Post by lunalovegood on May 27, 2015 21:47:50 GMT -5
WTF DH. You tell me about a small gas leak coming from the pipes off our meter then ask ME if I'm going to call the gas company to take care of it?! Umm no, pretty sure killing spiders, matching socks and dealing with gas leaks are under your realm of responsibilities.
Post by ombradellarosa on May 28, 2015 0:16:48 GMT -5
WTF guy at the car wash? I understand trying to up-sell but you should not do it by shaming and insulting me. He asks if I want the Diamond Wash and I say no, the Silver Wash. So then he says not to be offended but my car could really use the detailing. The Diamond Wash doesn't have all that much better detailing, it's mostly external stuff and costs twice as much. I say no, Silver. So then he says "For your baby!" and I once again say Silver will be fine for the baby. So he tries again and I finally say "My husband was very clear--he said to get the cheapest one" (which I would have done anyway). "Oh, so your husband is a cheapie too?" Now you have not only implied I am a bad mother but called me and my husband cheap? I should have driven away right then and there but I have been wanting to get the car cleaned forever and I was just trying to get through this stupid interaction and not thinking about anything else. Finally he shut up and gave me my ticket. It occurred to me he had been rather rude so I tried to explain to the manager but English did not appear to be her first language and she could not understand what I was saying. It was incredibly frustrating and I'm feeling like I don't want to go back, but they are cheap and do a good job. I don't get the card detailed that often so we'll see.
So he tries again and I finally say "My husband was very clear--he said to get the cheapest one" (which I would have done anyway). "Oh, so your husband is a cheapie too?"
WHAT THE...? That would make me furious. How completely infuriating!!
Post by musicfrk2002 on May 28, 2015 1:17:39 GMT -5
WTF coworkers...can you not see that my legs are swollen to nearly twice their original size? And how is it that not a single one of you could take the extra truck to the airport tonight?
WTF H...pretty sure I asked you to do the dishes, since all that was on your agenda for tonight was watching the Blackhawks game...so why are the dirty pans from monday still on the stove?
Wtf DH.. You know I have to pay all the bills with this next paycheck and you want to get pissy because you want to buy expensive parts for your stupid fucking motorized skateboard that you wrecked! That fucking thing is very dangerous. And you think that's more important then our bills??? And you are allowed to be pissed off but I am the hormonal pregnant woman but am never allowed to be in a bad mood!! Right now I just can't even with him. We are toe different personality types. He's emotional and has a short fuse I have always been rational and never emotional. But damnit I am tired of not being able to be pissy. I am tired of walking on egg shells. Normally our personality types mesh really well but right now I just want to be allowed to be mad for fucking once!! Ugh sorry rant over. I really needed to let that out..
I'm the same today too, I broke down whilst putting dry cleaning away just because.. I don't know.. I was just in a foul mood and he didn't get it, I felt like he wasn't helping. We spent half an hour in seperate rooms because I got snappy and asked to be left alone to complete my task, it wasn't a shouting match or anything, I just needed space. He got concerned though when I hurt my back from bending down and by this time my mood had faded & we were back to our normal selves. I love the guy so much but sometimes we just need a minuet, I understand how you feel.
I wish I could get snappy or just tell him how I feel. The moment I do he goes on the defensive. Normally I let him rant and rave and don't say anything and he always comes back to apologize. But I I rant and rave it makes it worse and he will get more pissed off. I want to rant and rave for once damnit!! But yes I do love the guy and he has so many amazing qualities. This one flaw is easy to overlook most of the time. I am just in the pregnancy stage of zero fucks. Lol.
(I know I'm late, but this occurred right before bed, so it happened yesterday) Wtf DH, I gave you money to buy a dress shirt and instead you went and got a haircut!
I know that it is really rude to not send a wedding gift immediately after a wedding, but if you look up proper edidicate (SP?) you have a full year to send a wedding gift. With that being said, we went to a wedding in January and forgot to bring a gift... Shoot me it happens all the time.. Bride started bitching to everyone she should think of about how we didn't give them a gift (But didnt mention anything to my husband or my self) a month later DH lost his job, money became tight (keep in mind im also pregnant) DH FINALLY started working again last Monday the 18th, but will not actually get his first paycheck until the 5th because they always pay a week behind and he started in the middle of the pay period. My brother (who was the best man at said wedding) had a memorial day BBQ on Monday. We went late because we had tickets to the baseball game. My parents were also at the BBQ. My mom says to me this morning, did you ever send so and so a wedding gift? You mean to tell me that she is now bitching loud enough so that my PARENTS can hear here but has yet to say anything to me about it?? IF you really want your fucking gift say something. We did indeed send them a check but they never got it as it has never been cashed. DH is canceling the check today and just sending them a few things off of their registry to make up for the price that we had written the check out to. If you are REALLY that concerned about a freaking wedding gift why not say something to ME, instead of bitching about it so that my mother says something to me about it. REALLY mature.
WTF DH?! He took me out for a nice dinner to celebrate my birthday last night, but then proceeded to go on a 30 minute rant about how he wants to ask to have me induced next week! I will be 37 weeks pg on Saturday, and apparently he doesn't understand the benefits of keeping our LO in there for as long as possible. All he can think about is how it would be "sooo much easier at work if he came next week". I am SO glad that our son's health is clearly on the top of your priorities list!
I know that it is really rude to not send a wedding gift immediately after a wedding, but if you look up proper edidicate (SP?) you have a full year to send a wedding gift. With that being said, we went to a wedding in January and forgot to bring a gift... Shoot me it happens all the time.. Bride started bitching to everyone she should think of about how we didn't give them a gift (But didnt mention anything to my husband or my self) a month later DH lost his job, money became tight (keep in mind im also pregnant) DH FINALLY started working again last Monday the 18th, but will not actually get his first paycheck until the 5th because they always pay a week behind and he started in the middle of the pay period. My brother (who was the best man at said wedding) had a memorial day BBQ on Monday. We went late because we had tickets to the baseball game. My parents were also at the BBQ. My mom says to me this morning, did you ever send so and so a wedding gift? You mean to tell me that she is now bitching loud enough so that my PARENTS can hear here but has yet to say anything to me about it?? IF you really want your fucking gift say something. We did indeed send them a check but they never got it as it has never been cashed. DH is canceling the check today and just sending them a few things off of their registry to make up for the price that we had written the check out to. If you are REALLY that concerned about a freaking wedding gift why not say something to ME, instead of bitching about it so that my mother says something to me about it. REALLY mature.
That's so rude. I wouldn't ever bitch about someone not getting me a gift, I'd be grateful that they went out of their way to attend my wedding & be understanding of people circumstances. I think she is being a princess & it's also really bad that she's bitching about it in public. Worse thing she could do as it always gets back to the person they're bitching about & causes even more shit. Your pregnant, you have a lot on your mind.
kemdupuis-- what a way to wreck your dinner! Was the food good at least until he started on this crazy rant??
Hope you got some yummy cake!!
Yeah, the food was good. And the cake was delicious. Still pissed, though.
I'm so sorry your DH had to work so late on your day- you deserve a "redo" this weekend. Hopefully your DH has some good plans up his sleeve to surprise you.
kemdupuis-- what a way to wreck your dinner! Was the food good at least until he started on this crazy rant??
Hope you got some yummy cake!!
Yeah, the food was good. And the cake was delicious. Still pissed, though.
I'm so sorry your DH had to work so late on your day- you deserve a "redo" this weekend. Hopefully your DH has some good plans up his sleeve to surprise you.
more work! He'll be home late tonight again and then is on call this weekend. We should be able to do some sort of lunch on Saturday though.
I feel better today, so that's a bonus. DS and I will likely take a trip to Target.
He did bring flowers home last night and gave me a back rub before I went to sleep.
I know that it is really rude to not send a wedding gift immediately after a wedding, but if you look up proper edidicate (SP?) you have a full year to send a wedding gift. With that being said, we went to a wedding in January and forgot to bring a gift... Shoot me it happens all the time.. Bride started bitching to everyone she should think of about how we didn't give them a gift (But didnt mention anything to my husband or my self) a month later DH lost his job, money became tight (keep in mind im also pregnant) DH FINALLY started working again last Monday the 18th, but will not actually get his first paycheck until the 5th because they always pay a week behind and he started in the middle of the pay period. My brother (who was the best man at said wedding) had a memorial day BBQ on Monday. We went late because we had tickets to the baseball game. My parents were also at the BBQ. My mom says to me this morning, did you ever send so and so a wedding gift? You mean to tell me that she is now bitching loud enough so that my PARENTS can hear here but has yet to say anything to me about it?? IF you really want your fucking gift say something. We did indeed send them a check but they never got it as it has never been cashed. DH is canceling the check today and just sending them a few things off of their registry to make up for the price that we had written the check out to. If you are REALLY that concerned about a freaking wedding gift why not say something to ME, instead of bitching about it so that my mother says something to me about it. REALLY mature.
That's so rude. I wouldn't ever bitch about someone not getting me a gift, I'd be grateful that they went out of their way to attend my wedding & be understanding of people circumstances. I think she is being a princess & it's also really bad that she's bitching about it in public. Worse thing she could do as it always gets back to the person they're bitching about & causes even more shit. Your pregnant, you have a lot on your mind.
That was my thought!! But her gift is now on the way and she can kiss my fing ass. Not only did we go to her wedding but it was an out of town wedding so we had to pay for a hotel and what not... Thankfully the hotel was pet friendly so we were able to bring the dog but other wise we would of had to board the dog as well and DH had to take a day off of work as well.
Ok I know it's supposed to be WTF Wed but it's Saturday and I just had to get this out.
WTF labor buddies in the hallway? Could you be any louder? It's 11:50 pm and those of us on the floor with outside babies that may have not had the picture perfect labor and delivery experience don't need to be privy to your labor party. Clomping around exclaiming over how many centimeters you are dilated as you loudly wheel your iv cart around like it's a roller rink and laugh and giggle while me and my baby are trying to get 5 minutes of sleep before some evil person comes in and wakes us up for some test or another DONT CARE. I could barely hear what my nurse was saying over the ruckus and my door was closed. So done with hospital. Stayed here when I could have gone home specifically so that DH and I could have one more night of some help before we are on our own to listen to this. Thanks jerks.
Honestly I know they are just excited and I'm a little bitter but then I look at my sweet little bundled man and I am not nearly as angry
Wow that sucks...I've been totally wondering why my hospital separates Labor and Delivery from post partum and thought it would be better to get to stay in the same room. Now I'm seeing that maybe moving to a different room, away from everyone in labor, might be a good thing.
I know that it is really rude to not send a wedding gift immediately after a wedding, but if you look up proper edidicate (SP?) you have a full year to send a wedding gift. With that being said, we went to a wedding in January and forgot to bring a gift... Shoot me it happens all the time.. Bride started bitching to everyone she should think of about how we didn't give them a gift (But didnt mention anything to my husband or my self) a month later DH lost his job, money became tight (keep in mind im also pregnant) DH FINALLY started working again last Monday the 18th, but will not actually get his first paycheck until the 5th because they always pay a week behind and he started in the middle of the pay period. My brother (who was the best man at said wedding) had a memorial day BBQ on Monday. We went late because we had tickets to the baseball game. My parents were also at the BBQ. My mom says to me this morning, did you ever send so and so a wedding gift? You mean to tell me that she is now bitching loud enough so that my PARENTS can hear here but has yet to say anything to me about it?? IF you really want your fucking gift say something. We did indeed send them a check but they never got it as it has never been cashed. DH is canceling the check today and just sending them a few things off of their registry to make up for the price that we had written the check out to. If you are REALLY that concerned about a freaking wedding gift why not say something to ME, instead of bitching about it so that my mother says something to me about it. REALLY mature.
Wow, just wow! I can't believe someone would complain about not getting a gift. My FAVOURITE AUNT didn't send anything for our wedding and I didn't say anything until she asked me what I'd done with the gift card....turns out it had been lost in the mail. I can't imagine complaining to people about that, it's just so entitled and bratty.
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