My rainbow arrived 10/15/14.
5 cycles of "TTC" - 3 intentional, 2 not so intentional. 5 BFPs.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
So I don't know if I have mentioned a girl I know, who was pregnant the same time as me. Her DS is 6 months and she just found out she is 10 weeks pregnant. I should have said congratulations, but I have been putting it off because I actually feel a little sad. She didn't want her first when she found out it was a boy. She is very spoilt, asking her partners parents to buy a £900 pushchair but wouldn't pay anything towards it because she was saving for her £100 lipstick and other expensive make up.
The couple have been together for just over a year and are in counselling because all they do is fight. They live with his parents and she has taken their room so hi parents sleep in the living room. Yesterday she said she will go through with the pregnancy because at least that means she will get more gifts. I just cant bring myself to speak to her. Maybe I am just judgemental...
No, I would be the same way. I know babies are blessing and it's nice to say "Congrats" and not judge, but it's normal to judge I think.
There is a girl in our acquaintance group that had a baby two weeks before me. I should probably try to be closer to her and hang out, but I don't. We are just way different people and I unfortunately judge her. She is out at the bars at least once a week and is always posting about girls' nights out, etc.
I've been away from DS for work, a hair cut, and to clean my house. I don't like being judgey, because to each their own, but it's different priorities I think. Does that make sense?
Yeah I totally get it. Different priorities is actually a big factor on who you get on with. This girls first priority is her. She says he partner doesn't earn enough but then doesn't put her own money toward anything. To each their own, but I am kind of the opposite. I would prefer I pay for things for LO rather than have gifts. She barely looks after her DS as she leave him with her mum to go out alone nearly every day.
She also put quite a bit of weight on during her first (which there is no shame in!) but her SO told us when she found out she is pregnant again, she was seriously discussing not going through with it because pregnancy makes her fat.
These look cool. Has anyone ever bought and used these? It's a wrist and foot rattle set.
We got this set for Christmas. He loves the wrist rattles - doesn't so much care about his feet yet. But looks hilarious when you put on all 4. Almost worth it just for the photo op!
So I don't know if I have mentioned a girl I know, who was pregnant the same time as me. Her DS is 6 months and she just found out she is 10 weeks pregnant. I should have said congratulations, but I have been putting it off because I actually feel a little sad. She didn't want her first when she found out it was a boy. She is very spoilt, asking her partners parents to buy a £900 pushchair but wouldn't pay anything towards it because she was saving for her £100 lipstick and other expensive make up.
The couple have been together for just over a year and are in counselling because all they do is fight. They live with his parents and she has taken their room so hi parents sleep in the living room. Yesterday she said she will go through with the pregnancy because at least that means she will get more gifts. I just cant bring myself to speak to her. Maybe I am just judgemental...
No, I would be the same way. I know babies are blessing and it's nice to say "Congrats" and not judge, but it's normal to judge I think.
There is a girl in our acquaintance group that had a baby two weeks before me. I should probably try to be closer to her and hang out, but I don't. We are just way different people and I unfortunately judge her. She is out at the bars at least once a week and is always posting about girls' nights out, etc.
I've been away from DS for work, a hair cut, and to clean my house. I don't like being judgey, because to each their own, but it's different priorities I think. Does that make sense?
Yeah I totally get it. Different priorities is actually a big factor on who you get on with. This girls first priority is her. She says he partner doesn't earn enough but then doesn't put her own money toward anything. To each their own, but I am kind of the opposite. I would prefer I pay for things for LO rather than have gifts. She barely looks after her DS as she leave him with her mum to go out alone nearly every day.
She also put quite a bit of weight on during her first (which there is no shame in!) but her SO told us when she found out she is pregnant again, she was seriously discussing not going through with it because pregnancy makes her fat.
These look cool. Has anyone ever bought and used these? It's a wrist and foot rattle set.
We got this set for Christmas. He loves the wrist rattles - doesn't so much care about his feet yet. But looks hilarious when you put on all 4. Almost worth it just for the photo op!
Cool, thanks! I think I'm going to give them a shot.
No, I would be the same way. I know babies are blessing and it's nice to say "Congrats" and not judge, but it's normal to judge I think.
There is a girl in our acquaintance group that had a baby two weeks before me. I should probably try to be closer to her and hang out, but I don't. We are just way different people and I unfortunately judge her. She is out at the bars at least once a week and is always posting about girls' nights out, etc.
I've been away from DS for work, a hair cut, and to clean my house. I don't like being judgey, because to each their own, but it's different priorities I think. Does that make sense?
Yeah I totally get it. Different priorities is actually a big factor on who you get on with. This girls first priority is her. She says he partner doesn't earn enough but then doesn't put her own money toward anything. To each their own, but I am kind of the opposite. I would prefer I pay for things for LO rather than have gifts. She barely looks after her DS as she leave him with her mum to go out alone nearly every day.
She also put quite a bit of weight on during her first (which there is no shame in!) but her SO told us when she found out she is pregnant again, she was seriously discussing not going through with it because pregnancy makes her fat.
I just have no words for her...
I am sorry - i would judge as well. I can't stand that people think children are "disposable" like this. To actually contemplate not going through with a pregnancy because you don't want to get fat? Seriously, then you should have used a fucking condom or some birth control. That makes me all kind of ragey. I feel so terrible for her children.
Guise. I'm going to start a campaign to FIND MELB.
I cannot be the only one that is deeply concerned about finding her. Nevermind that it's probably just that she's enjoying her baby and living a world that doesn't involve friends inside a computer, but she was so pretty.
Yeah I totally get it. Different priorities is actually a big factor on who you get on with. This girls first priority is her. She says he partner doesn't earn enough but then doesn't put her own money toward anything. To each their own, but I am kind of the opposite. I would prefer I pay for things for LO rather than have gifts. She barely looks after her DS as she leave him with her mum to go out alone nearly every day.
She also put quite a bit of weight on during her first (which there is no shame in!) but her SO told us when she found out she is pregnant again, she was seriously discussing not going through with it because pregnancy makes her fat.
I just have no words for her...
I am sorry - i would judge as well. I can't stand that people think children are "disposable" like this. To actually contemplate not going through with a pregnancy because you don't want to get fat? Seriously, then you should have used a fucking condom or some birth control. That makes me all kind of ragey. I feel so terrible for her children.
So do I, hense why I said I was a little sad. Her partner works with SO and he says he comes into work in tears most days over it all. She doesn't know the meaning of contraception. I may have to see her next weekend, so that would be interesting.
Post by carriedaway19 on Jan 22, 2015 10:17:29 GMT -5
You probably remember that yesterday morning my little chubby Houdini wiggled himself out of his mamaroo and fell on the floor and I'm MOTY. I decided to figure out a way to strap him in while still swaddling. Cut a slit down the bottom center of the swaddle and sewed it to make legs. Worked like a charm!
You probably remember that yesterday morning my little chubby Houdini wiggled himself out of his mamaroo and fell on the floor and I'm MOTY. I decided to figure out a way to strap him in while still swaddling. Cut a slit down the bottom center of the swaddle and sewed it to make legs. Worked like a charm!
Post by purplehippo on Jan 22, 2015 10:22:08 GMT -5
I've got a good weekend ahead of me, starting tomorrow!
I get my hair cut in the morning (WOOT!) and then my Mom is taking me and the girls over to Disney for the rest of the day! Then Saturday, we're going to visit some of DH's family a few hours south of us and stay overnight. Not too excited about taking the dog with us, but the friends we normally leave him with are having a flea issue at the moment. One of my cats is highly allergic to fleas, so that's a no-go.
So I'm guessing I won't be on here like, at all, this weekend. But I'll miss you notches!
I've got a good weekend ahead of me, starting tomorrow!
I get my hair cut in the morning (WOOT!) and then my Mom is taking me and the girls over to Disney for the rest of the day! Then Saturday, we're going to visit some of DH's family a few hours south of us and stay overnight. Not too excited about taking the dog with us, but the friends we normally leave him with are having a flea issue at the moment. One of my cats is highly allergic to fleas, so that's a no-go.
So I'm guessing I won't be on here like, at all, this weekend. But I'll miss you notches!
I am so jealous of you for living so close to Disney. I would be there like every weekend. Have so much fun today!
I've got a good weekend ahead of me, starting tomorrow!
I get my hair cut in the morning (WOOT!) and then my Mom is taking me and the girls over to Disney for the rest of the day! Then Saturday, we're going to visit some of DH's family a few hours south of us and stay overnight. Not too excited about taking the dog with us, but the friends we normally leave him with are having a flea issue at the moment. One of my cats is highly allergic to fleas, so that's a no-go.
So I'm guessing I won't be on here like, at all, this weekend. But I'll miss you notches!
Post by windwithfingers on Jan 22, 2015 10:28:07 GMT -5
So DS will be 17 weeks on Sunday, and he's just now starting to like the paci. The wubbanub lives in the car for car rides, but he likes the Tommee Tippee ones for naps and general soothing. So on one hand, I'm excited that I can soothe him with it instead of having to walk him around or rock him back to sleep. On the other hand, popping it back in his mouth makes me nuts. I have fantasized about taping it to his mouth (obviously, I would never actually do this).
Post by sngsoprano1 on Jan 22, 2015 10:28:03 GMT -5
Seriously ladies I leave PB for 2 hours and already 111 posts.
H complained he couldn't find his black umbrella this morning and refused to use my bright green one and is now complaining he got wet...not sure how to fix that honey....boys
So I don't know if I have mentioned a girl I know, who was pregnant the same time as me. Her DS is 6 months and she just found out she is 10 weeks pregnant. I should have said congratulations, but I have been putting it off because I actually feel a little sad. She didn't want her first when she found out it was a boy. She is very spoilt, asking her partners parents to buy a £900 pushchair but wouldn't pay anything towards it because she was saving for her £100 lipstick and other expensive make up.
The couple have been together for just over a year and are in counselling because all they do is fight. They live with his parents and she has taken their room so hi parents sleep in the living room. Yesterday she said she will go through with the pregnancy because at least that means she will get more gifts. I just cant bring myself to speak to her. Maybe I am just judgemental...
You need to tell her she's a selfish bitch and never speak to her AGAIN.
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