The past 2 nights DD has woken up in the middle of the night inconsolable. Normally when she wakes up, I go in, and she lies back down and goes to sleep within 5 minutes. The past 2 nights though she freaks out when I enter the room. She's already crying but when I come in she starts screaming and basically wants nothing to do with me.
This is kind of how she acts when DH normally goes bc she wants me but its so much worse now and totally directed at me. Any thoughts on what this is stemming from? Bad dreams? New teeth? The baby? During the day, she's completely fine and just like always. It's bothering me bc if I try to console her she screams and throws herself down but if I leave the room she freaks too.
What would be your first step in this situation? Send in DH, the parent that she normally kicks off for? Don't go in at all? It's hard to just ignore or even punish bc while during the day the behavior isn't something I would tolerate, in the middle of the night it's completely unprovoked and kind of scary/sad. I'm at a loss.
Thanks jnetx It was such a rough night. I was up back and forth between the kids until 3. DH leaves for work at 5 and I'm still on leave so I try to let him sleep. If it happens again though, I'll definitely be following your advice.
Post by redfraggle on Sept 1, 2015 14:13:18 GMT -5
I'd still try to comfort her. She probably is stressed from everything going on. And 2 is when the tantrums start to get really bad (just wait until 3, though!). I liked jnetx idea about turning off the monitor for a short time and letting her work through it. Sometimes you have to let her deal with her emotions on her own.
I'd still try to comfort her. She probably is stressed from everything going on. And 2 is when the tantrums start to get really bad (just wait until 3, though!). I liked jnetx idea about turning off the monitor for a short time and letting her work through it. Sometimes you have to let her deal with her emotions on her own.
I hope it gets better!
I felt bad doing it, but I figure my goal is for him to calm down and go to sleep, and being in there was doing the opposite of that. And my H was out of town that night, so my options were limited.
I had to do extinction with DS. I get it. It still isn't my favorite method, but you have to do what you have to do.
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