Well I'm not apologizing this time because I didn't say anything offensive or controversial. Just didn't realize what I said was a big deal. But sure. I guess I just can't get ahead on this site anymore cause the same thing is perceived of me no matter what I say.
The same thing is perceived of you because you keep posting idiotic things. Many of us are willing to move on from the racist comments, but almost everything you post is insensitive or ignorant. We continue to flame you because you just don't get it.
I don't know how much more plainly I can put it. Seriously.
If you want me to leave for good, sure. I can see no matter how nice and how I've never been malicious to another poster by yet have had pure rudeness towards me, no one cares what I have to say on here and can't redeem myself. What I said today was not rude, mean, offensive, controversial but yet was immediately flamed because of any mistakes in the past. Just tell me you want me to go and I will. This site only makes me feel worse about myself no matter how supportive or sweet I am to everyone else.
Well I'm not apologizing this time because I didn't say anything offensive or controversial. Just didn't realize what I said was a big deal. But sure. I guess I just can't get ahead on this site anymore cause the same thing is perceived of me no matter what I say.
The same thing is perceived of you because you keep posting idiotic things. Many of us are willing to move on from the racist comments, but almost everything you post is insensitive or ignorant. We continue to flame you because you just don't get it.
I don't know how much more plainly I can put it. Seriously.
Please, please tell me what I said that was insensitive or ignorant and deserving of the rudeness.
If you want me to leave for good, sure. I can see no matter how nice and how I've never been malicious to another poster by yet have had pure rudeness towards me, no one cares what I have to say on here and can't redeem myself. What I said today was not rude, mean, offensive, controversial but yet was immediately flamed because of any mistakes in the past. Just tell me you want me to go and I will. This site only makes me feel worse about myself no matter how supportive or sweet I am to everyone else.
You weren't flamed because of who you are. We would have flamed anyone that claimed their children wouldn't be allowed to throw a fit. Because that's ridiculous.
Post by kawaiikitsune on Aug 14, 2015 19:03:58 GMT -5
@rutherily
A. I would hardly consider this flaming. B. You are not constantly "flamed" due to your past mistakes. We have several members who have said some dumb ass shit who are now valued members of this community. C. When people say dumb shit here, they are called out for it. Despite having been given several chances to stop saying dumb shit, you continue to do so.
The same thing is perceived of you because you keep posting idiotic things. Many of us are willing to move on from the racist comments, but almost everything you post is insensitive or ignorant. We continue to flame you because you just don't get it.
I don't know how much more plainly I can put it. Seriously.
Please, please tell me what I said that was insensitive or ignorant and deserving of the rudeness.
The best way to figure out what you are doing wrong is to look through your post history and take note of the different things you've said that seem to upset people.
We can only point things out so many times, you need to take it upon yourself to figure out how to stop yourself from constantly putting your foot in your mouth. It's a very easily learned skill.
If you want me to leave for good, sure. I can see no matter how nice and how I've never been malicious to another poster by yet have had pure rudeness towards me, no one cares what I have to say on here and can't redeem myself. What I said today was not rude, mean, offensive, controversial but yet was immediately flamed because of any mistakes in the past. Just tell me you want me to go and I will. This site only makes me feel worse about myself no matter how supportive or sweet I am to everyone else.
You weren't flamed because of who you are. We would have flamed anyone that claimed their children wouldn't be allowed to throw a fit. Because that's ridiculous.
All of this.
If I had said I was going to give swift punishment to my kids I would have been flamed @rutherily. You think this is personal because you get flamed all the time. It's not personal, you just say stupid shit A LOT. There have been many days where you don't say anything stupid and everyone is civil and nice towards you. Then there are days like today where you say something stupid and people point it out. You don't think before you speak. If your CW thought what you said was bad enough to comment, what the fuck did you think would happen here? Honestly.
For example, my UO yesterday was that I don't like reality tv shows, but if others like them then good for them. However, if I said reality tv shows are horrible, and people who watch them must have low IQs (I don't think this, just using an example), I would have had my ass handed to me on a silver platter. It's called thinking before you type.
You weren't flamed because of who you are. We would have flamed anyone that claimed their children wouldn't be allowed to throw a fit. Because that's ridiculous.
All of this.
If I had said I was going to give swift punishment to my kids I would have been flamed @rutherily. You think this is personal because you get flamed all the time. It's not personal, you just say stupid shit A LOT. There have been many days where you don't say anything stupid and everyone is civil and nice towards you. Then there are days like today where you say something stupid and people point it out. You don't think before you speak. If your CW thought what you said was bad enough to comment, what the fuck did you think would happen here? Honestly.
For example, my UO yesterday was that I don't like reality tv shows, but if others like them then good for them. However, if I said reality tv shows are horrible, and people who watch them must have low IQs (I don't think this, just using an example), I would have had my ass handed to me on a silver platter. It's called thinking before you type.
Except what I said today was not offensive or degrading or judging. If I said people who let their kids throw fits are bad moms would be very, very flame worthy. But if I make a stupid assumption of my own parenting choices before I'm a parent I didn't see how that was flame worthy. But I digress. Perhaps I'm extra sensitive today because I started my period. But I know I can't say that either or I'm insensitive to those who've been trying to have children... So I guess we'll chalk it up to me being thin skinned.
If I had said I was going to give swift punishment to my kids I would have been flamed @rutherily. You think this is personal because you get flamed all the time. It's not personal, you just say stupid shit A LOT. There have been many days where you don't say anything stupid and everyone is civil and nice towards you. Then there are days like today where you say something stupid and people point it out. You don't think before you speak. If your CW thought what you said was bad enough to comment, what the fuck did you think would happen here? Honestly.
For example, my UO yesterday was that I don't like reality tv shows, but if others like them then good for them. However, if I said reality tv shows are horrible, and people who watch them must have low IQs (I don't think this, just using an example), I would have had my ass handed to me on a silver platter. It's called thinking before you type.
Except what I said today was not offensive or degrading or judging. If I said people who let their kids throw fits are bad moms would be very, very flame worthy. But if I make a stupid assumption of my own parenting choices before I'm a parent I didn't see how that was flame worthy. But I digress. Perhaps I'm extra sensitive today because I started my period. But I know I can't say that either or I'm insensitive to those who've been trying to have children... So I guess we'll chalk it up to me being thin skinned.
Post by icaughtfire on Aug 14, 2015 19:36:20 GMT -5
FWIW, I would flame anyone ignorant enough to think they will prevent their kid from having a tantrum just by punishing them. I don't give a fuck who you are.
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Well I'm not apologizing this time because I didn't say anything offensive or controversial. Just didn't realize what I said was a big deal. But sure. I guess I just can't get ahead on this site anymore cause the same thing is perceived of me no matter what I say.
#bumpingthethread #canthelpit #donthateme
How the fuck do you not understand how it's offensive to say "I won't allow my kid to throw tantrums" to someone who is telling you that her kid threw a tantrum!?!?!
Similar scenarios:
Person A: I'm really struggling with my diet. Person B: Well I would NEVER eat junk food.
Person A: Ugh, I'm always late no matter how hard I try. Person B: I am never late; I don't tolerate tardiness.
Person A: I made a mistake at work and I'm really worried about it. Person B: I don't ever make mistakes at work.
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And for serious @rutherily, if you're gonna go, then go & be done with it. If you're gonna stay, then grow up & own your shit.
This whole "woe is me, guess I'll just leave" BULLSHIIIIIIIIT every time you get (deservedly) flamed is getting really old.
Andplusalso, pointing out stupid shit and trying to explain to you why something is stupid is not the same as flaming. If you were flamed in this thread they have got to be the lamest flames I have ever seen.
I fucking hate when people blame being overly sensitive on their menstrual cycles. If that's true, @rutherily must frequently get her period on Thursdays and Fridays.
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Except what I said today was not offensive or degrading or judging. If I said people who let their kids throw fits are bad moms would be very, very flame worthy. But if I make a stupid assumption of my own parenting choices before I'm a parent I didn't see how that was flame worthy. But I digress. Perhaps I'm extra sensitive today because I started my period. But I know I can't say that either or I'm insensitive to those who've been trying to have children... So I guess we'll chalk it up to me being thin skinned.
JFC. @rutherily, why do you have to be so dramatic? There have been plenty of people on these boards have stuck up for you in the past despite of a few comments you have made. Second chances are given here all the time.
I'm truly sorry that your coworker was an insensitive twat. You posted a random story along with your FFFC, which is what people are commenting on, despite the fact that wasn't what you were focused on. As a parent, I can tell you that your comment about not allowing your kid to have a fit is laughable.
I'm sorry that you got your period today, but your comment above about not being able to say that "because it's insensitive to those trying to have children" is just being really fucking dramatic.
I'm over it, and I don't think the FFFC or UO threads are really your cup of tea. You know how these threads go. Just because you didn't think you posted anything worth flaming, doesn't mean we just ignore stupid comments made.
If you want to hang around here, I suggest getting a sense of humour that allows you to laugh at yourself occasionally.
I was flamed for making a comment about being emotional from CD1 once so that wasn't necessarily just a dramatic statement, albeit it was said it in a moment of dramatics.
I do apologize for being so emotional and over reactive, it just felt like salt in the wound when I got told I was stupid or ignorant on here right after the coworker said something really insensitive for that statement. I guess I just didn't see how that statement was so...bad. I can definitely see out of context how naive that statement might seem, though.
And I am sorely sorry I disrupted your threesomes conversation. I really did add something to that and the ghost conversation. If anyone is interested in those thoughts of mine, see above. ?
JFC. @rutherily, why do you have to be so dramatic? There have been plenty of people on these boards have stuck up for you in the past despite of a few comments you have made. Second chances are given here all the time.
I'm truly sorry that your coworker was an insensitive twat. You posted a random story along with your FFFC, which is what people are commenting on, despite the fact that wasn't what you were focused on. As a parent, I can tell you that your comment about not allowing your kid to have a fit is laughable.
I'm sorry that you got your period today, but your comment above about not being able to say that "because it's insensitive to those trying to have children" is just being really fucking dramatic.
I'm over it, and I don't think the FFFC or UO threads are really your cup of tea. You know how these threads go. Just because you didn't think you posted anything worth flaming, doesn't mean we just ignore stupid comments made.
If you want to hang around here, I suggest getting a sense of humour that allows you to laugh at yourself occasionally.
I was flamed for making a comment about being emotional from CD1 once so that wasn't necessarily just a dramatic statement, albeit it was said it in a moment of dramatics.
I do apologize for being so emotional and over reactive, it just felt like salt in the wound when I got told I was stupid or ignorant on here right after the coworker said something really insensitive for that statement. I guess I just didn't see how that statement was so...bad. I can definitely see out of context how naive that statement might seem, though.
And I am sorely sorry I disrupted your threesomes conversation. I really did add something to that and the ghost conversation. If anyone is interested in those thoughts of mine, see above. ?
FFS dude, no one said your comment was bad or offensive. We said it was fucking stupid. Because when people say stupid shit, we tell them.
I find the best way to avoid people pointing out that I'm saying stupid shit is by not saying stupid shit all the fucking time. Give it a try.
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I worry I'd be too jealous if I ever tried a MFF threesome. But I do love to fantasize about it. Also a lover of girl on girl porn.
I was apologizing for my overreacting is all. It's time to drop it.
I have some strange threesome fantasies and am not opposed to watching my husband with another woman. We have never explored that in real life though, unfortunately. That's not my only strange fetish either.
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