37 wk appt yesterday. 40-50% effaced, but no change in dilation from last week, which she called a fingertip to half a cm. GBS was negative. Otherwise a boring appt, which I see as a good thing. Next appt is next Thursday.
Hi all - you've all been so sweet. I went to my doctors office and after a once over and a bit of discussion he decided to send me to L&D for an NST. He called ahead for me and the nurses at the hospital were wonderful. Because this little boy has a sense of humor, he decided that he would show off during the NST! They had me hooked up for 45 minutes and said he's had literally "a beautiful script", totally textbook. Was a HUGE sigh of relief. I was told by my doctor in no uncertain terms "from here on in if theres any bleeding or spotting you go right to L&D. Also, if you do your kick count next time and he's under 10 kicks in two hours, I want you to go right to L&D". So, billyhorrible, you were TOTALLY right. The nurse told me that she was impressed I knew about the kick counts and that I did it right. She said she was happy to see me back if I had the same results as last night and to not worry. Sounds like the wee boy is safe and happy. Doc is going to do my Strep B test Tuesday because he wants to make sure we have it done just in case the boy makes an early appearance.
Today according to my due date (not my ovulation but whatever) I hit 36 weeks. Had a growth u/s and bpp. Baby boy isn't a buffalo and he doesn't have too much fluid so na-na-nuh-na-na to you ob who saw me for 5 minutes and ruined me for a week! He is in the 73% and has a bit of a big abdomen which could indicate big baby but at this point he's fiiiiiiine. Whew! Weekly bpp and nst, MFM doesn't feel at this point I should be induced at 39 weeks (said it isn't worth the risk as a ftm to lead to c-sect.) He said my BMI is a concern that alone would have added NSTs but my weight control is "beautiful" and that risk factor is covered by my GD diagnosis anyway -fist pump- He was also a total sweetie addressing breast feeding (very rah rah don't give up and shared how his wife struggled but he encouraged her to get through the first 5 days) and ppd. As far as male doctors in their 60's go he's such a cool dude! My love language is words of affirmation and someone of authority telling me I'm ok and doing well is such a relief after a month of feeling like a failure. Seriously sitting in my car crying happy tears of relief.
Bonus points that baby is head down today and that he has to cutest little pout! Couldn't see his whole face because I got hit with a wave of nausea but she said she was done anyway.
Tl;dr I had a good growth u/s and consult with MFM
wormgerm - yay for good news!! So glad to hear that everything is better than you'd been told previously. What a relief! Stay strong in there little man!
Had my 37 week appointment yesterday. The APRN said I'm measuring 40 weeks and was unconcerned saying that I'm "definitely growing a big baby." I told her I was 9.5 lbs when I was born 2 weeks late and she said "well not THAT big" lol. I wish she were delivering patients still because I really enjoy her very calm and understanding nurse approach :-)
Trace swelling to my ankles but I barely notice and my BP is good. I'm also back to consciously avoiding looking at the scale.
Bad-ish news is that I'm GBS +. I was hoping to not get an IV at all during labor but I guess that's out the window now. Not that I'm afraid of needless or anything, I just wanted the most intervention-free experience possible.
Just got my results on the patient portal and I am GBS + too. I wasn't planning to avoid an IV anyway, so I figure it's no big deal, but I was also kinda bummed. Definitely not the worst thing I have dealt with through this process either. It's already been clear that I was not destined for a glitter unicorn farts pregnancy.
Post by ThePalindromicOne on May 22, 2015 10:54:32 GMT -5
38 week check-in today. Momma BP/weight/swelling all good, Baby HR good (after an attempt at kick counts last night... eekkss), Head down but not dropped at all, dilated zilch, 50% effaced, estimating 6.5 lbs. No imminent escape in the works!
Post by holliberry28 on May 22, 2015 11:08:09 GMT -5
I don't have an appointment today but can I be an SS for a minute? My feet seem way too swollen, none of my shoes fit, and when I press on the top of my foot, it hurts pretty bad. I have been only wearing flip flops and trying to walk more, but I'm not sure how normal this is. BP and everything else seems normal, should I still call the OB?
I don't have an appointment today but can I be an SS for a minute? My feet seem way too swollen, none of my shoes fit, and when I press on the top of my foot, it hurts pretty bad. I have been only wearing flip flops and trying to walk more, but I'm not sure how normal this is. BP and everything else seems normal, should I still call the OB?
I don't have an appointment today but can I be an SS for a minute? My feet seem way too swollen, none of my shoes fit, and when I press on the top of my foot, it hurts pretty bad. I have been only wearing flip flops and trying to walk more, but I'm not sure how normal this is. BP and everything else seems normal, should I still call the OB?
A call never ever hurts
It sounds like nothing to me. But a call is harmless and it sounds like it would make you feel better.
I don't have an appointment today but can I be an SS for a minute? My feet seem way too swollen, none of my shoes fit, and when I press on the top of my foot, it hurts pretty bad. I have been only wearing flip flops and trying to walk more, but I'm not sure how normal this is. BP and everything else seems normal, should I still call the OB?
I work in a podiatrist's office, and I can tell you from her "teaching" me, flip flops are horrible (even though they are comfortable and I will still be rocking mine this weekend.) Walking in flip flops has probably aggravated some inflammation in your feet. I would see if you can loosen tennis shoes to fit you to get some support and if it gets worse, try compression socks. Make sure you're drinking plenty of water and elevating.
If it does not get any better with those things, I would call.
Post by baytosa2013 on May 22, 2015 11:16:36 GMT -5
Just got back to work from my 37 week appointment and not great news. Baby is breech, meh little stinker. Baby's heart rate is good but my fluid is a little low. The dr said it's not uncommon for this late in the game though. She also said that the baby is high and my cervix, although 1cm dilated, is still long and firm so not favorable.
We talked about my options and decided against the manual inversion because this is my first pregnancy, my fluid is low and the placenta is at the top. She said they are more successful with women who have more fluid and have had pervious pregnancies. She is also worried that the manual manipulation will mess with the placenta and cause fetal distress sending me to an emergency C-section and she doesn't want that.
So for right now the plan is that I am getting scheduled to go in for surgery on June 4th. She will continue to check me next week and the morning of surgery. If the baby has turned she will cancel surgery and then determine if my cervix is favorable and softening. If so she will keep me and induce, if not she will send me on home to wait another week. She did say there's always still a chance she will turn but she'd rather have me on the books and prepared than to go in to an emergency situation.
Just left my doctor follow up and she confirmed that June 5 it is for the little guy's arrival! My BP was a little higher but still perfectly normal and she isn't concerned about his weight at all from yesterday's sono. In fact, she had no idea what I was talking about and had to look at the report. She said since fluid, placenta and flow from the cord are all great, he's perfectly fine and "just won't be an 8 pounder".
I'm happy to have a final resolution in place and now we truly can prepare (assuming no early surprises) for his arrival in 2 weeks! That's SO soon!
2nd NST this week went well and Baby Girl is doing great. I had some contractions during the NST but it was no big deal...I have 3 appointments for next week. 2 NSTs and an Ultrasound. Dr is also calling today schedule my c-section in 3 weeks. Looking at June 12th and she'll give me all the info on Tuesday.....We're getting so close & I swear they're gonna be sick of seeing me lol
Had my 38 week appointment today. Nothing new to report other than all is well. I have a new appointment for two weeks today when I'll be 40+1. If I've not delivered then they'll set an induction date at that appointment for when u am 41+5. So exciting to think I'll either not make that appointment & I'll have an induction date. Although I'm hoping even if I do attend that appointment that I won't need the induction.
Had my 38 week appointment today. Nothing new to report other than all is well. I have a new appointment for two weeks today when I'll be 40+1. If I've not delivered then they'll set an induction date at that appointment for when u am 41+5. So exciting to think I'll either not make that appointment & I'll have an induction date. Although I'm hoping even if I do attend that appointment that I won't need the induction.
Did your OB/MW mention anything about a NST at 40+1? I'm not a doctor, but I'd be a little surprised they'd space things out so much (40+1 then 41+5) without one.
Saw the doctor today for GSB, ultrasound and 35/36 week appt. Everything was good - kiddo is head down (his head looks huge. joy) and she thinks we're looking at an 8 lb kiddo when all is said and done. I got the clear to drive to my parents' this weekend (and then no more travel), and I'll see her again June 9. Basically she said "It all looks good, see you in a few weeks"
ETA: I keep seeing June dates for CS and inductions and thinking "but that's weeks away..." It might be time to start realizing that this is not as far away as I think...
Post by sugarbean17 on May 22, 2015 13:47:06 GMT -5
37 week appointment today. GSB negative! Baby is in a great position head way down, back facing my left. Weekly NST was good baby started a bit sluggish and then rocked out! My midwife decided she wants to do membrane sweeps each week to reduce the chance/need of induction at 40 weeks per the suggestion of the perinatologist. During my membrane sweep she said I was 3 cm 50% effaced. However knowing my body and how things went with my other two kiddos I will likely stay there for another couple of weeks.
So, I just had my 37 week appointment. As I expected, my blood pressure was still high and I did get pulled out of work. Even more surprising, though I should've seen this coming, the doctor said that they will not let me go over 39 weeks and plan to induce me on June 5. That means that two weeks from today, I will be in the hospital getting ready to have the baby. It's going to take a few days to wrap my mind around the idea of an induction and that baby will be here very soon!
I'm glad they wrote you out without you needing to ask. It definitely sounds like next week would not have been the best thing for you and your LO. It's crazy how close we are all getting to having outside babies!!
ETA: I keep seeing June dates for CS and inductions and thinking "but that's weeks away..." It might be time to start realizing that this is not as far away as I think...
Oh gosh I know. I was looking at the weather forecast today and my app goes to 14 days...June 5..that's only 3 days before my due date. When the heck did that pop up so fast?!
Had my tdap, gsb, and a cervix check today. Woof. Only dilated a finger tip so this little guy is playing along with my plan to not have him early! Such a good boy.
I don't have an appointment today but can I be an SS for a minute? My feet seem way too swollen, none of my shoes fit, and when I press on the top of my foot, it hurts pretty bad. I have been only wearing flip flops and trying to walk more, but I'm not sure how normal this is. BP and everything else seems normal, should I still call the OB?
I will share my anecdote: I can only fit into a pair of sneakers that are a size larger and one pair of flip flops, my feet feel like a huge bruise they're so tender, and all of my joints hurt. Even with all of that AND my BP, the doctors haven't been concerned because it was a gradual onset and some of the swelling goes down at night. I do think you're probably fine, but every person's situation is different, and it never hurts to give a call and ask.
Thanks budders. I did call and almost said to the midwife.."Sorry for being an SS..." but didn't. They weren't concerned; they said as long as there isn't severe leg pain, especially behind the knees, should be fine. My office in general are way too laid back sometimes it seems. Or just don't give a fuck.
Edited because I just read your post. YAY for being done with work and getting to meet your LO!!! 2 weeks- I can't believe it
Had my 38 week appointment today. Nothing new to report other than all is well. I have a new appointment for two weeks today when I'll be 40+1. If I've not delivered then they'll set an induction date at that appointment for when u am 41+5. So exciting to think I'll either not make that appointment & I'll have an induction date. Although I'm hoping even if I do attend that appointment that I won't need the induction.
Did your OB/MW mention anything about a NST at 40+1? I'm not a doctor, but I'd be a little surprised they'd space things out so much (40+1 then 41+5) without one.
She never mentioned anything other than what I've said above. She may do one at the 40+1 appointment, I'm guessing that's when they check for dilation/effacement ect?. But she's mentioned nothing like that. & says its just a waiting game now. If I don't go before or on my due date then I'll have an induction. I've just to rest and keep my fluid intake up.
Had my 38 week appointment today. Nothing new to report other than all is well. I have a new appointment for two weeks today when I'll be 40+1. If I've not delivered then they'll set an induction date at that appointment for when u am 41+5. So exciting to think I'll either not make that appointment & I'll have an induction date. Although I'm hoping even if I do attend that appointment that I won't need the induction.
Did your OB/MW mention anything about a NST at 40+1? I'm not a doctor, but I'd be a little surprised they'd space things out so much (40+1 then 41+5) without one.
Maybe cnumbers can comment more, but I believe some parts of Europe consider the due date to be at 42 weeks. If I remember correctly, she's not in the US. I could be way off on all of the above, but that was my only thought.
Did your OB/MW mention anything about a NST at 40+1? I'm not a doctor, but I'd be a little surprised they'd space things out so much (40+1 then 41+5) without one.
Maybe cnumbers can comment more, but I believe some parts of Europe consider the due date to be at 42 weeks. If I remember correctly, she's not in the US. I could be way off on all of the above, but that was my only thought.
Yes, whilst we have our EDD. If you go past that then they will not let you go by 42w's which is why my induction would be scheduled for 41+5. Hoping I don't need it though and hoping I go either before or on my due date. I've been having achy twinges for the last few days. Maybe I'm being SS or wishful thinking but it's all down to my body. Just a waiting game now as she said I can go at any time & I've to just rest. I'm not dwelling on my EDD too much, knowing he'll be here within the month is enough for me.
Had another appt today. Baby looks great. My BP is still high, some protein in urine and still really anemic. Have to up my iron intake and go back Tueday. He said as long as contractions stay between 8-10 minutes we should be alright. Baby has some good pockets of fluid still and placenta looks good. We could see baby practicing his breathing which is a good sign. He doesn't think I need bed rest yet but will revisit Tuesday. I just need to take it easy.
nicolec78, hope you can rest and take it easy now! Definitely keep a close eye on things.
I had a quick check-in yesterday, but have a BPP and a full appointment tomorrow. Not looking forward to the GBS test, especially because the MW in-office tomorrow is one I haven't met yet. Hi! Please swab my butthole! It's so nice to meet you! Gag.
At any rate, MW had me tested for a UTI just in case, since I've had a little cramping and a low grade fever a few nights. Apparently you don't need to have the utter burnination and peeing daggers feeling that usually come with a UTI. I've been schooled.
MW really took time to help me chill out a bit about these last few weeks. They are watching me like a hawk because of the PIH, strong family history of pre-e (I was born at 35 weeks after my mom went into kidney failure from pre-e), and my low PAPP-A. She reiterated that this bun will not be a 42-weeker, and depending on how my NSTs and BPPs go, they'd consider inducing me as early as 39 weeks if my body doesn't initiate labor on its own. We are literally going a week at a time to decide how we proceed. It's nerve wracking, but I feel like the MW team is really "on my side," if that makes sense. MW yesterday also really listened to my concerns about lack of dignity, etc. when you have to go through something as potentially invasive as induction.
I am still hoping to make it to the 39 week point, but I'm only one week from early term - so I am counting my blessings! Never thought I'd make it this far.
I know a few of us mamas are having/potentially having inductions. Would it be too SS-y to start a check-in about it? I'm still majorly freaked out about the possibility of induction...I mean, just the thought of a "cervical catheter" makes me wanna curl into a ball and hide. Would love to share others' Zen on the matter haha.
*edited for typing fail
Honestly I am a little bit confused about your concern about lack of dignity? When I was induced, a thought like that never crossed my mind, so I'd like to hear where you are coming from. Also I'm not sure if I would categorize it as potentially invasive either, although I understand more about where you are coming from when you say that. If you have any other SS concerns, I'd love to hear them. Induction may not be as bad as you are making it out to be.
ETA: Because I didn't notice the first time you were talking about a Foley bulb, lol.
Sorry for delayed response - I'm slow this week!
Yes, Foley bulb for dilation. MW mentioned they would try one of those if Cervidil didn't work.
I should have clarified better what I meant by lack of dignity - more background probably would have made that a lot more sensical!
I apologize if this is long-winded: For the MWs I work with, induction requires that one of the OBs be involved in the labor/delivery process. I really don't know the OBs (other than the 30 sec conversation I had with one of them after an NST, which was...interesting), so I'm definitely not super thrilled at the prospect of having them involved in everything all of a sudden. Logically, I understand the need for additional consultation when things get a little more complicated, but it's still something new to mentally parse into my whole concept of this giving birth thing. I feel like the MWs are much better at taking their time to explain things and are more supportive of advocating for one's self. Also, some of the OBs are male...and I have big issues with male providers for ob/gyn care (I'm a sexual assault survivor, and I really don't like men other than my husband touching me).
I worry about working with the OBs I really don't know and being in a position where I feel like they are making all of the decisions for me - the loss of control and potential patient-ization (as opposed to personalization) by a provider who has little investment in me, in my mind, is closely related to lack of dignity. Also, I've really gotten to know all the MWs in the practice over the course of this pregnancy, so I feel a lot more comfortable with them, as opposed to someone I don't know (or someone who doesn't really know my history) examining me.
Additionally, given that induction is, in and of itself an intervention, it can also mean more internal checks and monitoring that might not otherwise be part of the package.
TL;DR - The thought of a Foley bulb in my cervix kinda makes me want to superglue my vag shut. Also, I take a lot of time to warm up to providers and have major anxiety issues when I feel put in a position where I can't advocate for myself. My MWs have been wicked awesome at helping maintain my sense of modesty and my sense of dignity (or sense of being human, as opposed to just a medical dummy) even during the most invasive exams. I'm really scared that the OBs won't.
Had my 37 week appointment on Wednesday and a NST. During the NST--it was the first time I wasn't regularly contracting in like...five weeks (which I was put on "home rest"--still working just from home) for on May 1st. So that's an interesting development. I'm 1/2 cm dilated and 30 percent effaced. No one's too excited. If you would have asked me three weeks ago, I would have never thought I'd be making it into my 38th week. Now, I'm like..."if I hang on until my due date---I'll be out almost through labor day..." so I'm kinda hanging on here. That's a better outlook to have than sitting and waiting and wishing for it to be done, right?
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