Update: They want me to come in for an ultrasound and biopsy the tissue in my lining today. Dumb question: in the extremely small chance I am still pregnant, and trust me I'm not banking on that, would a biopsy be a problem? Could that cause a loss?
* all the trigger warnings *
I had a biopsy done to check my luteal phase and was told that if I were to get pregnant that cycle that it would cause an "increase in the chance of loss" not a definite loss. However I was told to definitely TTA that cycle.
((Hugs)). I know this is awful.
Fun fact- an endo biopsy will actually increase the chance of implantation for the next cycle when done in the luteal phase of the cycle prior.
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
Naria, I have a feeling you're a wealth of knowledge in specific things too! I for one am not surprised by any fertility related knowledge you possess. Impressed by it yes but not surprised.
Yeah, we're leaning towards doing the ultrasound and holding off on the biopsy until we get the next beta on New Year's Eve. The most frustrating thing is that we had accepted this loss. We grieved. We expected confirmation of information we KNEW was a foregone conclusion. And now this. **trigger under spoiler, maybe**
I'd much rather have had the results we were expecting instead of this limbo, will-it-won't-it horse manure.
Oh honey. I wish you could just move on, and start thinking about the next month you'll TTC. I'm sorry. Like Joey here, but without the quotation marks.
I'm at my in-laws, with a heating pad and a big glass of water, enjoying the quiet before dinner. I even played a board game with my BIL, which I don't normally do.
Here are my feelings that make me say "give me a break" to myself right now: - No morning sickness is making me feel a little nervous, despite my great betas. Week 6 day 2... Anytime now, right? I know I should just be grateful, but I'm still worried. - My younger cousin just announced that he and his wife are pregnant, due in July. I don't think it'll effect me very much, but.. I'm the oldest and I kinda wanted to go first. Oh well. I wished them congratulations and I do feel happy for them, but also cranky and jealous. - I just ate so much I felt really full and kind of ill a few hours ago. Now I'm feeling hungry again. It's gonna be super hard not to gain a lot of weight with this nerd in my uterus. It's hungry!
I'm at my in-laws, with a heating pad and a big glass of water, enjoying the quiet before dinner. I even played a board game with my BIL, which I don't normally do.
Here are my feelings that make me say "give me a break" to myself right now: - No morning sickness is making me feel a little nervous, despite my great betas. Week 6 day 2... Anytime now, right? I know I should just be grateful, but I'm still worried. - My younger cousin just announced that he and his wife are pregnant, due in July. I don't think it'll effect me very much, but.. I'm the oldest and I kinda wanted to go first. Oh well. I wished them congratulations and I do feel happy for them, but also cranky and jealous. - I just ate so much I felt really full and kind of ill a few hours ago. Now I'm feeling hungry again. It's gonna be super hard not to gain a lot of weight with this nerd in my uterus. It's hungry!
FWIW when I was pregnant with DS I never had one single bout of morning sickness. No nausea, nothin. The 2nd tri heartburn was a different story though.
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
I had a biopsy done to check my luteal phase and was told that if I were to get pregnant that cycle that it would cause an "increase in the chance of loss" not a definite loss. However I was told to definitely TTA that cycle.
((Hugs)). I know this is awful.
Fun fact- an endo biopsy will actually increase the chance of implantation for the next cycle when done in the luteal phase of the cycle prior.
I am a wealth of random knowledge
I had an endo scratch/biopsy done the cycle before my FET. They do them standard now before all FET cycles. They were doing a study on pain of one versus the other and pregnancy rates. Pretty cool stuff.
Me (30) MH (32) Dx: MFI (low all the things) M. 10/11. TTC Since 01/14 IUI#1-3(Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN Second Opinion. Changed RE's. IVF 09/15 Long Lupron 12R/9M/8F, Transferred 1=BFN. 4 frosties. FET #1 12/15 Transferred 1 (3 still on ice)
We got a 7 week u/s this morning. Baby measured a couple days small but had a nice strong heartbeat at 145 bpm. Best Christmas present ever . Now down at ILs doing Christmas Eve
Congrats! I had my first scan this AM as well and measured a couple of days ahead & also saw a nice strong HB! Definitely best Christmas gift ever
We had an ultrasound at 1:30, saw nothing, and got in early to the OB follow up appointment right after. After a long time of deliberating and a lot of hard looks and tears, we decided to go with the biopsy. It's...probably been the most traumatic experience either of us has ever been through in our lives. But in the end, we decided the risk to my life wasn't worth being a hero on the impossible chance that the betas meant we had something there.
Unfortunately, until we get the results back from the biopsy, our Christmas family reunion trip is canceled. I got slapped with a no-fly order until ectopic is ruled out. Frankly, that's what pissed me off the most so far. Topping that, the airline won't refund the tickets. We can use them on another flight later... if we do it within a calendar year, pay the difference in tickets, AND pay a $200 flight change fee...each.
Tl;dr We decided on the biopsy and our Christmas plans got canceled.
We had an ultrasound at 1:30, saw nothing, and got in early to the OB follow up appointment right after. After a long time of deliberating and a lot of hard looks and tears, we decided to go with the biopsy. It's...probably been the most traumatic experience either of us has ever been through in our lives. But in the end, we decided the risk to my life wasn't worth being a hero on the impossible chance that the betas meant we had something there.
Unfortunately, until we get the results back from the biopsy, our Christmas family reunion trip is canceled. I got slapped with a no-fly order until ectopic is ruled out. Frankly, that's what pissed me off the most so far. Topping that, the airline won't refund the tickets. We can use them on another flight later... if we do it within a calendar year, pay the difference in tickets, AND pay a $200 flight change fee...each.
Tl;dr We decided on the biopsy and our Christmas plans got canceled.
Oh love, I'm so so so sorry. You know I'm here for you any time. *hugs*
We had an ultrasound at 1:30, saw nothing, and got in early to the OB follow up appointment right after. After a long time of deliberating and a lot of hard looks and tears, we decided to go with the biopsy. It's...probably been the most traumatic experience either of us has ever been through in our lives. But in the end, we decided the risk to my life wasn't worth being a hero on the impossible chance that the betas meant we had something there.
Unfortunately, until we get the results back from the biopsy, our Christmas family reunion trip is canceled. I got slapped with a no-fly order until ectopic is ruled out. Frankly, that's what pissed me off the most so far. Topping that, the airline won't refund the tickets. We can use them on another flight later... if we do it within a calendar year, pay the difference in tickets, AND pay a $200 flight change fee...each.
Tl;dr We decided on the biopsy and our Christmas plans got canceled.
I'm so so sorry you're going through this, especially at Christmas and because of you trip. I have no words but just hugs.
Thank you. And I will be here for every step of the way, too. I told you I'd hold your hand through first tri, I'd still love to do that, if you're willing.
And that goes for any of you, as well. I'll hang around, seeing all of you progress is seriously the most cathartic and heartwarming thing for me right now. My sorrow in no way affects my sincere happiness for each and every one of my child's birthday friends.
Thank you. And I will be here for every step of the way, too. I told you I'd hold your hand through first tri, I'd still love to do that, if you're willing.
And that goes for any of you, as well. I'll hang around, seeing all of you progress is seriously the most cathartic and heartwarming thing for me right now. My sorrow in no way affects my sincere happiness for each and every one of my child's birthday friends.
You're such an incredible and amazing person, R ❤️
Post by remylove1011 on Dec 24, 2015 21:48:28 GMT -5
Rama I'm so, so sorry hun. I'm sure this will be a very hard weekend for you and we're all here for you. Hopefully the biopsy gives you more information.
Me (30) MH (32) Dx: MFI (low all the things) M. 10/11. TTC Since 01/14 IUI#1-3(Letrozole + Trigger) = BFN Second Opinion. Changed RE's. IVF 09/15 Long Lupron 12R/9M/8F, Transferred 1=BFN. 4 frosties. FET #1 12/15 Transferred 1 (3 still on ice)
We had an ultrasound at 1:30, saw nothing, and got in early to the OB follow up appointment right after. After a long time of deliberating and a lot of hard looks and tears, we decided to go with the biopsy. It's...probably been the most traumatic experience either of us has ever been through in our lives. But in the end, we decided the risk to my life wasn't worth being a hero on the impossible chance that the betas meant we had something there.
Unfortunately, until we get the results back from the biopsy, our Christmas family reunion trip is canceled. I got slapped with a no-fly order until ectopic is ruled out. Frankly, that's what pissed me off the most so far. Topping that, the airline won't refund the tickets. We can use them on another flight later... if we do it within a calendar year, pay the difference in tickets, AND pay a $200 flight change fee...each.
Tl;dr We decided on the biopsy and our Christmas plans got canceled.
Fuck that shit, man. All that shit.
I hope you guys either find a way to have Christmas on your terms, or you just cancel it and eat Chinese food and go see Star Wars three times or something.
Thank you. And I will be here for every step of the way, too. I told you I'd hold your hand through first tri, I'd still love to do that, if you're willing.
And that goes for any of you, as well. I'll hang around, seeing all of you progress is seriously the most cathartic and heartwarming thing for me right now. My sorrow in no way affects my sincere happiness for each and every one of my child's birthday friends.
I just want to say you are an amazing and strong woman.
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
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