Me: 31 Him: 31
Married: 6/2007
TTC: 9/2012
DX: Hypothyroidism, possible blocked left tube... DH had a great SA 12/2013, but a terrible SA 2/2015 (not sure where we're going with that)
Furbabies: 2 Boxers and a Boston Terrier
That was one part of 50 shades I hated. Who seriously has an orgasm the first time they have sex and then EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. after that??
Yes. THANK YOU. And if I remember correctly her first one is just from him touching her nipples? Like what?
Also they have sex like 5x a day, every day. DH and I can barely make it three days in a row during my fertile window. Just... Damn.
Ok, that's a little extreme. I can get really turned on from just nipples but not orgasm. I did see a lady on tv who could make herself orgasm by just thinking about sex. We had sex 3 times yesterday but that's rare these days. Who has the time for 5 times a day, every day?
I was a slutty 17 year old, I think there was another year I added more than the average. I don't feel too bad because I took my number and divided it by my years sexually active and it's less than 4 per year. That's not terrible LOL.
I have a journal that I started for a year or so when I was 22 and I have a list in the back. DH hasn't found the list, so we are good LOL
I told DH mine and could name them all. Most were friends or acquaintances before I slept with them. Most were with the intent to be fuck buddies because that's all I wanted and let them know that ahead of time. DH's number is like 5. He doesn't agree with me that there's a difference in just fucking and making love. He doesn't understand how someone can just fuck with no feelings. We just agreed to disagree.
When SO wanted to play the "how many have you had" game, I told him to go first so I could lower my number if I had to lol. He said no, he wanted me to go first and that he was positive he had more because he was in a fraternity with lots of parties and sex. I told him my number and he was quiet and just stared at me. And then he said, "oh, yea, I have had like, well over, maybe, 30." And he walked away. I'm pretty sure I out numbered him lol
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
I was a slutty 17 year old, I think there was another year I added more than the average. I don't feel too bad because I took my number and divided it by my years sexually active and it's less than 4 per year. That's not terrible LOL.
I have a journal that I started for a year or so when I was 22 and I have a list in the back. DH hasn't found the list, so we are good LOL
I told DH mine and could name them all. Most were friends or acquaintances before I slept with them. Most were with the intent to be fuck buddies because that's all I wanted and let them know that ahead of time. DH's number is like 5. He doesn't agree with me that there's a difference in just fucking and making love. He doesn't understand how someone can just fuck with no feelings. We just agreed to disagree.
DH asked me my number when we first started dating. I lied. I said over 10 and under 15.
I told DH mine and could name them all. Most were friends or acquaintances before I slept with them. Most were with the intent to be fuck buddies because that's all I wanted and let them know that ahead of time. DH's number is like 5. He doesn't agree with me that there's a difference in just fucking and making love. He doesn't understand how someone can just fuck with no feelings. We just agreed to disagree.
When SO wanted to play the "how many have you had" game, I told him to go first so I could lower my number if I had to lol. He said no, he wanted me to go first and that he was positive he had more because he was in a fraternity with lots of parties and sex. I told him my number and he was quiet and just stared at me. And then he said, "oh, yea, I have had like, well over, maybe, 30." And he walked away. I'm pretty sure I out numbered him lol
Post by bellefontaine on Jan 26, 2015 23:42:27 GMT -5
One and done with my DH. We started dating at 15, got married just shy of 19 and waited til our wedding night for actual P in V action. We done plenty of other stuff though. We broke up briefly right after graduation and I had a couple almost's. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't actually do anything but make out with either one because both of those guys turned out to be total D-bags. All my wild sexcapades have been with H and I'm happy about that.
eta: after seeing "3-4" I need to know. For me one is normal, two is on a drunken evening, and 3 has happened once.
H is obsessed with making the 3-4 thing happen. Then I feel stressed at the idea because it feels like performance pressure and get pooped out after just 1. Haha!
(I promise that all of this is well-discussed in our relationship and that I do not have some secret resentment.)
eta: after seeing "3-4" I need to know. For me one is normal, two is on a drunken evening, and 3 has happened once.
H is obsessed with making the 3-4 thing happen. Then I feel stressed at the idea because it feels like performance pressure and get pooped out after just 1. Haha!
(I promise that all of this is well-discussed in our relationship and that I do not have some secret resentment.)
Same here! He is determined to make it happen but I always feel too pressured and can never relax enough.
H is obsessed with making the 3-4 thing happen. Then I feel stressed at the idea because it feels like performance pressure and get pooped out after just 1. Haha!
(I promise that all of this is well-discussed in our relationship and that I do not have some secret resentment.)
I used to be able to get SEVEN from sex. SEVEN. To be fair, that was usually having sex 2 or 3 times in a night (another thing that doesn't happen these days haha).
Now TWO is perfect for me, my husband is always wanting me to have one more.
Some toys have helped, but there's no way I'm having three or four during sex these days without assistance.
(bows down) Seven is pretty incredible. I don't know if H should find out that this is possible. bahaha!
H is obsessed with making the 3-4 thing happen. Then I feel stressed at the idea because it feels like performance pressure and get pooped out after just 1. Haha!
(I promise that all of this is well-discussed in our relationship and that I do not have some secret resentment.)
I used to be able to get SEVEN from sex. SEVEN. To be fair, that was usually having sex 2 or 3 times in a night (another thing that doesn't happen these days haha).
Now TWO is perfect for me, my husband is always wanting me to have one more.
Some toys have helped, but there's no way I'm having three or four during sex these days without assistance.
I can do 2-3 and I'm done. Seven would have to be multiple times of having sex. I need a break between them or I just don't enjoy it. One is really enough to satisfy me unless we're doing 2-3 hour sessions.
aessary03 - married, 2 children, ttc #3 before 35. Emma - 10/16/03 (former 29 weeker) , Ozzy - 11/1/13 (former 31 weeker).
Both children preemies due to eclampsia and pre-eclampsia.
Post by notlindsrockies on Jan 27, 2015 0:16:32 GMT -5
3, including H.
Just personally, I'm glad he wasn't my first. It has made me appreciate his "skills" even more after I had the opportunity to compare him to two other men.
H is obsessed with making the 3-4 thing happen. Then I feel stressed at the idea because it feels like performance pressure and get pooped out after just 1. Haha!
(I promise that all of this is well-discussed in our relationship and that I do not have some secret resentment.)
I used to be able to get SEVEN from sex. SEVEN. To be fair, that was usually having sex 2 or 3 times in a night (another thing that doesn't happen these days haha).
Now TWO is perfect for me, my husband is always wanting me to have one more.
Some toys have helped, but there's no way I'm having three or four during sex these days without assistance.
My body just hurts from seven. If it was broken up throughout the day I could probably make that work.
Oh and 3-4 is definitely with assistance. There is nothing wrong with having help.
Post by almachs0786 on Jan 27, 2015 0:33:16 GMT -5
I feel kind of ashamed that I don't actually know my number. I've been bumpin' uglies for 13 years and can barely remember what I had for breakfast. Plus I was kind of lost (struggled with addiction) for some time, so those years are blurry. I'm going to say between 10-15.
ETA- I've been trying to recount. I guess closer to 20..ish.
3, including DH. This probably would've been more, but the guys in HS/college were inept at wooing this weirdo. Lol. I also got with my husband only a year out of HS, and we've been together since, so I'm more than cool with my number. DH keeps me very happy.
Geez, over 7 is a ticket to whore Island-pass the drinks. I am somewhere around 7-10, I think. I had a few flings and some casual friends with benefits. Sex is good and I enjoyed my younger years!
Post by sunfrogger88 on Jan 27, 2015 8:55:46 GMT -5
4. I met DH when I was 20. So.... Eh. Just a number. Although DH's number is 3 and both girls before me were virgins. I introduced him to the dark side of sex with an experienced partner!
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Post by LadyNymeria on Jan 27, 2015 9:09:42 GMT -5
Mine is 2, MH's is 3. Both of us spent time in long relationships before we met each other - 6 years for me, 5 years for him - so that leads itself to lower numbers.
I'm excited that at the end of this year I will have been with MH longer than I was with my ex. The time I spent with the ex is now my biggest regret in life, so I hate that he's still my longest relationship so far.
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