Freaking myself out. My c section pooch has been sore to the touch for about a week. When I lean over to wash my hands, when A decided to jump up and down on it. Then I read a story about this lady who tried a vbac and her interior incision ripped open and she almost bled to death.
Normally it's numb. I can push on it and I can't feel anything. I'm wondering if the feeling is maybe coming back? It's been almost 6 months.
A jumped on your stomach?
Mine never really stopped being numb but it does feel sore or tender sometimes
Freaking myself out. My c section pooch has been sore to the touch for about a week. When I lean over to wash my hands, when A decided to jump up and down on it. Then I read a story about this lady who tried a vbac and her interior incision ripped open and she almost bled to death.
Normally it's numb. I can push on it and I can't feel anything. I'm wondering if the feeling is maybe coming back? It's been almost 6 months.
A jumped on your stomach?
Mine never really stopped being numb but it does feel sore or tender sometimes
Haha, I'll rephrase. We hold her under her arms and she'll bounce and jump. She's bearing most of her 11 pounds on her feet though, so when she hits my pooch, it really hurts lol.
Mine never really stopped being numb but it does feel sore or tender sometimes
Haha, I'll rephrase. We hold her under her arms and she'll bounce and jump. She's bearing most of her 11 pounds on her feet though, so when she hits my pooch, it really hurts lol.
Glad I'm probably not dying though.
Oh duh. My mommy brain or should I say my mommy Brian.....
Post by motownthrowdown on Nov 6, 2015 12:47:24 GMT -5
noname I'm sorry you're dealing with this. That must be so frustrating, especially since you've given up pretty much everything. I dont even know what's left. Hugs.
Post by cupcakecutiern on Nov 6, 2015 12:52:22 GMT -5
So annoyed right now-- husband stayed home today, which is nice. We went to a music program this morning, he states he's too old to sit on the floor, fine but then the toddler wants to sit next to him in a chair, and he refused to bring the chair to the circle, so she's back there not participating. To make it worse, he's playing on his iPhone. So she wants to play on the phone. If he didn't want to participate then why even come. Then we were playing in the playroom after the program, and he's just standing outside being antisocial. We finally leave and in the car he's like that not a program for dads and the way you were nursing Alexis made me uncomfortable. I was wearing a nursing tank and a flannel shirt. You really can't see anything other than her head. I get that bio makes him uncomfortable but it doesn't bother me. And it was all women and kids. Sorry for the long vent.
Post by motownthrowdown on Nov 6, 2015 12:52:35 GMT -5
Question: I'm watching Wolverine: Origins. Striker just shot Wolverine in the head, destroying his memories with an adamantium bullet. When Wolverine gets shot again in roughly the same place in X2, why doesn't he lose everything again?
The amateur neurologist in me must know the answer to this lol.
cupcakecutiern leave his whiny butt at home next time. Ugh. Would he rather you didn't feed the baby and had to deal with hungry crying?
His whiny butt is now asleep on the couch. Im so glad he stayed home to help out. I'm tempted to leave him with both kids. Although it's no fair to Alexis, knowing she would prob scream the whole time. Over today.
So, I thought I'd be all productive and stuff while I waiting for some work stuff to update. Went downstairs to do some laundry. Somehow managed to spill detergent all over myself. At least I could just throw those clothes in the wash. And I smell really good now.
Post by gingerygirl on Nov 6, 2015 13:42:14 GMT -5
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
DD2 slept from 7:30 until 2:30, ate, and then went right back to sleep until 5 (when MH left for work. I can't decide if she wakes because of that, or because she needs a snack). She had a snack and then slept until ten after 7. What is this amazing gift of sleep??!?
She has a TERRIBLE rash on her hips and on her outer butt cheeks. I *really* think this poor kid got my awful allergies and eczema. The rash doesn't look diaper rashy to me, it looks like eczema. I've switched her to the cloth but I think I need to go full time with that (I've been doing it all day, but only every other day). I've tried a ton of OTC creams and some all natural alternatives. The only think that appears to anything good is coconut oil. Coconut oil on cloth diapers -- probably not the best thing, huh?
The ladies who pray -- my friend Debbie with cancer needs more prayers, and my another friend's son (who has CP from a traumatic birth) needs prayers desperately. He's almost 5 years old and this week he started having life-threatening brain seizures. His name is Noah. THANK YOU!
Have a great day -- hoping to pop back on at nap time (I started 21 Day Fix this week, and use nap time to work out - once that's done, I'll be on here, I hope!).
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
Likes in commiseration. Wth is wrong with these boys today.
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
WTF. Oh I'm pissed for you. I really dislike the way he treats you sometimes
Post by runningmommy519 on Nov 6, 2015 13:58:07 GMT -5
Play date was fun. I feel awful though. I didn't think to put Isaacs Legos up and as everyone was cleaning up I noticed the 18 month old put something in her mouth and it was a Lego. She could have choked. I feel terrible
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
WTF. Oh I'm pissed for you. I really dislike the way he treats you sometimes
I don't like it either. We've honestly been fighting a lot lately, like really really bad blow out fights, and its usually over the way he treats me. I'm really over it. Like really. Over. It. Of course, there are good times, but sometimes I wonder if that's enough.
Play date was fun. I feel awful though. I didn't think to put Isaacs Legos up and as everyone was cleaning up I noticed the 18 month old put something in her mouth and it was a Lego. She could have choked. I feel terrible
A was playing on her mat this morning and rolled onto her face. I was setting up for work and didn't see it right away. She's fine. It was probably about 5 seconds because she was fussing and then suddenly muffled.
@poppykisses -only on Fridays! I like not having to worry about cleaning on the weekends. I'm lucky to have a toddler who plays super well independently though, and a baby who doesn't require being held in order to sleep.
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
My ex did that locking me out of the car thing once. I said fuck it, fuck you, turned around, found the nearest hot guy and asked him for a ride. Lol. Not the smartest thing in retrospect. Or something I'd do with my child in the car. Your H is today's douchewaffle/twatcanoe
I need to vent. Sorry if this is long and whiny. I am so frustrated with my restricted diet and DD2's poop. It took almost 7 months of trial and error with DD1 to figure out her intolerances, and I really really thought that it'd be different this time. I was upset when DD2 was diagnosed with food intolerances as well, but I felt prepared and since we caught it earlier I was optimistic. Her rash completely cleared up within a few weeks and she was doing great until 2 weeks ago. Now her poops are dark green and mucusy. Every single one for the last 2 weeks. I haven't had any dairy, soy, or beef in 5 weeks, no peanuts in 2 weeks, and now no eggs in 1 week. No change. The next thing to eliminate is tree nuts. It is exhausting constantly worrying about what I eat and what her diaper is going to look like. And I feel like a failure for not being able to fix it. I'm also not at all looking forward to the holidays because once again, I won't be able to eat anything when we visit family. We have multiple get-togethers to go to and I have to bring my own "safe" food.
The pedi and DH both say that as long as she's gaining ok and seems happy then not to worry. But I'm the one changing multiple diapers filled with mucus everyday and I know it's not normal. If she had a yellow seedy diaper I would probably be so happy I'd cry. As it is, I make DH change all diapers when he's home because it just makes me more and more upset every time I see them.
End rant.
This. I've been nut, dairy, and free of high allergy inducing foods for a month and a half now. My sons diapers also have not left the mucousy or watery department in 2 months. This is the most frustrating thing I've ever done because all sacrifices have yielded 0 results. Dr. Says baby's stomach is just still overly sensitive after the havoc it went through and for me to wait a month before really expecting any improvements. Meanwhile I see everyone enjoy all these delicious things. I have lost so much weight, but in such an unhealthy way. I feel I'm wasting away. I keep thinking about the French saying "joie de vivre" and how "of course they keep saying that - they have butter in their lives" kind of thing. Basically @amichelle , I totally feel you. Now if you'll excuse me, right after I change this watery poopy diaper, I'll go suck on a pretzel stick and imagine it's a croissant. Or a donut. Or a piece of chocolate pie. Or baked Brie cheese. Or a grilled cheese. Or a salad with goat cheese. Or a cupcake with crazy frosting. Or... Fuck this sucks.
gingerygirl I'm so sorry you're going through such a tough time with husband. I'm the type of girl that would have done the exact same thing as kaeguri . In any case, I agree that your husband gets today's cuntcake award.
I'm so over today. H got over his weird thing about me not going shopping and he decided to come with me. I shouldnt have let him come. The entire time it was like I was dragging around a three year old along with having a baby strapped to my chest. "Are we done yet?" "I want to get this" "let's go look at tvs" "why are you getting that?" "This is taking forever" uuuuyggggggghhhhhhhhhhh And then he got pissy because I was slightly annoyed with his attitude. So pissy in fact that after I buckled baby back into his car seat and shut the door, he locked the fucking car so I couldn't get in! He left me outside and said that he had half a mind to just leave me at the store! Are you fucking kidding me? What kind of fucking man child planet does he come from? He left me standing there humiliated while a practically begged him to unlock the door. I'm so fucking over today. So fucking done.
What. The. Fuck. Oh, I would be so pissed. I'd probably pack up the kids and go to my mom's or the IL's house for the night. I'm sorry he's being a twat waffle. My H has been being a douche lately too. What has gotten into these men?
I have done 6 loads of laundry (and stuffed animals), scrubbed DD's floor and walls (yes there was poop all over the walls), cleaned the rest of the house, and went to lunch with H. I still have dishes to do and clothes to pack. We are leaving to visit the in laws tomorrow.
I've been comparing Elaine to all the other babies on this board in terms of development (bad Lemon!) and have been quietly freaking out because she's 3 months and wasn't batting things or trying to roll over or using her arms to push herself up during tummy time. But I'm watching her right now and she's batting her play mat and keep quietly saying "YES!!" every time she hits one! haha Get it girl! Get that octopus!
I think the reason why she's not pushing up on her arms yet is that her head is just sooo big!!!! She's got a huge noggin on her!
Post by motownthrowdown on Nov 6, 2015 16:52:00 GMT -5
Today is the 6th which means A is 3 months adjusted today. I feel bad for not realizing it until right now. And that means that in 8 days she will be 6 months chronological. Omgggggg.
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