Post by frankenboom on Sept 25, 2015 21:33:35 GMT -5
Lol the criteria for posting a main page BFP is "I recognize her."
This was a drive by in its purest form.
Congrats but come on guys this is riciulous and honestly kind of disrespectful to actually active GKU posters. Especially since she's been able to post with no problems on her BMB.
Raise your hand if you were waiting on the edge of your seat to find out where she'd gone.
Lol the criteria for posting a main page BFP is "I recognize her."
This was a drive by in its purest form.
Congrats but come on guys this is riciulous and honestly kind of disrespectful to actually active GKU posters. Especially since she's been able to post with no problems on her BMB.
Raise your hand if you were waiting on the edge of your seat to find out where she'd gone.
All of this.
Legit, I would not have noticed if OP had simply moved on to her BMB. Also, the general consensus is, if you mainly post in the WTO/TWW threads, a main board BFP post if not necessary and considered a drive-by. Get out of here with that "I recognized her from a post that one time" bullshit. If you have already into'd on your BMB, there is no need to come back and be like "By the way guise..."
I kind of feel like if we ignored these type of posts it would be more effective. Because then people who don't participate much would see that some posts get very few "congrats" posts, and others get a ton. And you could tell this without even opening the thread, because the page counts would be lower.
Lol the criteria for posting a main page BFP is "I recognize her."
This was a drive by in its purest form.
Congrats but come on guys this is riciulous and honestly kind of disrespectful to actually active GKU posters. Especially since she's been able to post with no problems on her BMB.
Raise your hand if you were waiting on the edge of your seat to find out where she'd gone.
I kind of feel like if we ignored these type of posts it would be more effective. Because then people who don't participate much would see that some posts get very few "congrats" posts, and others get a ton. And you could tell this without even opening the thread, because the page counts would be lower.
But who knows.
I cannot ignore asshole behavior. I will call it out every single time.
Number One: Born 06.16.2009 BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014 BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014 Dx: Partial Molar/GTD. Benched until 01.2015 Number Two: Born 07.22.2016
Lol the criteria for posting a main page BFP is "I recognize her."
This was a drive by in its purest form.
Congrats but come on guys this is riciulous and honestly kind of disrespectful to actually active GKU posters. Especially since she's been able to post with no problems on her BMB.
Raise your hand if you were waiting on the edge of your seat to find out where she'd gone.
All of this.
Legit, I would not have noticed if OP have simply moved on to her BMB. Also, the general consensus is, if you mainly post in the WTO/TWW threads, a main board BFP post if not necessary and considered a drive-by. Get out of here with that "I recognized her from a post that one time" bullshit. If you have already into'd on your BMB, there is no need to come back and be like "By the way guise..."
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I kind of feel like if we ignored these type of posts it would be more effective. Because then people who don't participate much would see that some posts get very few "congrats" posts, and others get a ton. And you could tell this without even opening the thread, because the page counts would be lower.
But who knows.
I cannot ignore asshole behavior. I will call it out every single time.
#areyounew?
#ofcoursenot
Just voicing an opinion. These types of threads usually end up almost as long as some of the shorter BFP announcement threads, which I think encourages people (who obviously aren't reading through multiple pages of responses) to think that every BFP thread is well received.
It's just an opinion. Similar to "Don't feed the trolls".
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