Updates/questions: MH took his vacation at the end of the year, so we've been getting some quality time together. It feels really good to be close to him.
Debbie downer (a place to vent): Not today.
GTKY: What is your favorite holiday memory/tradition? Traditional Polish dinner for Christmas Eve.
Post by wineoclock on Dec 22, 2015 21:40:37 GMT -5
I'm new here coming over from July '16.
How are you doing? It's been a tough day. I just started counseling yesterday because I've been struggling emotionally with the loss. Today was my follow up with my ob and I got rescheduled in a really not nice way. Basically was told only "top priority" patients would be seen before Christmas as my doctor went home sick. Cue every pregnant woman being taken back or rescheduled within the hour and me being sent away. Today was my follow up from my natural mc. I did not react well and was eventually seen and confirmed that the mc is now complete but I'm leaving my practice because just no.
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): Dr said its our choice now. We've decided to wait for a natural cycle before trying again.
Diagnosis (if applicable): natural mc 12/7/15 at 9w 5d. Baby measuring only 5w 2d.
Updates/questions: There is so much varying info on TTCAL. I find it over whelming.
Debbie downer (a place to vent): see above about my dr's office today.
GTKY: What is your favorite holiday memory/tradition? This is an odd thing to share but it makes me laugh. DH and I only exchange stockings. Last year I open mine up and there is a toothbrush holder and soap dispenser for the bathroom. That was my Christmas gift. Bathroom accessories. It still cracks me up. What an idiot. A dear, sweet, confused idiot.
Post by requiressnacks on Dec 22, 2015 21:46:53 GMT -5
Hey, another former July '16-er. Welcome, wineoclock. I'm sorry you find yourself here. These ladies are awesome and this check-in has been so helpful for me when I'm struggling. ((Hugs))
ETA: and a big ole fuck off to your doctors office. They need to be more sensitive.
I'm sorry you find yourself here wineoclock and I'm sorry you were treated that way at your drs office. I don't blame you for switching practices.
Thanks. I was a new patient to begin on my second visit but it was just unreal. Both doctors I've seen in the practice have been great but the scheduling issues in just two weeks time along with the insensitive comments at the receptionist office today and are enough to just start anew.
Post by lovetruly2015 on Dec 22, 2015 23:06:10 GMT -5
How are you doing? Eh. Ok I guess. Im kinda dreading Christmas. Last year Christmas day was when we officially posted about the pregnancy. Most of the family knew and I was out of the first trimester at that point so I decided why not. So hopefully my emotions can stay even through the day.
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): TTC
Diagnosis (if applicable): None, but I'm starting to think the my horrible eating habbits and generally unhealthy lifestyle these last 11 months has messed with my hormones, but who knows.
Updates/questions: My insurance stuff came today so once we make a payment I can set up a Dr's appointment and maybe figure out whats going on. Woohoo.
Debbie downer (a place to vent): My ex-stepmom is acting like a raging tool. My sister (K) sent her a text today something about my little brothers (J) Christmas gift and she started trying to dictate what she could get J. And when K got annoyed she threatened our relationship with him basically she threatened to keep him away from us. I can't stand this women and hate that she'll be around for Christmas.
GTKY: What is your favorite holiday memory/tradition? I love playing games with my family at my grandma's house. We're all a little competitive so there is a lot of trash talk and stuff but its fun. We usually play uno, scatagories or spoons. This year I bought janga to play also. Funny story the first year my uncles taught us to play spoons my cousin almost dived out a window to get a spoon. He actually launched himself across the table and fell on the floor right next to me to get it. One second all is normal the next he is sailing past my head, I thought he was going to go through the window that was right behind me. Also we jostled my grandma's table so much we knocked a screw loose and one half fell down.
Post by hydrangea1019 on Dec 23, 2015 20:00:47 GMT -5
wineoclock what in the world is wrong with office staff?! They're always the worst, especially when they need to be sensitive. So sorry you had to deal with that.
Post by littlelion on Dec 23, 2015 22:07:17 GMT -5
lovetruly2015 sorry about your stepmom drama. And GL getting thru Christmas. And have to say our dining room table took quite a few beatings because of spoons too! That is one fun game.
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