If this board is going to become a fucking bitch fest about who posts where I am out. There is no fucking need for the drama.
IDGAF if a preggly posts here BUT don't fucking tell me you wish you were still here.
My husband just injected a bunch of hormones into my stomach, we are paying thousands and thousands of dollars to get pregnant and I would give my left tit to never be here again.
To come on here and see people say they wish they were still here is nauseating.
It is incredibly rude and insensitive to whine about not being here anymore.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
If this board is going to become a fucking bitch fest about who posts where I am out. There is no fucking need for the drama.
Okay, board police. I like being part of a board where people can share how they feel freely and honestly. I also love the sensitivity that's usually shown to those dealing with infertility. Don't equate someone struggling with infertility and those feelings with a bitch fest.
If this board is going to become a fucking bitch fest about who posts where I am out. There is no fucking need for the drama.
IDGAF if a preggly posts here BUT don't fucking tell me you wish you were still here.
My husband just injected a bunch of hormones into my stomach, we are paying thousands and thousands of dollars to get pregnant and I would give my left tit to never be here again.
To come on here and see people say they wish they were still here is nauseating.
It is incredibly rude and insensitive to whine about not being here anymore.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
IDGAF if a preggly posts here BUT don't fucking tell me you wish you were still here.
My husband just injected a bunch of hormones into my stomach, we are paying thousands and thousands of dollars to get pregnant and I would give my left tit to never be here again.
To come on here and see people say they wish they were still here is nauseating.
It is incredibly rude and insensitive to whine about not being here anymore.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
So you'll support icequeen but not the ones who were hurt by what she said? I completely agree that she meant no harm, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt people, including myself.
IDGAF if a preggly posts here BUT don't fucking tell me you wish you were still here.
My husband just injected a bunch of hormones into my stomach, we are paying thousands and thousands of dollars to get pregnant and I would give my left tit to never be here again.
To come on here and see people say they wish they were still here is nauseating.
It is incredibly rude and insensitive to whine about not being here anymore.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
No one fucking said it was ill-intentioned!!! But when people are unintentionally insensitive, it's not okay to let them know!??!? Fuck that. If people aren't told that their actions were hurtful (even though not meant to be), how would they know for the future!
IDGAF if a preggly posts here BUT don't fucking tell me you wish you were still here.
My husband just injected a bunch of hormones into my stomach, we are paying thousands and thousands of dollars to get pregnant and I would give my left tit to never be here again.
To come on here and see people say they wish they were still here is nauseating.
It is incredibly rude and insensitive to whine about not being here anymore.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
What blow up? And it's not like it's the first time she's pulled shit like this.
Can we all just agree that I was a dumb fuck and shouldn't be posting here? I am sorry for all I have caused and if anyone knows what struggling with IF means, it's me. @sluttybigb00bz, I would give my left tit for you to be pregnant too and not go through this fucking nightmare. helloerrbody, DanaScullyX, I am sorry for my siggy showing and there is no way in hell I can take it back although I want to so badly. getzystark, icaughtfire, yes we absolutely shouldn't be board policing and I promise you will not hear from me again. I just fucking hate seeing this turn out this way and once again I am the one that causes upheaval and distress amongst y'all. I will stick to my BMB and won't cause any more problems. I don't know how else to say I'm sorry and that I never meant to turn this positive thread into such a fucking mess.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
What blow up? And it's not like it's the first time she's pulled shit like this.
Can we all just agree that I was a dumb fuck and shouldn't be posting here? I am sorry for all I have caused and if anyone knows what struggling with IF means, it's me. @sluttybigb00bz, I would give my left tit for you to be pregnant too and not go through this fucking nightmare. helloerrbody, DanaScullyX, I am sorry for my siggy showing and there is no way in hell I can take it back although I want to so badly. getzystark, icaughtfire, yes we absolutely shouldn't be board policing and I promise you will not hear from me again. I just fucking hate seeing this turn out this way and once again I am the one that causes upheaval and distress amongst y'all. I will stick to my BMB and won't cause any more problems. I don't know how else to say I'm sorry and that I never meant to turn this positive thread into such a fucking mess.
Again...it's not about you posting here. Pregglies post all of the time, and it isn't an issue.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
So you'll support icequeen but not the ones who were hurt by what she said? I completely agree that she meant no harm, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt people, including myself.
She got called out the first time and she apologized. She got called out again and she apologized again. What more do you want.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
No one fucking said it was ill-intentioned!!! But when people are unintentionally insensitive, it's not okay to let them know!??!? Fuck that. If people aren't told that their actions were hurtful (even though not meant to be), how would they know for the future!
Okay - I understand that you are upset because she said she wishes she could play here. And we wish we didn't have to be here. I'm truly sorry that you are offended by that. Maybe I just don't think of the board that way you all do. I come here to socialize with other people in my age range that understand what I'm going through. To me it isn't about I go here and you go there and I'm going to be upset if you post your pregnancy ticker. The board isn't my life, other people's fertility does not effect mine. I like the people on here, I like interacting with the people on here - so maybe that's where my mentality on this situation comes from. I don't think we need to be rude to each other, I think that we should speak to eachother with respect and like adults. And this is why I don't go in the UO or FFFC threads because to me they are not productive.
So you'll support icequeen but not the ones who were hurt by what she said? I completely agree that she meant no harm, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt people, including myself.
She got called out the first time and she apologized. She got called out again and she apologized again. What more do you want.
I'm not talking about icequeen in my above message...I'm talking about onesweetworld's comment regarding "support." I never said anything about icequeen and her apology, which was absolutely appreciated. I still stand by my statement that for me, this is not about who posts where. I'm not sure why you're bringing me into a comment that someone else made on a completely different board.
Can we all just agree that I was a dumb fuck and shouldn't be posting here? I am sorry for all I have caused and if anyone knows what struggling with IF means, it's me. @sluttybigb00bz, I would give my left tit for you to be pregnant too and not go through this fucking nightmare. helloerrbody, DanaScullyX, I am sorry for my siggy showing and there is no way in hell I can take it back although I want to so badly. getzystark, icaughtfire, yes we absolutely shouldn't be board policing and I promise you will not hear from me again. I just fucking hate seeing this turn out this way and once again I am the one that causes upheaval and distress amongst y'all. I will stick to my BMB and won't cause any more problems. I don't know how else to say I'm sorry and that I never meant to turn this positive thread into such a fucking mess.
Thank you for apologizing but your siggy is still not hidden, FYI. You ARE welcome to post on GKU (as far as I'm concerned), but please don't come here and post about how you wish you were still here. That's what fucking stings. And please don't use that "if anyone knows what struggling with IF means, it's me" line. We all struggle differently. What hurts some women is not what hurts others. But I do accept your apology so thank you for it.
None of it was ill intentioned. This is my issue with the blow up. Icequeen would never mean to offend anyone. We cannot be complete fucking bitches because someone wishes they could interact with us more. It wasn't about her wanting to go here because we all know damn well it could happen to any of us for any reason either way. I don't want to be a part of a community that doesn't support each other and tears people down. That is bullshit.
...so who are you calling a "complete fucking bitch" here?
It's not directed at any one in particular. There is no need for anyone to be a bitch to anyone.
I'm sure it was an honest mistake. Now she knows to be more careful.
ETA: And as you can see, she is having technical difficulties with hiding her siggy.
I know you're friends, but there is really no excuse for the original post and her apology does not take away the fact that icequeen frequently posts "without thinking" and then back tracks. And I don't buy the explanation for the original offense, either.
There are alot of different personalities in here. Some people are guarded in what they say, some people have perma-word vomit. I, myself, am guilty of that. I have just started IF testing and it has been very hard for me to see so many of my friends including Ice Queen move on to the BMB. However, right now I would like to figure out how to best resolve atleast this current issue at hand.
So tell me what can we do to fix this? What do you need from Ice Queen or any of the rest of us that would help?
No one fucking said it was ill-intentioned!!! But when people are unintentionally insensitive, it's not okay to let them know!??!? Fuck that. If people aren't told that their actions were hurtful (even though not meant to be), how would they know for the future!
Okay - I understand that you are upset because she said she wishes she could play here. And we wish we didn't have to be here. I'm truly sorry that you are offended by that. Maybe I just don't think of the board that way you all do. I come here to socialize with other people in my age range that understand what I'm going through. To me it isn't about I go here and you go there and I'm going to be upset if you post your pregnancy ticker. The board isn't my life, other people's fertility does not effect mine. I like the people on here, I like interacting with the people on here - so maybe that's where my mentality on this situation comes from. I don't think we need to be rude to each other, I think that we should speak to eachother with respect and like adults. And this is why I don't go in the UO or FFFC threads because to me they are not productive.
So I guess you are implying that the board is our life...!?? WTF. We are allowed to share that something was insensitive in our opinions and that we were hurt by it. I was not being rude or speaking like a child.
Again, I do not think that this is about "I go here and you go there," but I do think that people should be sensitive with what they say when they post on certain boards. I'm sure you would agree that someone should be careful with what they post on certain boards, no?
I'm not talking about icequeen in my above message...I'm talking about onesweetworld's comment regarding "support." I never said anything about icequeen and her apology, which was absolutely appreciated. I still stand by my statement that for me, this is not about who posts where. I'm not sure why you're bringing me into a comment that someone else made on a completely different board.
I'm not talking about icequeen in my above message...I'm talking about onesweetworld's comment regarding "support." I never said anything about icequeen and her apology, which was absolutely appreciated. I still stand by my statement that for me, this is not about who posts where. I'm not sure why you're bringing me into a comment that someone else made on a completely different board.
Sorry I must have misread your original post.
Okay phew, I thought so. I was like, WTF SHEILA, I like you!!!!!
So you'll support icequeen but not the ones who were hurt by what she said? I completely agree that she meant no harm, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt people, including myself.
She got called out the first time and she apologized. She got called out again and she apologized again. What more do you want.
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