I was right. But instead of talking to me about it. She decided it would be best to ignore me and blog about it.
The only reason I’m going to this lunch is because it involves sushi. Aside from that I would have come up with any excuse to not go to this thing. What’s sad it’s just a lunch with a “friend.” I use the term friend loosely because I can’t stand this person anymore. Call me new age or spiritual or what have you, but I firmly believe that whatever you put out in to the world is what you get back. Okay, so you had a miscarriage. Yah that sucks and I’m sorry for your lose. But if that’s all you talk about and post about on social media then no duh people keep telling you to get over it. I can’t go on my Facebook without seeing a new article about how women should talk about their miscarriages. I can’t even go on my Pinterest because she now has a board entitled Pregnancy Lose. I’m sorry, I’m just looking for cool shit on Pinterest and your ruining my mood by repinning quotes that have nothing to do with the lose of a child that you have some how transformed to be relevant to the subject. All I want to scream at you is GET THE FUCK OVER IT. But I’m a decent human being and so far I have refrained from doing that. Let’s hope to god I can make it through this lunch without snapping. done hearing about miscarriages move on with your life Miscarriage Carey
I don't know. But I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of drama. I just plan to block her on everything. It is so funny though she could have just told me. Or unfollowed me on facebook and pinterest.
@eliida, That lunch was July 18th....Funny thing is after that only one text was anything to do with TTC and that was to say how many people have had moved on from the book club because of pregnancy.
She hated me and yet she usually has sushi at least once a month without me. So I don't get why she just didn't say she couldn't be friends anymore or just make an excuse not to go and go without me. She was also very pleased to take many Disney dvds off my hands (Upgraded to Blu-ray which usually comes with DVD) and other movies I was getting rid of.
Thanks everyone. It was a low blow because while I am an open book to anyone, I usually keep my walls up. For someone who believes they are so mature for their age. She really just showed how immature she is.
It's so funny and sad. While this is a horrible month for me and in a way a set back. June, July, and most of August were really the first months I felt like I was getting some of my old self back. Still growing and changing from my loss but it wasn't always foremost in my mind, thoughts, or in my conversations.
Post by sarcaztic10 on Sept 4, 2015 8:00:33 GMT -5
I am just now reading this... She is a fucking Bitch!!! Fuck her... seriously she can fuck right off! You deserve a better friend than she is and I am glad you are cutting her out. I would also be interested in finding her blog and leaving some choice words for her... Sending you a bunch of (((Hugs)))
crimpgirl, Funny thing is the anniversary for her "Best Friend's" death is coming up soon....her friend died more than 4 years ago.....She wears a bracelet or a certain colored bow to represent this friend..... I still can't believe this whole thing. Didn't even talk to me. Of why the hell didn't she just unfollow me on pinterest and facebook.... You don't see me going around to pregnant peoples facebook telling them to just get over being pregnant and stop posting about it.... Also in the past 3 months I have shared 4 things about loss. It all just adds up to she is an immature cunt who isn't happy without being mad at someone else.
4furrypaws, It will take me awhile time to get over this. I am realizing more and more what a manipulative person she is. I am glad I have my locks changed. And the only place she isn't blocked is here. It is good to know she would be eaten alive here.
cavewmn holy shit that is one heartless bitch! I am seriously all kinds of ragey of this for you. I cannot wrap my head around how she thought that writing such venom on a blog or thinking those thoughts even, was a good idea.
I cannot get over her calling herself a "spiritual" person who believes that what you put out there the world returns to you....., She clearly doesn't understand that what she is putting out there into the world is such shit.... And she should just enjoy her life now because the world will react to her bullshit and she has a world of hurt coming her way. she contradicted herself in all kinds of ways! I will never understand how people who have no soul actually think that they are "spiritual" people....... UGH!!
I'm just so, so, so, sorry you ever met a person like her. She deserves all the karma that will come her way, because the universe has a funny way of teaching lessons.
I hope it was ok for me to respond here....... If not I'm sorry.
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