Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
I'm more interested in a MFF threesome than my husband and him with another girl is a strange fantasy fetish of mine I haven't explored yet.
And real time conversation that probably belongs in randoms: I told a coworker I won't allow my children to throw fits and punishment will be swift for them because it wasn't tolerated when I was a child. So other coworker who overheard conversation told me I shouldn't be having kids. Uh, way rude and inappropriate comment.
Ok, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you work in the mental health field too? So you should understand more than anyone that not all fits can be handled with "swift punishment"... yeah lemme just punish my kids with RAD and ODD and those on the spectrum. That'll work out reaaaaal well.
@rutherily,how do you expect to stop (for arguments sake) an 18 month old from throwing a fit?
With swift & quick punishment. Babies are very reasonable & have excellent reasoning skills, obvs.
That was more redundant than I intended. Either way, good luck with telling your toddler who's having an epic meltdown for no fucking reason that that shit is unacceptable.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
I'm more interested in a MFF threesome than my husband and him with another girl is a strange fantasy fetish of mine I haven't explored yet.
And real time conversation that probably belongs in randoms: I told a coworker I won't allow my children to throw fits and punishment will be swift for them because it wasn't tolerated when I was a child. So other coworker who overheard conversation told me I shouldn't be having kids. Uh, way rude and inappropriate comment.
Ok, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you work in the mental health field too? So you should understand more than anyone that not all fits can be handled with "swift punishment"... yeah lemme just punish my kids with RAD and ODD and those on the spectrum. That'll work out reaaaaal well.
I don't work in the mental health field. My comment was in response to a coworker telling me the story of her 5 year old throwing a fit and taking his iPad away as punishment. I said that I thought was a good move and will punish fits swiftly in my house. Second coworker walked up at that comment and told me I shouldn't have kids.
Ok, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you work in the mental health field too? So you should understand more than anyone that not all fits can be handled with "swift punishment"... yeah lemme just punish my kids with RAD and ODD and those on the spectrum. That'll work out reaaaaal well.
I don't work in the mental health field. My comment was in response to a coworker telling me the story of her 5 year old throwing a fit and taking his iPad away as punishment. I said that I thought was a good move and will punish fits swiftly in my house. Second coworker walked up at that comment and told me I shouldn't have kids.
Do you have a history of saying stupid shit that may have added to this coworker saying something?
I don't work in the mental health field. My comment was in response to a coworker telling me the story of her 5 year old throwing a fit and taking his iPad away as punishment. I said that I thought was a good move and will punish fits swiftly in my house. Second coworker walked up at that comment and told me I shouldn't have kids.
Do you have a history of saying stupid shit that may have added to this coworker saying something?
Ok, correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you work in the mental health field too? So you should understand more than anyone that not all fits can be handled with "swift punishment"... yeah lemme just punish my kids with RAD and ODD and those on the spectrum. That'll work out reaaaaal well.
I don't work in the mental health field. My comment was in response to a coworker telling me the story of her 5 year old throwing a fit and taking his iPad away as punishment. I said that I thought was a good move and will punish fits swiftly in my house. Second coworker walked up at that comment and told me I shouldn't have kids.
If a kid is having a meltdown, I'm pretty sure taking away their iPad will end that fit immediately.
Or, put them in their room/a safe place, let them scream for a bit, and then when they've calmed down discuss actions & consequences. Children throw fits because they don't always know how to express emotions. Imagine if you were expected to shut up every time you were frustrated.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
1. Nothing like this happened & you're looking for commiseration?sympathy?I don't know what. 2. Coworker hears your version of stupid for 40 hours a week and just can't even with you anymore.
No and no. I'm really not as bad/rude/horrible as a person as you think and there are a select few "mean girl" coworkers and I try to avoid interacting with them at all costs.
I'm more interested in a MFF threesome than my husband and him with another girl is a strange fantasy fetish of mine I haven't explored yet.
And real time conversation that probably belongs in randoms: I told a coworker I won't allow my children to throw fits and punishment will be swift for them because it wasn't tolerated when I was a child. So other coworker who overheard conversation told me I shouldn't be having kids. Uh, way rude and inappropriate comment.
1. Nothing like this happened & you're looking for commiseration?sympathy?I don't know what. 2. Coworker hears your version of stupid for 40 hours a week and just can't even with you anymore.
No and no. I'm really not as bad/rude/horrible as a person as you think and there are a select few "mean girl" coworkers and I try to avoid interacting with them at all costs.
Sorry, I got distracted by the tantrum my kid was having. What were we talking about?
You allowed your kid to throw a tantrum?! Where was the swift punishment??
My "punishment" is ignoring you. Bitch, please. You wanna scream and cry and throw yourself on the floor because I won't give you a cookie? Go nuts. I'll be over here ignoring you. We can interact again when you act like a human.
You allowed your kid to throw a tantrum?! Where was the swift punishment??
My "punishment" is ignoring you. Bitch, please. You wanna scream and cry and throw yourself on the floor because I won't give you a cookie? Go nuts. I'll be over here ignoring you. We can interact again when you act like a human.
Unfortunately, my parents did not provide swift punishment when I had tantrums as a child, so I still react this way when I don't get cookies. Are you saying that's not an appropriate reaction?
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
Post by shemarie82 on Aug 14, 2015 16:48:29 GMT -5
The twins are currently throwing fits because I gave them the full sippy cups when they want empty ones. I need to know the appropriate swift action to take in this situation.
The twins are currently throwing fits because I gave them the full sippy cups when they want empty ones. I need to know the appropriate swift action to take in this situation.
Ask @rutherily, apparently she's the new Dr. Spock of our generation in regards to child rearing.
The twins are currently throwing fits because I gave them the full sippy cups when they want empty ones. I need to know the appropriate swift action to take in this situation.
Ask @rutherily, apparently she's the new Dr. Spock of our generation in regards to child rearing.
Well when I was referring to children of an age who know better, like how the woman's story was about her 5 year old, I guess that's the same thing as making me feel like an ass with stories about toddlers right? Even though initially that was not the point of my story and why I didn't feel I had to go into a detailed explanation of punishment for each stage of my child's life. But by all means continue tagging me and making the coworkers comment even more difficult to deal with since I couldn't talk to anyone else about it.
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