I know right!? It looks like i wont be getting answers tonight. The on call doc called me back and he said that they did leave for the day. It struck him as odd too that nobody got back to me. Its really not like them.
Holy shit skk. I hope your DH agrees they are batshit crazy. I wish he would have told them to mind their own business.
He agrees but tries so hard to avoid any conflict. They did a great job of targeting me when DH was busy grilling and helping his dad work on his little sister's car. He fully supported me when I told him last night that I need a break from his family.
Thanks, heelibrarian, that's what I keep telling myself, but I still feel bad when I think about how she's probably had a sore throat for several days and DH and I just thought we were dealing with the terrible twos!
Aww, moosemug! Don't feel bad! When DS had it HFM was totally not on my radar. It took me days to get him in! You are so not a jerk, you're getting her help and that's what counts! HFM is a sneaky thing at first.
Pfft. I never even brought K in for his HFM. He had just gone in for his pneumonia...i didnt figure the doc coild do anymore for him since he wasnt crying in pain anymore. Dont feel like a jerk. Its so hard to know what's going on.
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I'm in such a funk waiting to hear about that job. I'm trying to decide if I should give up hope because I haven't heard anything yet, or if it doesn't really mean anything. The principal said this week but didn't get me a specific day. This job would be perfect in almost every way and I want it so bad
I'm in such a funk waiting to hear about that job. I'm trying to decide if I should give up hope because I haven't heard anything yet, or if it doesn't really mean anything. The principal said this week but didn't get me a specific day. This job would be perfect in almost every way and I want it so bad
There's so much of this week left! Don't give up hope! Sending lots of good job getting vibes your way (in as much as those are actually useful coming from me of all people :-P)!
Omg. I decided to fill up the kiddie pool and connect the sprinkler that T got for his birthday so we could play after his nap. I turned the hose on in the pool and went inside to unwrap the sprinkler toy. DH comes sprinting up the stairs yelling about the water. We get the hose turned of and he tells me our basement bathroom is flooded. It was POURING out of the fan vent in the ceiling. How does that even happen?? I am so glad he was home sick in the basement or I would have hooked up that water toy and flooded the entire finished basement.
Eta there was a good half inch of water in there after only a min or two with the hose on.
This sounds awful! I hope you figure out the problem!
My bitch is about myself. I'm being a major brat and PITA to my H today and I don't know why. It's like I can't stop myself...
I'm hoping that a nap/reading this afternoon will reset me for when he comes home. Poor guy
Mine is the same, except I know why. He came home and did nothing but work and ignore me and G. Gee, now he can't figure out why I'm pissy.
This was me yesterday too. My brother and his friend were over when A got home and they were in the pool swimming. So of course A had to go swimming with them and not help parent his child or help clean up the kitchen after dinner. I wish I could pull some of the crap that he pulls but it's not fair to G.
Post by nachellebeck on Jun 23, 2015 10:06:18 GMT -5
Sooo update: My H just shut down when I brought up C. I couldn't get him to talk to me more than just a few words. I kept going & told him he has two choices...to man up & let C know what was going on or to go get your effing tux & deal.
About 10 minutes later he told me he was going to go make a call. I could hear him say C's name a couple times and explain the work situation (which is legit, he only has one other manager, besides himself, right now).
When he was done he asked my why I care so much about what he does for this wedding. I told him I didn't marry an asshole. That he didn't have to be a fucking dick about it. he brought up the whole "he didn't come to my wedding" BS. Apparently C never bothered to request off work (new information) which is why he wasn't there. I thought it convienet that my H just told me that tidbit, when before it was that the old boss scheduled only C to work & let all of the other managers from that store to off to go to the wedding (not one of them showed up).
Anyway, he's still a little peeved at me but whatever.
TL;DR My H manned up and told C he wasn't coming. Everyone is pissed at everyone.
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Sooo update: My H just shut down when I brought up C. I couldn't get him to talk to me more than just a few words. I kept going & told him he has two choices...to man up & let C know what was going on or to go get your effing tux & deal.
About 10 minutes later he told me he was going to go make a call. I could hear him say C's name a couple times and explain the work situation (which is legit, he only has one other manager, besides himself, right now).
When he was done he asked my why I care so much about what he does for this wedding. I told him I didn't marry an asshole. That he didn't have to be a fucking dick about it. he brought up the whole "he didn't come to my wedding" BS. Apparently C never bothered to request off work (new information) which is why he wasn't there. I thought it convienet that my H just told me that tidbit, when before it was that the old boss scheduled only C to work & let all of the other managers from that store to off to go to the wedding (not one of them showed up).
Anyway, he's still a little peeved at me but whatever.
TL;DR My H manned up and told C he wasn't coming. Everyone is pissed at everyone.
Was C part of your wedding party? If not, then ask your H how he would have felt if his groomsmen decided to back out of the wedding 2 weeks prior. I would be livid and would probably never speak to that person again.
Sooo update: My H just shut down when I brought up C. I couldn't get him to talk to me more than just a few words. I kept going & told him he has two choices...to man up & let C know what was going on or to go get your effing tux & deal.
About 10 minutes later he told me he was going to go make a call. I could hear him say C's name a couple times and explain the work situation (which is legit, he only has one other manager, besides himself, right now).
When he was done he asked my why I care so much about what he does for this wedding. I told him I didn't marry an asshole. That he didn't have to be a fucking dick about it. he brought up the whole "he didn't come to my wedding" BS. Apparently C never bothered to request off work (new information) which is why he wasn't there. I thought it convienet that my H just told me that tidbit, when before it was that the old boss scheduled only C to work & let all of the other managers from that store to off to go to the wedding (not one of them showed up).
Anyway, he's still a little peeved at me but whatever.
TL;DR My H manned up and told C he wasn't coming. Everyone is pissed at everyone.
Was C part of your wedding party? If not, then ask your H how he would have felt if his groomsmen decided to back out of the wedding 2 weeks prior. I would be livid and would probably never speak to that person again.
C was not. But he only had one groomsman & I one bridesmaid.
I did ask him that & his verbatim answer was: "I wouldn't have friends that would do that to me." Me: WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?! H: What the fuck is wrong with you?
Yeah...it didn't go very far. I would also be super pissed, and I know they won't ever speak again. But it's no skin off my H's back...he's not one for keeping friends, except for his BFF (his groomsman) who lives in Michigan....
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Was C part of your wedding party? If not, then ask your H how he would have felt if his groomsmen decided to back out of the wedding 2 weeks prior. I would be livid and would probably never speak to that person again.
C was not. But he only had one groomsman & I one bridesmaid.
I did ask him that & his verbatim answer was: "I wouldn't have friends that would do that to me." Me: WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT YOU?! H: What the fuck is wrong with you?
Yeah...it didn't go very far. I would also be super pissed, and I know they won't ever speak again. But it's no skin off my H's back...he's not one for keeping friends, except for his BFF (his groomsman) who lives in Michigan....
I don't know what else to say to him....
I don't think if there really is anything else you can say to him...he's being a douche about it though. That poor bride must be going crazy at this point.
nachellebeck I know you said your H doesn't really care if he keeps C as a friend, but don't they still have to work together?
No. They worked together at the same store about a year ago. That's just where they met. My H has since transferred to a couple different stores & C works in the oil industry now.
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nachellebeck i know your husband said that he thought C was going to become a bad friend after he gets married bc he is going to spend too much time with his wife.... Yet your husband is ruining the friendship first. Was it like a bromance? Is he trying to ruin the friendship before C does so he doesnt get hurt by the breakup? Im asking semi seriously.
nachellebeck i know your husband said that he thought C was going to become a bad friend after he gets married bc he is going to spend too much time with his wife.... Yet your husband is ruining the friendship first. Was it like a bromance? Is he trying to ruin the friendship before C does so he doesnt get hurt by the breakup? Im asking semi seriously.
It wasn't really a bromance. My H seems to think that C only wants to hang out to ask stuff of him. Like they've hung out maybe twice in the last 6 months...?
The first time, it was so C could ask my H to be in the wedding & then again a couple months ago. They went to the driving range both times & my H seemed to enjoy himself. But it's C who's always initiating it.
I think it's largely due to my H being a homebody & totally okay with just hanging out with me. Whereas I am a homebody, but I need someone other than just him to hang out with. (I need friends and he's okay with not having any)
Buuut, he very well could be trying to "hurt" C first...but I don't get that vibe.
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I'm glad it's at least over, but if he was so mad that he didn't come to your wedding, then he shouldn't have agreed to be in their wedding in the first place.
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