@erin2021 that sucks about your friend! It sound similar to a friend of mine. She was to get married after being together for less than a year. They were always fighting, not about money though. They were supposed to get married in May, then they pushed it back to August, then called it off only to then get married on the original day. Needless to say that marriage lasted less than a year. Luckily u wasn't in the wedding, but it was still a long distance so I had to pay for a flight and hotel and wedding gift. Lame!! I hate people who don't take marriage seriously. Even if it was my best friend in the situation I would probably try to remove myself from the wedding. I'd be bullshutbif I paid out all this money for the bachelorette party, bridal shower, wedding gift and bridesmaid dress only to have the wedding cancelled
@erin2021 that sucks about your friend! It sound similar to a friend of mine. She was to get married after being together for less than a year. They were always fighting, not about money though. They were supposed to get married in May, then they pushed it back to August, then called it off only to then get married on the original day. Needless to say that marriage lasted less than a year. Luckily u wasn't in the wedding, but it was still a long distance so I had to pay for a flight and hotel and wedding gift. Lame!! I hate people who don't take marriage seriously. Even if it was my best friend in the situation I would probably try to remove myself from the wedding. I'd be bullshutbif I paid out all this money for the bachelorette party, bridal shower, wedding gift and bridesmaid dress only to have the wedding cancelled
She literally has no one. So I feel like I can't leave her stranded. It's a shit situation to be in for everyone. I may take her out for some drinks this weekend and try to have a talk with her.
mrsh82414 that sucks! I hope you can find the culprit. @erin2021 Sorry you are stuck in that situation. Their relationship sounds so messy. luckypanda ((hugs))
I have a petty one but wtf to this pimple in my eyebrow. Please go away.kthxbye.
Post by graysweater on Jan 28, 2015 11:46:37 GMT -5
mrsh82414 That sucks bad about the car and the deductible. I hate dealing with car related stuff like that. I hope you find the inconsiderate A-hole.
@erin2021 I have a friend like that. She is in a relationship similar to that and she wont listen. Its a crap place to be as a friend, but I think sometimes they just have to live it and do it before they can see for themselves.
My WTF is my SO. How hard is it to pick up after yourself? I walked into the bathroom to get ready and he has crap all over the counter and on the floor. It was to the point I couldn't get ready til I cleaned up his mess. This is a daily thing and frankly I am over it. As he was walking by I asked him if he knows how to pick up after himself? Holy hell he blew up over nothing. It was an awesome way to start the day.
mrsh82414 That sucks bad about the car and the deductible. I hate dealing with car related stuff like that. I hope you find the inconsiderate A-hole.
@erin2021 I have a friend like that. She is in a relationship similar to that and she wont listen. Its a crap place to be as a friend, but I think sometimes they just have to live it and do it before they can see for themselves.
My WTF is my SO. How hard is it to pick up after yourself? I walked into the bathroom to get ready and he has crap all over the counter and on the floor. It was to the point I couldn't get ready til I cleaned up his mess. This is a daily thing and frankly I am over it. As he was walking by I asked him if he knows how to pick up after himself? Holy hell he blew up over nothing. It was an awesome way to start the day.
AGREED!!! I hate this!! Especially when I clean up because someone is coming over, and then he jumps in the shower quick! I can guarantee there is dirty clothes laying on the floor, or his towel is on the counter.
mrsh82414 That sucks bad about the car and the deductible. I hate dealing with car related stuff like that. I hope you find the inconsiderate A-hole.
@erin2021 I have a friend like that. She is in a relationship similar to that and she wont listen. Its a crap place to be as a friend, but I think sometimes they just have to live it and do it before they can see for themselves.
My WTF is my SO. How hard is it to pick up after yourself? I walked into the bathroom to get ready and he has crap all over the counter and on the floor. It was to the point I couldn't get ready til I cleaned up his mess. This is a daily thing and frankly I am over it. As he was walking by I asked him if he knows how to pick up after himself? Holy hell he blew up over nothing. It was an awesome way to start the day.
AGREED!!! I hate this!! Especially when I clean up because someone is coming over, and then he jumps in the shower quick! I can guarantee there is dirty clothes laying on the floor, or his towel is on the counter.
Yes yes and yes!! It is ridiculous. His dirty clothes from YESTERDAY were still laying on the bathroom floor because I refuse to pick them up anymore.
Post by traversity on Jan 28, 2015 11:57:04 GMT -5
Wtaf dog. You go outside, chase the bunnies, then beg to come inside. You then do your business in the toy room, even though you've been out eleventy million times. Garh!!!
AGREED!!! I hate this!! Especially when I clean up because someone is coming over, and then he jumps in the shower quick! I can guarantee there is dirty clothes laying on the floor, or his towel is on the counter.
Yes yes and yes!! It is ridiculous. His dirty clothes from YESTERDAY were still laying on the bathroom floor because I refuse to pick them up anymore.
I think this is all men. DH leaves a trail of clothes around the house when he gets home.
Post by sunfrogger88 on Jan 28, 2015 12:00:23 GMT -5
Wtf my job. I'm an executive assistant. Trying to break out of the hole that I dug myself into because I'm too good at my job.
It's frustrating because when I ask for more work to learn the biz etc. I get given dumb admin bullshit and not what I'm asking for. Also, it's assumed we will deal w all the dumb shit no one else wants to do and honestly, I don't feel respected in my job, and I get talked down on a lot. I was respected in my last job so this blows. I've been here two years already. The only thing I'm respected on is running events.
Basically this job is a black hole. And I'm trying to get out. Help meeeee!
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Yes yes and yes!! It is ridiculous. His dirty clothes from YESTERDAY were still laying on the bathroom floor because I refuse to pick them up anymore.
I think this is all men. DH leaves a trail of clothes around the house when he gets home.
H only understands how to use the laundry basket for his underwear. All other clothing is in a pile on his side of the bed. Even if I put a laundry basket beside the pile of clothes.
Post by getzystark on Jan 28, 2015 12:18:52 GMT -5
WTF husband? You rinse your hair in the morning and leave a giant puddle in front of the sink. This is obnoxious because when I lean forward to brush my teeth or do my makeup, I get a big wet spot on the shirt I just put on!
WTF husband? You rinse your hair in the morning and leave a giant puddle in front of the sink. This is obnoxious because when I lean forward to brush my teeth or do my makeup, I get a big wet spot on the shirt I just put on!
Ughhhhh it drives me CRAZY when my husband does this!
Every once in a while, I'll nicely tell him to cut the shit. There will be no puddles for about a week until he completely forgets and starts doing it again. Grrrr.
Yup exactly. This last happened about 2 weeks ago. I need to just remember to wipe the area down BEFORE I lean forward.
I think this is all men. DH leaves a trail of clothes around the house when he gets home.
H only understands how to use the laundry basket for his underwear. All other clothing is in a pile on his side of the bed. Even if I put a laundry basket beside the pile of clothes.
This. All of DH's clothes live next to the bed. Why!?
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
H only understands how to use the laundry basket for his underwear. All other clothing is in a pile on his side of the bed. Even if I put a laundry basket beside the pile of clothes.
This. All of DH's clothes live next to the bed. Why!?
+1 for a husband who leaves a trail of clothes all over the house. I've given him 2 laundry baskets in different locations to help, and nope, still clothes everywhere. He has a pile on his side of the bed, at the foot of the bed, in the bathroom, and then random articles strewn throughout the rest of the house.
Jumping on the WTF Husband bandwagon... mine felt the need to stay up until almost midnight last night working on the video game he and his friends are developing. Then he came in, woke me up, and started telling me all about this story one of the guys told him. Like, dude, that shiz can wait until morning.
And another WTF for being cranky with me this morning and whining about not feeling well. You knew you were sick, you chose to stay up late. Don't whine at me.
I think this is all men. DH leaves a trail of clothes around the house when he gets home.
H only understands how to use the laundry basket for his underwear. All other clothing is in a pile on his side of the bed. Even if I put a laundry basket beside the pile of clothes.
This sounds really familiar. I am glad I am not alone with the H that leaves crap everywhere.
Mine always leaves his shoes in the middle the hallway and does not understand why I get so pissed when I trip on them.
Luckily(??) my dogs would chew on/ eat any clothes or shoes left on the floor, so there's no margin for error there. I think that's their way of helping keep the house clean to make up for the ridiculous amount of hair they shed.
yeah if our dog did this I think mine would learn real fast to pick his crap up.
I wish my H would undress when he gets home, instead he sits on the couch in his filthy clothes.
Oh mine does this too. And puts his smelly shoes under the coffee table when he takes them off.
We're working on leaving all shoes and jackets in the mud room, but after nearly a year in the house, it doesn't seem to get any better. I've given up. He'll figure it out when the cat has her hairball in his shoes/clothes/whatever.
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