housecarder, huge hugs! I totally feel you on that front, my sister got pregnant by 'accident' TWICE (I'm not sure how she was surprised as she was not on birth control either time) & my SIL tried exactly for one cycle with each kid. Drink & eat all of your TTC feels.
We are headed to a wedding in the mountains. H is in a foul mood because we were up at 7:30, so I'm going to hang with you guys until he snaps out of it. BTW- the wedding reception is trivia based, no dancing just bar trivia.
No dancing?! bummer that is one of my favorite parts about a wedding reception.
titania I know!!! Their website says "you can dance if you want," a couple of drinks in I'm probably going to be the only fool breaking it down by myself.
Also, it's roller derby bout day where we are Non Skating Officials (NSO) and help keep track of penalties. And it's a mixer so there are 3 bouts back to back.
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Me too that second bottle of wine felt like such a good idea at the time...
And I thought it was a great idea to keep switching between beer and mixed drinks. You'd think at 27 years old i would have learned not to do that at this point.
titania I know!!! Their website says "you can dance if you want," a cous of drinks in I'm probably going to be the only fool breaking it down by myself.
Please report back on how the bar trivia reception goes down. That's so interesting!
We never got to the beach last night. The weather was threatening thunderstorms so we didn't chance it. We came home and ate pizza by the river instead. It was very nice and we ended up running into my bil and his family. I think we're going to church today. DD and DH both just woke up.
titania I know!!! Their website says "you can dance if you want," a cous of drinks in I'm probably going to be the only fool breaking it down by myself.
Please report back on how the bar trivia reception goes down. That's so interesting!
We are waiting to go pick up DH's car until our favorite little dive opens up. I love their fries there and haven't had them in 6 weeks when DH and I re-did Lent. Real Lent didn't work out for us.
We also are trying to plan our vacation in August and can't decide where to go.
Post by PepperPottsJ on May 30, 2015 9:12:20 GMT -5
uggg theophania so sorry, that is so sweet, but can only imagine how tough! I recently gave my liver a break and I feel like all I did was explain that I was not KU.
Post by TheEleventhHour on May 30, 2015 9:15:02 GMT -5
Hugs housecarder. I hope no one says anything rude/insensitive!
I went nuts cleaning and organizing this morning in case our realtor decides to do a last minute showing. I hate having to say no so I figured I'd act like we have a showing to avoid being stressed. I also just realized we have no more K-Cups! But luckily my mother is a saint and is bringing me coffee.
Post by roastytoasty on May 30, 2015 9:23:05 GMT -5
Mmm coffee. DD didn't sleep nearly as long as I'd hoped and DH is working.
I was really hoping to break out some yard games this weekend but of course it's rainy instead. Why is it 80 and gorgeous during the work week and 60 and rainy on the weekends??
I should really do some cleaning, but frankly fuck that.
Andrea I'm so intrigued by this bar trivia wedding reception... I love dancing, especially when drunk, but I also love trivia... I would be so torn.
Post by icaughtfire on May 30, 2015 9:30:08 GMT -5
The only reason I have a Keurig is because it was a gift. No way in hell I'm paying hundreds of dollars for something that makes coffee. Unless that coffee makes me shit diamonds or something.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
You are a nicer person than I. I'd probably tell them to drink a glass of shut the fuck up. Then again I feel like telling most of my family that on the reg anyway.
Most of my cousins are younger than me, the one that is older just had her 6th kid and her oldest is 13. So I just think it's a lack of awareness that it's not that easy for some people. It's never mean spirited.
Eta: Maybe I'll take an evacuation apron and just steal all the babies.
Most of my cousins are younger than me, the one that is older just had her 6th kid and her oldest is 13. So I just think it's a lack of awareness that it's not that easy for some people. It's never mean spirited.
Eta: Maybe I'll take an evacuation apron and just steal all the babies.
Are those cabbage patch dolls in there?
Looks like it. They actually have these in the NICUs here in case of an emergency evacuation. Babies go head down though.
hugs housecarder and theophania. Sometimes family really sucks. My grandpa keeps telling me to try harder because obviously I'm not doing it right. He couldn't not knock up my grandma (which is yucky). He tells me this every time I see him He also told me the house we bought is too big and we shouldn't buy it without kids.
I love how everyone else seems to have all the answers and opinions to problems/choices that aren't their business.
Hugs housecarder. Sorry for CD1 and the family situation. Hope you can rest up this weekend and feel better soon, butlerfan.
I just got out of bed after hitting my snooze alarm for an hour... I'm supposed to go for my long run this morning but it's raining, and I really don't want to. But my half marathon is 2 weeks away, and it would be bad to skip the run today. So I'm off to run in the rain.
Looks like it. They actually have these in the NICUs here in case of an emergency evacuation. Babies go head down though.
How does it work if they are head down? Sorry, this is probably not the best place for thconvo, but i'm kind of confused.
Babies are top heavy, so if you put them head up you run the risk of them falling out as you evacuate. The pockets in the ones used these days are a more mesh material so it's not like they will suffocate being head down as you leave.
How does it work if they are head down? Sorry, this is probably not the best place for thconvo, but i'm kind of confused.
Babies are top heavy, so if you put them head up you run the risk of them falling out as you evacuate. The pockets in the ones used these days are a more mesh material so it's not like they will suffocate being head down as you leave.
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Post by wanderingheart on May 30, 2015 10:05:59 GMT -5
MH and I had our first fight about infertility last night.
And an elderly couple just came to our door "looking for children". They're hosting a block party in our neighborhood tonight and wanted to know if I had any kids to bring. I just said no. It was awkward.
Maybe I should just go back to bed. Or start drinking now.. #dontjudgeme
MH and I had our first fight about infertility last night.
And an elderly couple just came to our door "looking for children". They're hosting a block party in our neighborhood tonight and wanted to know if I had any kids to bring. I just said no. It was awkward.
Maybe I should just go back to bed. Or start drinking now.. #dontjudgeme
Post by kayladawn91 on May 30, 2015 10:10:19 GMT -5
Hugs to housecarder, @sarahwithanh and theophania. My family has no idea we're TTC and only my sister knows about my loss, so I get insensitive comments all the time from family about when we're going to have kids, my husbands age, etc. and it sucks. Last weekend so ran into a lady I hadn't seen in a few years and she said "no babies for you yet huh? That's sad." She's like 75 years old but I was still like WTF?! I don't understand what gets into people.
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