ladyprof I think that's let down? I have a similar feeling, not painful but not comfortable either. Then I have ALL THE MILK!
ShuShuBee you are not a failure! Breastfeeding is really fucking hard, pumping is even harder. You are enough for your baby, and she will be healthy and happy no matter where her food comes from. Remind yourself that whenever you get down, okay?
Post by 3littleones on Jan 29, 2015 10:17:01 GMT -5
I feel awesome and attractive. Guess who didn't realize she forgot breast pads this morning and didn't think anything of it when I felt let down. Mind you this was while I was dropping DD off at preschool which is in the highschool. Wearing a cardigan and nursing tank. 24 degrees out nipping out with milk running down my stomach. Come at me boys! This is what your future wives will experience one day with sleep deprivation.
Post by milagros315 on Jan 29, 2015 10:31:20 GMT -5
ShuShuBee I completely understand how you feel, but you are not a failure. BFing does not come easy (or at all) for everyone and EPing is really hard too. Plus it's a huge time commitment. I think being in a good mental state and being happy with your baby is as, if not more, important than getting BM to your baby. There is no shame in recognizing that BFing/EPing may not be the best choice for you and your baby. Hugs!
Post by ourcrazynavylife on Jan 29, 2015 10:31:34 GMT -5
I am in the most miserable mood today. I found out last night one of my patients who recently had his brain tumor removed had his tumor come back extremely aggressive. He'll be going home on hospice care. He's only two years old. Cried until I had no tears left last night holding my baby. I just can't even imagine being that kid's parents right now.
To top it off Em went through a fussy period after her 4am feed, between being gassy, needing her nose sucked out, and me having awful dreams when I finally got to go to sleep, totally slept like shit for the rest of the morning.
I told DH yesterday that I was done with BF/EPing. I feel like a failure about it. ?
That's normal and okay! Mom knows best. As long as baby eats, that's all that matters. But I promise you by 6-7 weeks, both you and baby will be a pro!
Baby has his doctors appointment today because he will not stop crying. At all. I hope it's nothing serious, I'm sure it's not but my ears are about ready to fall off.
My sister is making a last minute trip from Missisipppi this weekend to help me for 4 days and then my best friend comes in 2 weeks and I go back to NY with her for 18 days and I'm soooooo happpyyyyy
I told DH yesterday that I was done with BF/EPing. I feel like a failure about it. ?
I'm getting there too. Pumping is a pain in the ass. And bf never really happened for us (though he latched last night). BF is HARD and doesn't work for everyone (for whatever reason) and that's ok! As long as you are feeding your LO, you are NOT failing. You need to do what you feel is best for your LO and your sanity. But trust me, that's easier to say than do as I've been struggling with mommy guilt/feelings of failure in terms of bf as well. I'm thinking of you! You are a strong, successful mom!
Post by shehulk723 on Jan 29, 2015 10:50:39 GMT -5
Someone's belly looks a lot cuter today! Baby girl's stump fell off last night.
I think I may try to start doing some pumping today. I wanted to wait longer to introduce bottles but I need a break. It would be great if DH could feed while I sleep for a change.
Someone's belly looks a lot cuter today! Baby girl's stump fell off last night.
I think I may try to start doing some pumping today. I wanted to wait longer to introduce bottles but I need a break. It would be great if DH could feed while I sleep for a change.
Post by nachomomma on Jan 29, 2015 11:09:16 GMT -5
So I know most of you are done with work, and out of that mindset, but I need to vent. My boss is insane. My last day before leave is tomorrow. She literally just sent me a project that will take weeks to complete. Either she's in complete denial, or she just really doesn't understand our business. I'm guessing it's the latter. I sure hope she figures stuff out over the next 12 weeks, or I'm going to immediately start looking for a new job.
Someone's belly looks a lot cuter today! Baby girl's stump fell off last night.
I think I may try to start doing some pumping today. I wanted to wait longer to introduce bottles but I need a break. It would be great if DH could feed while I sleep for a change.
Post by tomorrowisanotherday on Jan 29, 2015 11:24:10 GMT -5
I can't wait for my pump to get here! I thought I would wait longer too, but I want to start saving all this extra milk and go out to eat with my DH for Valentines. (Don't think the sleep thing would fly at my house, that sounds awesome!)
Someone's belly looks a lot cuter today! Baby girl's stump fell off last night.
I think I may try to start doing some pumping today. I wanted to wait longer to introduce bottles but I need a break. It would be great if DH could feed while I sleep for a change.
Someone's belly looks a lot cuter today! Baby girl's stump fell off last night.
I think I may try to start doing some pumping today. I wanted to wait longer to introduce bottles but I need a break. It would be great if DH could feed while I sleep for a change.
Innie or outie? ha ha
We should do a "what can you fit in LOs belly button" thread.
I am in the most miserable mood today. I found out last night one of my patients who recently had his brain tumor removed had his tumor come back extremely aggressive. He'll be going home on hospice care. He's only two years old. Cried until I had no tears left last night holding my baby. I just can't even imagine being that kid's parents right now.
To top it off Em went through a fussy period after her 4am feed, between being gassy, needing her nose sucked out, and me having awful dreams when I finally got to go to sleep, totally slept like shit for the rest of the morning.
That is so heartbreaking. I can't imagine that level of pain.
Post by grumpycat88 on Jan 29, 2015 13:14:21 GMT -5
The dictator has stepped up his game. Must be held and walked when awake, unless eating. His ally, cat #1, vomited from the top of the cat tree onto the front window/floor. I need reinforcements and a big bottle of pinot.
The dictator has stepped up his game. Must be held and walked when awake, unless eating. His ally, cat #1, vomited from the top of the cat tree onto the front window/floor. I need reinforcements and a big bottle of pinot.
Someone is *finally* down for a nap. I thought newborns are supposed to sleep a lot? Why does this kid think being up for 6+ hours in a row is a good idea??
Over $16k for L&D related charges. Thank god for freaking health insurance! I now want to go post that cost on any post I find with someone going "we really want a baby but have no health insurance. Can we afford this??"
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