Post by salsamommy on Mar 1, 2015 6:52:31 GMT -5
Hello! My name is: SalsaMommy
What brought me to the SP board? (short or semi-short version):
XH and I were married for 4.5 years. At our housewarming party, just before our 1 year anniversary, he pushed me down the stairs when he was drunk. Things started to get better, until Ingot pregnant with our son the following year. He was always verbally abusive to me, especially when he drank. He worked abroad for months at a time, so there was some reprieve there. Things got worse after DS was born. Fast forward to 2013, went on a family vacation to see if there was any way to save our marriage and family. It was the second worst vacation of my life! About three weeks later though, he was away working and I found out I was pregnant. When he returned a few weeks later, I told him and his response was shocking. He said many hurtful things and threw his wedding ring at my leg while driving and DS was in the car. Then said "I don't believe your pregnant. If you are it isn't mine. If it is mine, shall we get rid of it" at that point, my respect for him went out the window. Things unravelled and 2 months later we separated. I had our DD January 2014. He served me with divorce papers Feb 15 2014. Where he made no mention of the new addition and when my lawyer responded, he came back to say I hid that I was pregnant from him.
My favorite way to spend my free time is:
With the kids and when I get a chance, I love salsa dancing! I've been a dancer my whole life!
My favorite condiment is:
Mayo!
I can't live without (something frivolous! Family/friends/pets are a given!):
My music any gym membership. It's like my mini getaway,
A little tidbit about my LO (Little One):
DS is turning 4 in 2 weeks. He LOVES Big Hero 6 and Lego!
DD is 13 and a half months. She's a little pistol and her brother and I love her so much.
What brought me to the SP board? (short or semi-short version):
XH and I were married for 4.5 years. At our housewarming party, just before our 1 year anniversary, he pushed me down the stairs when he was drunk. Things started to get better, until Ingot pregnant with our son the following year. He was always verbally abusive to me, especially when he drank. He worked abroad for months at a time, so there was some reprieve there. Things got worse after DS was born. Fast forward to 2013, went on a family vacation to see if there was any way to save our marriage and family. It was the second worst vacation of my life! About three weeks later though, he was away working and I found out I was pregnant. When he returned a few weeks later, I told him and his response was shocking. He said many hurtful things and threw his wedding ring at my leg while driving and DS was in the car. Then said "I don't believe your pregnant. If you are it isn't mine. If it is mine, shall we get rid of it" at that point, my respect for him went out the window. Things unravelled and 2 months later we separated. I had our DD January 2014. He served me with divorce papers Feb 15 2014. Where he made no mention of the new addition and when my lawyer responded, he came back to say I hid that I was pregnant from him.
My favorite way to spend my free time is:
With the kids and when I get a chance, I love salsa dancing! I've been a dancer my whole life!
My favorite condiment is:
Mayo!
I can't live without (something frivolous! Family/friends/pets are a given!):
My music any gym membership. It's like my mini getaway,
A little tidbit about my LO (Little One):
DS is turning 4 in 2 weeks. He LOVES Big Hero 6 and Lego!
DD is 13 and a half months. She's a little pistol and her brother and I love her so much.