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[megan81112]

I have my 4 week check up tomorrow and I hope my doctor clears me for sexy time. She better give me some birth control.

I've been holding out because I have this fear of getting an infection or getting pregnant. Hoping for the ok so I cam get over this mental block.

And even when I am cleared to go at it I'm still not shaving.

[grumpycat88]

Love tit for not shaving. I've heard that a glass of wine or beer is good to help relax before the first pp dtd. and lucky! Four weeks! My appt is at 6 weeks pp.

[mmblake2008]

Jan 28, 2015 3:05:16 GMT -5 grumpycat88 said:

Love tit for not shaving. I've heard that a glass of wine or beer is good to help relax before the first pp dtd. and lucky! Four weeks! My appt is at 6 weeks pp.

I would definitely recommend a drink before the first time postpartum!

[muskiefan]

Jan 28, 2015 3:20:25 GMT -5 mmblake2008 said:

Jan 28, 2015 3:05:16 GMT -5 grumpycat88 said:

Love tit for not shaving. I've heard that a glass of wine or beer is good to help relax before the first pp dtd. and lucky! Four weeks! My appt is at 6 weeks pp.

I would definitely recommend a drink before the first time postpartum!

And lots of lube.

[megan81112]

Jan 28, 2015 3:20:25 GMT -5 mmblake2008 said:

Jan 28, 2015 3:05:16 GMT -5 grumpycat88 said:

Love tit for not shaving. I've heard that a glass of wine or beer is good to help relax before the first pp dtd. and lucky! Four weeks! My appt is at 6 weeks pp.

I would definitely recommend a drink before the first time postpartum!

I think you ladies are just trying to get me drunk

[Deleted]

Jan 28, 2015 6:07:31 GMT -5 megan81112 said:

Jan 28, 2015 3:20:25 GMT -5 mmblake2008 said:

I would definitely recommend a drink before the first time postpartum!

I think you ladies are just trying to get me drunk

Maybe... After all, we just spent the past 8+ months sober!

[4littlebears]

Jan 28, 2015 6:38:11 GMT -5 @happywigglecmb said:

Jan 28, 2015 6:07:31 GMT -5 megan81112 said:

I think you ladies are just trying to get me drunk

Maybe... After all, we just spent the past 8+ months sober!

What's wrong with getting you drunk megan81112?

I'm highly disappointed in my first glass of wine pp! I didn't even get a little light headed. WTH! Normally I'm a half glass wonder!

[megan81112]

Jan 28, 2015 10:04:53 GMT -5 4littlebears said:

Jan 28, 2015 6:38:11 GMT -5 @happywigglecmb said:

Maybe... After all, we just spent the past 8+ months sober!

What's wrong with getting you drunk megan81112?

I'm highly disappointed in my first glass of wine pp! I didn't even get a little light headed. WTH! Normally I'm a half glass wonder!

You know I get frisky when I'm drunk!

[3littleones]

Jan 28, 2015 10:04:53 GMT -5 4littlebears said:

Jan 28, 2015 6:38:11 GMT -5 @happywigglecmb said:

Maybe... After all, we just spent the past 8+ months sober!

What's wrong with getting you drunk megan81112?

I'm highly disappointed in my first glass of wine pp! I didn't even get a little light headed. WTH! Normally I'm a half glass wonder!

Definitely have a drink and some lube. Mostly the drink. You'll be surprised as to how much it helps

[shannjohnston]

Jan 28, 2015 10:04:53 GMT -5 4littlebears said:

Jan 28, 2015 6:38:11 GMT -5 @happywigglecmb said:

Maybe... After all, we just spent the past 8+ months sober!

What's wrong with getting you drunk megan81112?

I'm highly disappointed in my first glass of wine pp! I didn't even get a little light headed. WTH! Normally I'm a half glass wonder!

This. I remember after DS my tolerance was zilch. This time? I feel like I could drink a frat boy under the table. Oh, I'd be hurting the next morning, but I'd win the flip cup tournament for sure!

[nachomomma]

I might try to convince DH the rule is 6 months PP...that's how much I'm looking forward to PP sex.

[Deleted]

I'd have sex today if I could. You know, if I didn't think I'd fall asleep in the middle.

[Deleted]

Jan 28, 2015 19:15:22 GMT -5 @saiven said:

I'd have sex today if I could. You know, if I didn't think I'd fall asleep in the middle.

My issue is the bleeding. Id have sex if the bleeding would knock it the fuck off and I could guarantee no more babies!

[elleno95]

I had sex at 3 weeks PP. I knew I would worry about an infection later (although I am done bleeding) but for some reason that didn't stop me then. Now I'm worried and kicking myself for it.
On the other hand, it really wasn't painful like I thought it would be. There's some sore places but if I stay away from those I'm good as gold.
Oh, andplusalso I did have a drink before sexy time. Definitely recommended.

[nemomof2]

+1 on the drink! But mostly bc why not?

[llambrose]

Jan 28, 2015 18:50:40 GMT -5 nachomomma said:

I might try to convince DH the rule is 6 months PP...that's how much I'm looking forward to PP sex.

This is totally me!

[megan81112]

Update: sex was great while it lasted. Pretty sure baby has a radar and knows when you're trying to enjoy stuff.

[emmyg65]

I'm four weeks today and still feel like this about sex.



I read today that in a survey of 500 women 2-6 months postpartum, the average date of first PP sexitimes was 11.8 weeks. I like the sound of that. My midwife suggested waiting at least till I get my IUD at 8 weeks PP. Fine by me!