FFF Confessions 06-05-15

[bullybutt]

Jun 5, 2015 11:42:33 GMT -5 bigrock74 said:

Jun 5, 2015 11:20:54 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Well I called and filed a report with OKDHS. At least now it's on record, even if it's not "severe".

I've missed something. What happened??

Finkle did this to DD because I painted DSs nails blue.  This was his retaliation and said that he would continue doing it to her if I continued painting DSs nails. 

[bigrock74]

bullybutt, Yes, @harmyxo filled me in.
He is a piece of shit. I can't believe he did this. I am so fucking angry right now, I can't imagine how you were when you saw this on her. He is a waste of space!!!

[liziz]

Not OAD, but not TTC anytime soon, but totally lurking the expecting thread.

[liziz]

Jun 5, 2015 11:55:27 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Jun 5, 2015 11:42:33 GMT -5 bigrock74 said:

I've missed something. What happened??

Finkle did this to DD because I painted DSs nails blue.  This was his retaliation and said that he would continue doing it to her if I continued painting DSs nails. 

I had to jump on my phone to see the picture - what an ass.

Using the kids as a tool to get to you is abuse (even if it's not physical).

Add me to the knife sharpeners.

[sararl07]

At 2am DD woke up and started screaming. I woke up DH and told him it was his turn and lied and told him I already went up earlier in the night. DH is such a hard sleeper that he believed me.

Zero guilt beceause I take night duty 99% of the time and mama wants to sleep

[rlb]

Jun 5, 2015 11:55:27 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Jun 5, 2015 11:42:33 GMT -5 bigrock74 said:

I've missed something. What happened??

Finkle did this to DD because I painted DSs nails blue.  This was his retaliation and said that he would continue doing it to her if I continued painting DSs nails. 

I can't get this picture out of my head, like I said it makes me sad for all of you guys, I think most of all for R.  Then I put DD's face on it and mama bear rage is in effect like it's never been.  I am laid back, but if you push too far, or push the right button it flares fast and furious and you better watch out.  This is a fast and furious situation.  I really don't want to add fuel to your fire by any means, so I'm sorry if I am.  I'll try and move on and just give support if you need support.  


Or knife skills.   

[Leapinglizards]

bullybutt I can't believe someone would do that to their own baby. That is so sick. Wtf is wrong with him?

[soon2bmrsn]

Jun 5, 2015 11:55:27 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Jun 5, 2015 11:42:33 GMT -5 bigrock74 said:

I've missed something. What happened??

Finkle did this to DD because I painted DSs nails blue.  This was his retaliation and said that he would continue doing it to her if I continued painting DSs nails. 

I missed this too and I am glad you filed a report. WTAF.

[dawnfire]

Jun 5, 2015 9:41:29 GMT -5 lucanjo14 said:

My fffc: I've severely dropped off of my healthy eating/diet since finding out I am KU. I was being so good and watching what I ate and losing weight, and I feel like I've thrown it all away. I had French toast for breakfast today from the diner and it was so good. Oh well.

That's part of why I liked being KU.  Screw eating for less than 2 like all the "science" says.  MOMMY WANTS ALL THE NOMS!

C'mon ovaries, you know our current food is disappointing!  Get your act together!

FFFC: I'm trying to get in shape (other than a round shape), so last night I did Week 1 Day 1 of 5k Runner.  It went well, but when I got home with LO I went to change his diaper and when I bent over him, my vision saw stars like all the blood suddenly rushed to my head, and my heart started to beat super fast.  Luckily DH was there to take care of LO cause all I could do was sink down to the ground and then drink some water.  After about 5 minutes of just sitting still, my heartbeat slowed down and I felt better, but now I'm scared to work out.  I think maybe it was just low blood sugar because I was also starving when I went out running (probably not the best idea in the heat.)  Nervous because I'd never had that happen before after working out.

[dawnfire]

bullybutt, I'm happy you have a picture of that so you can show what he's done. It's not physical abuse, but it's still abuse of a sort, and retaliation. Not cool. Grr, I'm so angry that your kids have to be victims of this, too! It's not good that you have to put up with any of this, by any means, but little kids have no choice at all and no way to help themselves against it.

[anotherdreamer]

bullybutt that makes me ragey!!! WTF is wrong with him, what an ass!

[Lola]

Jun 5, 2015 16:32:20 GMT -5 dawnfire said:

Jun 5, 2015 9:41:29 GMT -5 lucanjo14 said:

My fffc: I've severely dropped off of my healthy eating/diet since finding out I am KU. I was being so good and watching what I ate and losing weight, and I feel like I've thrown it all away. I had French toast for breakfast today from the diner and it was so good. Oh well.

That's part of why I liked being KU.  Screw eating for less than 2 like all the "science" says.  MOMMY WANTS ALL THE NOMS!

C'mon ovaries, you know our current food is disappointing!  Get your act together!

FFFC: I'm trying to get in shape (other than a round shape), so last night I did Week 1 Day 1 of 5k Runner.  It went well, but when I got home with LO I went to change his diaper and when I bent over him, my vision saw stars like all the blood suddenly rushed to my head, and my heart started to beat super fast.  Luckily DH was there to take care of LO cause all I could do was sink down to the ground and then drink some water.  After about 5 minutes of just sitting still, my heartbeat slowed down and I felt better, but now I'm scared to work out.  I think maybe it was just low blood sugar because I was also starving when I went out running (probably not the best idea in the heat.)  Nervous because I'd never had that happen before after working out.

Can happen when your dehydrated too. Eat and hydrate first!

[rlb]

I made a drunkenish FB post tonight and was told I might want to delete it and I did.  major FFFC, mostly for the fact it wasn't bad,   And mostlt because it was for appearances for my job and I am the biggest hear me roar woman of them all.

[rlb]

That made sense, right? Lol

[honeybee434]

I'm way behind, but bullybutt DH said that if your ex lived anywhere in our city he would personally kick his ass with some friends. It seriously makes my blood boil what he's doing to your kiddos. Poor DS that he thinks this is his fault.