Are we ranting about people being insensitive about ttc? Count me in. My supposed bff who is like 9 weeks now told me last week in a shitty way then said "the first thing I thought when I saw the positive test was 'notthedroids is gonna kill me'". Then she said she told me on a Friday so I could go be upset and drink my feelings afterward. I haven't spoken to her since.
I had someone do this to me recently. She sent me a series of texts, "omg you're going to kill me" "omg you're going to be so pissed" and I was like "huh??" Then she sent more texts like "I'm trying to figure out how to say this...but there really is no good way." Then she sent me a picture of her pee stick. With a "I AM SO SORRY ".
WTF. I don't expect people to stop getting pregnant just because I'm trying.
Then she said, "it's just sort of funny you know. How people would kill to be in my position, they try soooo hard and it's just not happening. I don't really care or try and I get pregnant so easily" (it's her first). Oh yes, it's very funny.
I hate people. My thing is, in my own personal opinion, she's an idiot. They're not married yet and her fiance is 32 with 4 kids and can't hold a steady job. And they fight all the time. It was such a slap in the face. I want a family so bad and we're financially stable and ready with no luck. And sorry for the dear diary.
I hate people. My thing is, in my own personal opinion, she's an idiot. They're not married yet and her fiance is 32 with 4 kids and can't hold a steady job. And they fight all the time. It was such a slap in the face. I want a family so bad and we're financially stable and ready with no luck. And sorry for the dear diary.
I hear you.
I just try to remind myself (talking about my situation specifically) that MH and I haven't been trying long. But that doesn't help when people bombard you with stuff.
Oh, I'll play. Very few people know we are trying but I called my mom after getting my PCOS diagnosis. She responded with how she doesn't understand why I'm having such a hard time since she had no trouble getting pregnant with my brother or me.
I wish people who don't 'get' PCOS would have a week on metformin. just for shits and giggles. Literally, their shits, my giggles.
Oh, I'll play. Very few people know we are trying but I called my mom after getting my PCOS diagnosis. She responded with how she doesn't understand why I'm having such a hard time since she had no trouble getting pregnant with my brother or me.
I wish people who don't 'get' PCOS would have a week on metformin. just for shits and giggles. Literally, their shits, my giggles.
Oh, I'll play. Very few people know we are trying but I called my mom after getting my PCOS diagnosis. She responded with how she doesn't understand why I'm having such a hard time since she had no trouble getting pregnant with my brother or me.
Post by easilyunamused on Jul 6, 2015 13:31:22 GMT -5
Ugh, same thing happened to me on Saturday. I was hammered and totally caught off guard when my (newish) friend asked when we'd have kids. Cue unexpected tears, because drunk. I was so embarrassed!
I had a friend in Hawaii who was surfing and attacked by a shark. She lost a finger and almost her whole hand. She was connected to the leash still and the shark was pulling her farther out to sea. Her friend swam up to the shark on his board and was punching the shark to make him let the board go. Insane. Both got to shore safely.
It terrified my cause it was a spot MH surfed at all the time.
Are we ranting about people being insensitive about ttc? Count me in. My supposed bff who is like 9 weeks now told me last week in a shitty way then said "the first thing I thought when I saw the positive test was 'notthedroids is gonna kill me'". Then she said she told me on a Friday so I could go be upset and drink my feelings afterward. I haven't spoken to her since.
I had someone do this to me recently. She sent me a series of texts, "omg you're going to kill me" "omg you're going to be so pissed" and I was like "huh??" Then she sent more texts like "I'm trying to figure out how to say this...but there really is no good way." Then she sent me a picture of her pee stick. With a "I AM SO SORRY ".
WTF. I don't expect people to stop getting pregnant just because I'm trying.
Then she said, "it's just sort of funny you know. How people would kill to be in my position, they try soooo hard and it's just not happening. I don't really care or try and I get pregnant so easily" (it's her first, she's like 20-something weeks along now). Oh yes, it's very funny.
Yea, I would not be able to stop myself from responding and telling her that while there's maybe no good way, there are millions of BETTER ways than the one she chose and that sending a pee stick picture (followed by a comment about how easy it was to get knocked up) is pretty damned insensitive. JFC.
Oh, I'll play. Very few people know we are trying but I called my mom after getting my PCOS diagnosis. She responded with how she doesn't understand why I'm having such a hard time since she had no trouble getting pregnant with my brother or me.
I wish people who don't 'get' PCOS would have a week on metformin. just for shits and giggles. Literally, their shits, my giggles.
I don't have PCOS but I was on metformin for a few months a few years ago because I was pre-diabetic. My doc said it would also help me lose weight. Yeah because I was nauseated from it and what I did eat went right through me.
can you breast feed if you have breast implants? what about after a reduction? I know I can google, but anyone with first or secondhand knowledge?
I had a medically supported reduction in high school and my doctor said it shouldn't be a problem. I obviously wasn't too worried about it at the time and I didn't ask many questions about it so we'll see. I'll keep you posted once I know for sure though
May I be nosey and ask what you went from/to? I always planned on having a reduction on my 30th birthday, but thought I'd have had kids by then and, well, here I am...
Is today national be an asshole day? I was sitting here enjoying a 3 Musketeers when a CW walks by and goes "you ate such a healthy lunch, you really want to ruin it by eating that?"
MIL brought up kids twice within 20 minutes/same conversation while we were all on vacation and out to eat. H told her to stop (politely) and I went up to go get more food/use restroom and she didn't bring it up the rest of the trip and hasn't brought it up again and she is staying with us.
I found out a couple of days ago from H that when I left the table he actually told his mom to quit talking about us having kids/her wanting to be a grandmother and SHE ACTUALLY LISTENED. I'm sure it will somehow still get mentioned this week.
Granted she posted to Facebook some craft you can do with kids......
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Is today national be an asshole day? I was sitting here enjoying a 3 Musketeers when a CW walks by and goes "you ate such a healthy lunch, you really want to ruin it by eating that?"
Is today national be an asshole day? I was sitting here enjoying a 3 Musketeers when a CW walks by and goes "you ate such a healthy lunch, you really want to ruin it by eating that?"
Yes. Yes, I do.
I shouldn't be surprised, this was the same CW who was picking apart what I was eating before my wedding to make sure I would still fit into my dress. Bitch, I'll worry about my fat ass getting into my dress thank you very much.
ermahgerd you guise! H got a call back from one of the places he interviewed at. They offered him the job and he took it! I'm so fucking happy right now! He'll be working for the IT department of a local school district.
Quick back story: His current boss is horrible and he carries department.
"I had a dream last night. I dreamt I was a dove flying over the sea. And then I dove into the ocean... And I swam with the dolphins. I was two animals joined as one... ...which meant - good things are coming. Good things."
Oh, I'll play. Very few people know we are trying but I called my mom after getting my PCOS diagnosis. She responded with how she doesn't understand why I'm having such a hard time since she had no trouble getting pregnant with my brother or me.
I wish people who don't 'get' PCOS would have a week on metformin. just for shits and giggles. Literally, their shits, my giggles.
My dad was on Metformin before he died for his diabetes and DH is also on it for diabetes. I was floored with how often they had these types of issues due to the Metformin. Anyone who has to take it has my unending sympathy.
I wish people who don't 'get' PCOS would have a week on metformin. just for shits and giggles. Literally, their shits, my giggles.
My dad was on Metformin before he died for his diabetes and DH is also on it for diabetes. I was floored with how often they had these types of issues due to the Metformin. Anyone who has to take it has my unending sympathy.
It gets better. but it took me years, and still today if I miss more than one dose (I have to take it twice a day) I pay for it.
My dad was on Metformin before he died for his diabetes and DH is also on it for diabetes. I was floored with how often they had these types of issues due to the Metformin. Anyone who has to take it has my unending sympathy.
It gets better. but it took me years, and still today if I miss more than one dose (I have to take it twice a day) I pay for it.
I was on it for about 4 years and could never get it figured out. I always knew where all restrooms where when I was eating. Similar to how I am now without a gall bladder.
It gets better. but it took me years, and still today if I miss more than one dose (I have to take it twice a day) I pay for it.
I was on it for about 4 years and could never get it figured out. I always knew where all restrooms where when I was eating. Similar to how I am now without a gall bladder.
H used to get annoyed with me, visiting the bathroom everywhere we went, and I lost it one day at a home depot and SCREAMED at him, I DON'T GET TO CHOOSE!!!! It must have finally sunk in, because he has never mentioned it again, and looks for the bathroom too now wherever we go, just in case.
I finally got my corn weeded today and planted some more in hopes to get enough to grow so that I actually get corn. God forbid I want to eat some instead of just having stalks.
I also would love it if my blueberries would ripen. I want to eat them so bad.
It gets better. but it took me years, and still today if I miss more than one dose (I have to take it twice a day) I pay for it.
I was on it for about 4 years and could never get it figured out. I always knew where all restrooms where when I was eating. Similar to how I am now without a gall bladder.
I feel your pain on the lack of a gall bladder. I'm really glad I had mine removed but some days the after effects are really awful. Poor H works in fabrication in a factory so he has to wait for someone to come to fill in for him before he can go to the bathroom. I can't even imagine what that's like.
I was on it for about 4 years and could never get it figured out. I always knew where all restrooms where when I was eating. Similar to how I am now without a gall bladder.
I feel your pain on the lack of a gall bladder. I'm really glad I had mine removed but some days the after effects are really awful. Poor H works in fabrication in a factory so he has to wait for someone to come to fill in for him before he can go to the bathroom. I can't even imagine what that's like.
I know what that's like. I have shat myself a few times now. a shame that can't be described.
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