Post Partum Doula

[aelias]

Expecting #2 in August, and by that time, my son will be almost 3.  I had a really rough time breastfeeding last time, and I'm considering finding a post-partum doula with a background in lactation for some extra support.  Anyone have any experience with this?

[aelias]

There are some similarities. From my understanding, a baby nurse comes into to home to provide extra care for the newborn, particularly during the sleeping hours.

Post partum doulas focus on giving the new mother practical and emotional support, from running errands and light housework to companionship and education. Many provide breastfeeding support and education as well ( the one I'm looking at is also a certified LC). The idea is "mothering the mother" while she heals and bonds with her child.

If you're curious, here's a FAQ on post partum doulas www.dona.org/mothers/faqs_postpartum.php

[dontstopbelievin]

I have a friend who had a terrible time after her DH went back to work, so they hired one and she said it really helped her get through the newborn stage. If it's in your budget, I say do it. Especially for the breastfeeding support.

[thenialler]

If it is in your budget I say go for it! I've had a few friends use one and they all loved it.

[aylafsu1881]

I had a doula at my birth and part of her fees included one postpartum visit/help. Honestly, it was the best. She came when we had been home for a week (so LO was like 9 days old). It was so helpful. She helped me try out a couple of different carriers I had so I could find one that worked for me. She also helped organize some stuff (baby wipes, blankets, made me a nursing snack basket, and we just chatted. It was so nice to spend 2 hours with another person who could relate and was there to help, not hold the baby. Since she was my doula during L&D I was comfortable with her and it did not feel awkward to have her moving stuff around in my home. My H and I agreed that next time we will probably have her come a few times in the first month to help out.

[Deleted]

A friend had one after her 1st and she loved it. She lived far away from family and her H had to go back to work right away. If I were in the same situation and could afford it I would have hired one

[goldenbird]

That sounds awesome. If you can afford it I would say go for it!