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[Mom2Ms]

Highlights of his "reasoning":

I interfere with his parenting time by sending her flowers & chocolates to his house on Valentine's Day.

I cannot seem to "share" her, he cites one isolated incident from 7 months ago where we disagreed on a drop off time. (Yet fails to mention that for the last 6 weeks, I've accommodated his new schedule and given him EVERY requested visitation date he's asked for when he couldn't take her on his court ordered days)

I restrict his phone time with her. Yet fails to mention that since the beginning of 2015 to present, he's requested to speak with her a total of 11 times. I've facilitated 9 of those. The two not facilitated was because she was asleep and the other to being on the Tarmac.

And I have post pardum depression, based on the sheer fact I had it 7 years ago when I gave birth to DD. Oh and I have PTSD "from childhood." I have NO clue where that is coming from. None.

[cloe111479]

My response to his "reasons" and his whole thing...

[mmarie]

So my mom just called and said she was in a car accident. She is ok, the other guy is ok, however, her car is not. She is most upset about the gallon if milk she had in the car bust open so she is worried about it smelling like sour milk. I was using her car because we couldnt afford to fix my tire. So instead of going to the fair, DH is trying to find a cheap tire for my car so I can get to work on monday. My mom is upset because now she feels like it's her fault we can't go to the fair. I'm just glad she's ok.

[missys]

mmarie so glad she is ok!

[GeekBeagle]

Mom2Ms Ugh, that sucks. What an a-hole. It doesn't sound like his "reasons" will hold up in court.

[GeekBeagle]

I think I'm with mumomma13 in that we're finally in the 4 month sleep regression. I was starting to think that we would skip it altogether. Three wake ups MOTN Thursday night and last night he was up every hour except for 2:30-5:30. My phone was full of movement notifications from the Dropcam (I leave my iPad with the app open all night, not the phone, so it tracks every notification.)

I give mad respect to those of you that have been dealing with MOTN wake ups all along. Fingers crossed for tonight.

[GeekBeagle]

Oh, and I finally got my hair chopped. It's lots shorter, but I think I like it.

[emilyz320]

Mom2Ms I am so sorry you have to deal with that bs.

[lotsofdotts]

Mom2Ms I don't know why exes have to be such douchecanoes. Based on what you said, he won't get far with his reasons, but it just sucks that he pulls this shit when you are having issues. You don't need this! He deserves a dick punch!

[lilyelayne]

mmarie glad your mom is okay!

[hollydfromtn]

Fed DS puréed carrots tonight from our garden. He was not a fan. He really enjoyed eating it off of the spoon but would instantly regret it once he had it in his mouth lol. I'll have to post a pic later when I can get DH to send them to me.

[missys]

Jul 18, 2015 19:19:57 GMT -5 hollydfromtn said:

Fed DS puréed carrots tonight from our garden. He was not a fan. He really enjoyed eating it off of the spoon but would instantly regret it once he had it in his mouth lol. I'll have to post a pic later when I can get DH to send them to me.

Mine did this with peas! He thought Yum food! and opened his mouth and then made a face like, damn you lady you tricked me again!

[hollydfromtn]

Not a fan at all.

[jensoprano82]

Jul 18, 2015 8:03:25 GMT -5 misshart00 said:

Jul 18, 2015 6:49:17 GMT -5 jensoprano82 said:

I thought I was the only theatre wife on the board! What does your hubs do?

He's an audio engineer.

He stopped touring a few years ago, then we got married and had babies. He loves his job but it's crazy sometimes.

What does your H do?

He's a director and a college professor. He actually teaches stagecraft and lighting/sound design

[boxerrrmama85]

This weekend I have been humbled as a mom. For the first time since bringing LO home I feel like that run down hot mess of a mom. My clothes smell of vomit. My hairs a mess. I can't remember if I've brushed my teeth, my showers have not consisted of a razor to my legs since.... ?! But I'm humbled. And even though I'm wiped-- I cherish every second of being this little girls mom...

[jensoprano82]

Jul 18, 2015 9:59:58 GMT -5 babycfeb2015 said:

jensoprano82 can your little one roll yet? Mine loves napping in his rnp but he rolled over in it the other day so we stopped using it. He naps so much better in it though I might still let him if I actually strap him in and watch the moniter..

I strap him in... Otherwise he could flip over in it easily. He's never in it when I'm not in the room though

[Mom2Ms]

Jul 18, 2015 16:34:08 GMT -5 GeekBeagle said:

Oh, and I finally got my hair chopped. It's lots shorter, but I think I like it.

I'm so, so close to this. But alas, I am also afraid.... I know that I'd like it after a week or so....