Post by coffeequeen14 on Jan 11, 2016 23:34:02 GMT -5
I may as well post this now because I need to make a decision. I currently work full time from home. I switched jobs about ten months ago from an industry I LOVED. I was good at my job because I kind of grew up in the industry. We moved out of the area for a different pace of life and staying in my old industry was not an option.
I like working but no longer love job. I like that I get to think critically. I am well paid for what I do and have strong promotion potential. I like that I have something of my own outside of my family.
However, the kids are only young for such a short period of time. I'm worried in missing out on time with them. I don't want to quit and mess up my awesome, flexible work situation to just be unhappy.
We have a full time nanny so I can spend time with the kids during the day when I have breaks. Both boys go to preschool for ~15 hours of my 40 hour work week. I'm less concerned about missing the infant stage than say 2-kindy where I feel they need more of my guidance as opposed to their physical needs being met.
I don't do well with messes or getting out of the house tbh so I am not sure how much we would leave the house or do art and stuff like that. Like, I think I'm picturing all kinds of awesome time together but realistically I fear we would all go stir crazy.
From a financial perspective, we would be just fine if I quit. DH has good job security and has a unique skill set at which he does well.
My current plan is to work to maternity leave and then try it out for 12 weeks. However, I'm having a hard time staying motivated at work when thinking I'm almost done.
Basically I need someone to tell me if I'd be unhappy being a SAHM. Please read my fortune. Thanks.
TL:DR I don't know if I want to quit working for fear I have an overly optimistic view of being a sahm. What are your experiences? Recommendations?
I like working but no longer love job. I like that I get to think critically. I am well paid for what I do and have strong promotion potential. I like that I have something of my own outside of my family.
However, the kids are only young for such a short period of time. I'm worried in missing out on time with them. I don't want to quit and mess up my awesome, flexible work situation to just be unhappy.
We have a full time nanny so I can spend time with the kids during the day when I have breaks. Both boys go to preschool for ~15 hours of my 40 hour work week. I'm less concerned about missing the infant stage than say 2-kindy where I feel they need more of my guidance as opposed to their physical needs being met.
I don't do well with messes or getting out of the house tbh so I am not sure how much we would leave the house or do art and stuff like that. Like, I think I'm picturing all kinds of awesome time together but realistically I fear we would all go stir crazy.
From a financial perspective, we would be just fine if I quit. DH has good job security and has a unique skill set at which he does well.
My current plan is to work to maternity leave and then try it out for 12 weeks. However, I'm having a hard time staying motivated at work when thinking I'm almost done.
Basically I need someone to tell me if I'd be unhappy being a SAHM. Please read my fortune. Thanks.
TL:DR I don't know if I want to quit working for fear I have an overly optimistic view of being a sahm. What are your experiences? Recommendations?