Thank the lord it's Friday!!!

[aracale]

gingerygirl Call your sister to come get you. You do not deserve to be treated like that.

[queenb]

Nov 6, 2015 19:32:16 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

I can't guys. I just fucking can't with today. I'm finally just now calming down enough to be able to write this. He fucking left me at the store. He drove off with the baby and groceries and left me standing in the parking lot. What the actual fuck. I wrote that other post when I had gone back inside to use the bathroom. When I came back out he was still having his little tantrum and still wouldn't let me in the car. And then he fucking left. I went back inside the store and sat on a bench for an hour before he decided to come back and get me. I was going to just call my sister to come get me but I couldn't handle the embarrassment of having to explain to her. I just... Who the fuck does that?? What kind of husband does that?? I don't even know what to do with this. I don't know how to react except to cry.

This doesn't even make sense. Do you think there's somewhere he wanted to go with the car and not tell you? Was that why he was being weird about getting groceries?

Either way, I'd take off and stay with family. This is a form of domestic abuse. And putting your child in the middle of this is not cool.

[telos]

gingerygirl that's abusive, I agree. Stay safe tonight. Have someone pick you guys up.

[lemon200]

gingerygirl, +1 For spending the weekend at your sister's. That shit is messed up. I feel like he's been shady before with his late night rendezvous after work. I would give him a wake up call!

[gingerygirl]

queenb, that's what I was thinking but of course when I asked him he said no. Now that I think about it, his friend did show up at the store and they walked away to talk for like five minutes. He wouldn't tell me what about though.

I called my sister. She's on her way to get us. I love her so much. She didn't even ask questions just said she was in her way.
I shouldn't have let him take the car though. One because technically it's mine, is my name on the title. And two because he shouldn't even be driving, he has a suspended license.

[skinandbones]

Oh, high five to queenb for connecting dots.

gingerygirl, be safe. I'm glad you have a place to stay. What do you think is going on with him recently?

[noname]

Hugs gingerygirl, I'm glad you have a place to go.

[runningmommy519]

Nov 6, 2015 20:29:43 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

queenb, that's what I was thinking but of course when I asked him he said no. Now that I think about it, his friend did show up at the store and they walked away to talk for like five minutes. He wouldn't tell me what about though.

I called my sister. She's on her way to get us. I love her so much. She didn't even ask questions just said she was in her way.
I shouldn't have let him take the car though. One because technically it's mine, is my name on the title. And two because he shouldn't even be driving, he has a suspended license.

I love your sister too

[ady45]

gingerygirl I am sorry he is being an ass. I am glad your sister came. Take care of yourself. Has he ever done this kind of thing before?

[htuzzi324]

Hugs gingerygirl. I hope he gets his shit together real quick. You and j deserve better than that.

[gingerygirl]

Nov 6, 2015 20:39:38 GMT -5 skinandbones said:

Oh, high five to queenb for connecting dots.

gingerygirl, be safe. I'm glad you have a place to stay. What do you think is going on with him recently?

i have suspicions but none that I can prove. Do any of you remember when I talked about his weed smoking problem a really long time ago? If you do, fast forward to when I told you guys my mom kicked him out of the house. She kicked him out because he got charged with possession of marijuana. Now he is on probation for a year. I also find out that one of the friends that he smoked with frequently had gotten him to try other things. Pills and such. Since then we moved and made a fresh start. I thought things would get better for him here because he is away from those friends in our old town who he smoked with. Well now in our new town he's made friends at work. I've met a few of them. They all reek of that familiar smell. I think he's getting into it again and trying to hide it from me.

[packmomma]

Thinking of you and J gingerygirl. Glad your sister is being awesome. And sorry your H is being a major ass. HD wins all the awards today. Stay safe.

[Laverne]

gingerygirl, stay safe and think twice before forgiving and forgetting. My senses are picking up a substance abuse problem as well. Its like living with Jeckell and Hyde?
Eta guess i should've kept reading

[gingerygirl]

Nov 6, 2015 21:04:43 GMT -5 Laverne said:

gingerygirl, stay safe and think twice before forgiving and forgetting. My senses are picking up a substance abuse problem as well. Its like living with Jeckell and Hyde?

yes. Yesyesyesyes. That's exactly what its like. He comes home late from work because he was "hanging it with his coworkers" and he's all happy and smiling and goes to sleep. Then when he wakes up to get ready for work again he's so grumpy and pissy. He says it's cause he's tired and doesn't want to go to work.

[gingerygirl]

He's in probation and had to take a drug test every month. If he is smoking again, I don't know how he will pass it.

[lemon200]

gingerygirl, I'm sorry you are going through this! Trust your instincts and keep yourself and your son safe! Weed is one thing but if he's starting to get into other things, that slope gets slippery fast!!!

[skinandbones]

gingerygirl, wait. So does this mean he was doing drugs/making a deal with Jackson in the car? OH. HELL. NO.

[runningmommy519]

gingerygirl I have a extra bed at my house if you want to come to Minnesota. No joke

[layloo08]

Nov 6, 2015 21:15:35 GMT -5 skinandbones said:

gingerygirl, wait. So does this mean he was doing drugs/making a deal with Jackson in the car? OH. HELL. NO.

Seriously. This is scary..

[gingerygirl]

Nov 6, 2015 21:15:35 GMT -5 skinandbones said:

gingerygirl, wait. So does this mean he was doing drugs/making a deal with Jackson in the car? OH. HELL. NO.

as far as I know he hasn't done anything around the baby. He smokes cigarettes and he makes sure to shower and change his clothes before even touching Jackson so in fairly sure he wouldn't do anything with him near. He has smoked in the car though and I chewed him out big time for it.

[motownthrowdown]

Nov 6, 2015 20:29:43 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

I shouldn't have let him take the car though. One because technically it's mine, is my name on the title. And two because he shouldn't even be driving, he has a suspended license.

Call the cops and tell them it was stolen. 

God, I'm such a bitch. 

[tmclawchick]

Nov 6, 2015 19:43:03 GMT -5 kaeguri said:

Nov 6, 2015 19:40:20 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

He took the car to work. I'm stuck here.

id call someone to come get me. Let him come home to an empty house and realize what the fuck he's doing to his FAMILY.

This. gingerygirl, you deserve SO much better than that crap. I'm really sorry. Sending a million hugs your way.

[gingerygirl]

I'm at my sisters house now. Jackson is asleep and I'm sipping hot chocolate. Seriously, best sister ever.

[joi922]

Hugs gingerygirl. You really do deserve to be treated better than that. So glad your sister was able to pick you up.

[layloo08]

Nov 6, 2015 21:23:42 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

I'm at my sisters house now. Jackson is asleep and I'm sipping hot chocolate. Seriously, best sister ever.

In so glad y'all are there. hugs to you

[gingerygirl]

Now my worry is that he will come here in the morning and make a scene. It'll be pretty easy to figure out where I am.

[runningmommy519]

Nov 6, 2015 21:30:54 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

Now my worry is that he will come here in the morning and make a scene. It'll be pretty easy to figure out where I am.

Can you make sure someone is with you at all times tomorrow?

[motownthrowdown]

Nov 6, 2015 21:30:54 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

Now my worry is that he will come here in the morning and make a scene. It'll be pretty easy to figure out where I am.

Let him. It's not like he has any kind of legitimate defense for his behavior. If you think he'll get violent, I'd see if the cops could send someone over with no lights to observe. 

[skinandbones]

Nov 6, 2015 21:30:54 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

Now my worry is that he will come here in the morning and make a scene. It'll be pretty easy to figure out where I am.

Then call the cops. I'm sure they would interested in the fact you left because you suspect drugs and he had to drive to your sisters on a suspended license.

[kaeguri]

Nov 6, 2015 21:21:17 GMT -5 motownthrowdown said:

Nov 6, 2015 20:29:43 GMT -5 gingerygirl said:

I shouldn't have let him take the car though. One because technically it's mine, is my name on the title. And two because he shouldn't even be driving, he has a suspended license.

Call the cops and tell them it was stolen. 

God, I'm such a bitch. 

Oh I'm glad I wasn't the only one thinking this.