MIL is in the kitchen cleaning right now and we are all sitting in the living room. I feel kind of bad but I also know she will tell me she doesn't need my help if I go and ask her. I can't even find it in me to do the obligatory dance of asking to help and getting turned down. So instead I am just sitting over here feeling guilty.
Post by LadyNymeria on Dec 25, 2015 22:49:14 GMT -5
Today made me realize I'm pretty lucky with my family. We saw MH's family and my huge extended family and the only person who asked me about kids was my cousin who lives across the country.
I wished her Merry Christmas and she asked if there was any Christmas pregnancy announcement she needed to know about. I sent her a picture of the big glass of wine I was drinking in response.
But if she's the only one I had to deal with, and it's via text because she's so far away, I can deal with that and appreciate that everyone else seems to mind their own business.
We had a nice Christmas with my family today. Lots of yummy food and I ate so many Christmas cookies...
I had a brief IF related meltdown this evening but thankfully I've mostly recovered from that. Now we're relaxing on the couch under the cozy heated blanket that I got for MH.
I had a sudden rush of sadness a few times throughout today thinking about my loss. It's so hard to know that this Christmas would have been so different if life wasn't so unfair.
Which is annoying because I wanted to have sex with my husband!!
The man I committed to and married!!
But now we are sleeping in the room next to his 14 yr old little sister. Grrrr
Next to like your room is next to hers or next to like she's in a bed next to your bed. If she's in a different room you can have all the sex Think of it like a challenge
We are in the room next to hers. So we will honestly probably still have sex but it makes it more complicated.
Post by ohinvrtedworld on Dec 26, 2015 0:00:24 GMT -5
Well we accidentally trolled everyone hard today at Christmas. MH has a habit of finding the weirdest ideas for wrapping gifts, and we got his parents a blanket and he wrapped it up in paper and made it look like baby Jesus in a cardboard box manger. Everyone thought it was a pregnancy announcement and started taping it on their phones. LOL nope. Sorry to disappoint.
They all saw me drink hard this past week (and mimosas this very morning) so they should have been side-eyeing me instead if that were the case, for real!
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