That would urk me. H works 2 jobs 7 days a week its rare he gets a day off. But I adjusted my schedule to leaving after bed time to work around his hours. I'm really laxed about how often I expect him to get up with her. But I also can't deal with hearing how tired he is. You stay up playing video games, I stay up hours later than him at work its tough.
My h also stays up late playing videogames & then moans & groans about how tired he is. Here's a solution: go to bed at a decent hour. You know dd is going to wake us up between 7-7:30, so why go to bed at 2-3??!!
Right the nights I'm off im in bed at 11 and he usually passes out on the couch around. 1
Post by TheEleventhHour on Jan 28, 2015 11:59:09 GMT -5
eyenigh That is a good idea. I was reading in the living room until 11 and then made the mistake of taking my Kindle into the bedroom and proceeding to stay up another 2 hours!
lildis Hugs! I think counseling can be a good option especially in a situation where YH may get defensive and feel attacked. I think it can help to have another party there (who is also unbiased) to help move the conversation in a positive way. I hope he gives you some time today to relax.
Also as someone who just graduated after being a FT student and not working for 18 months I can tell you it was stressful but not so stressful that I didn't help out around the house. If I had to stay up writing a paper or studying until 2 or 3 I still got up with DS. If I were you I would totally smack him for staying up late playing video games! It would one thing if he were up doing school stuff. Go to bed at a decent hour or drink some coffee and suck it up!
WTF life? I don't want to take DD to a doctor's appointment today and I definitely don't want to get my infusion. I'd rather be at work:
stellabunny I don't remember if you mentioned this before, and if this is too personal just ignore me, but do you have myasthenia gravis? I have a friend that suffers from this and had to have bi-weekly infusions, too. I know how rough it was on her and I'm sorry you have to go through it, too.
Thanks for the support. I have this weird thing called Still's Disease. For all explanatory purposes it's most like rheumatoid arthritis - at least that's how it's treated. Fortunately I only have to get infusions every 6 weeks. That's awful that your friend has to go bi-weekly. What a life disruption.
WTF DH? Its really not all about you. Its actually really selfish to go back to bed & when I say I want to jump in the shower & go get my haircut for you to tell me that you're going on your computer for at least 1/2 an hour & I have to wait. Ummm you just woke up wtf do you have to do on the computer? I may just need to be put of the house for longer than just a haircut so I don't strangle the man.
OMG. DH and I have some disagreements but even he knows my hair appointments are sacrosanct.
I'm late to the party, but... WTF traffic?!? It's like a parking lot today... I haven't been to work since last Friday and I really need to get in on time today!! Also, WTF on the snow removal. . no sidewalks cleared and only one bus stop on my whole route is shoveled! This angers me because besides being an inconvenience, its also really unsafe.
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