I voted indifferent. I worry that people will feel left out if they try and come back after being gone. So as long as it is all inclusive I would be fine, I just don't want the clique type situation.
No cliques. Sweet mother of Abraham Lincoln, no cliques.
I put that I feel indifferent, but I suppose if there are people who would feel more comfortable posting I'm fine with going private. I can't really think of a reason *not* to go private really.
I think I'd prefer private. I recently found out that a woman who wants DH found me on here and made threats. She knew way too much about our life based on what I've shared.
I think I'd prefer private. I recently found out that a woman who wants DH found me on here and made threats. She knew way too much about our life based on what I've shared.
I voted indifferent. I worry that people will feel left out if they try and come back after being gone. So as long as it is all inclusive I would be fine, I just don't want the clique type situation.
Could we pin a note up on this current public board saying if you're looking for us, PM so-and-so for the private board password? And a few of us could be in charge of verifying identities?
I voted indifferent. I worry that people will feel left out if they try and come back after being gone. So as long as it is all inclusive I would be fine, I just don't want the clique type situation.
Could we pin a note up on this current public board saying if you're looking for us, PM so-and-so for the private board password? And a few of us could be in charge of verifying identities?
theophaniaNariaDreaming Not sure if you are the right people to tag but I figured it's a start! How would we go about making our board a private board? Or having a private board set up?
Could we pin a note up on this current public board saying if you're looking for us, PM so-and-so for the private board password? And a few of us could be in charge of verifying identities?
This is where I think things get sticky. Are we only letting in new people with a recommendation?
That's typically how it goes. If they're not a "reg" here they only get the password if someone else can vouch for them.
We typically set it up as a private sub-board, so that if other J13'ers wander in at this late point, they can at least post on the open board.
Once you guys know what you want, PM me or theophania with who the keeper of the password will be, and we will get it set up for you guys.
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theophaniaNariaDreaming Not sure if you are the right people to tag but I figured it's a start! How would we go about making our board a private board? Or having a private board set up?
Thank you!
Thanks! Maybe Kdc can put a sticky on here at the top . What's her SN here? Can't remember.
Also, I'm happy to be one of the people to verify and give out passwords if you guys are comfy with it since I raised this. I won't be offended if not
Post by huckleberry08 on Aug 31, 2015 8:13:21 GMT -5
@coffeeismylyfe At this point I am 100% fine with people only joining with a recommendation, or at least with a history of having been involved. We have been together long enough to know the regular posters versus not, even those that only post on, say, the pregnancy check-ins. I think that's very different from a clique, where we'd intentionally exclude an established poster or refuse to give the password to an old reg. That's my two cents, anyway.
@coffeeismylyfe At this point I am 100% fine with people only joining with a recommendation, or at least with a history of having been involved. We have been together long enough to know the regular posters versus not, even those that only post on, say, the pregnancy check-ins. I think that's very different from a clique, where we'd intentionally exclude an established poster or refuse to give the password to an old reg. That's my two cents, anyway.
This. No newbies at this point, is what I think we're saying -- not in the private group. If there's an old poster who comes back looking for us we can verify that she's legitimately part of our community.
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