopping trip and feel the need to tell him about everything I bought and if I found any especially good deals. I know he doesn't really care but I like talking to him and he's a good sport and listens attentivelypretends to listen.
FTFY.
FFFC: I got tired of not knowing that FTFY stood for, so I had to google it. Now I feel stupid. ::smacks forehead::
Post by goldenlove3 on May 1, 2015 10:02:36 GMT -5
I know I'm a little late on these things but the only reason I tell H what I bought is because I get excited about the great deals I found. I'll come home and be like "I got 4 shirts, shoes and a pair of pants for only $50!" He just smiles and nods. We have a clothes budget and each get spending cash so I don't HAVE to tell him as long as I stay within budget.
Regarding toe shaving.. the first time I went to acupuncture was in February after a long winter not caring about my toes. My toe nails were half painted and my hairs were long. I didn't know that feet were going to be a major acupuncture spot! I felt bad and now make sure my feet aren't gross for her.
ghostmonkey, I'm going to need you to go ahead and say something hateful/that I disagree with. The amount of agreement/LTs shared betwixt us lately is making me uncomfortable.
Me too. I'm trying to decide if this is the end of days, and whether I should head out to start buying flats of water.
Just make sure you don't lie to your husband about why you are buying them.
I honestly had to go search who this was (know the face not the name) the first time it was brought up. I was surprised it was a guy because I thought Mel was short for Melanie.
Post by ohinvrtedworld on May 1, 2015 10:14:13 GMT -5
My avatar is correct. I do, in fact, only care about pizza.
FFFC: my username is from the knot, made in haste and I didn't even use it. I didn't know I could change it on TD. I don't like it now but it feels too late to change!
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I'm the same with MH. I come home from a grocery shopping trip and feel the need to tell him about everything I bought and if I found any especially good deals. I know he doesn't really care but I like talking to him and he's a good sport and listens attentivelypretends to listen.
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