WTDS 1/18

[sammysam]

TheEleventhHour How is your LO doing with school now? I see you said it's still not going great, which I'm so sorry to hear. What are the challenges right now? (I am terrified of June being here and having to start this with DD).

[sammysam]

Jan 19, 2016 6:23:33 GMT -5 gabride2010 said:

daisylola11 I don't have any kids, but I'm sure that is normal to wonder if adding to your family is a good idea. I would imagine that everyone who isn't OAD goes through those feelings.

Totally normal to feel unsure. I was all over the place when we decided to TFAS and ranted about it on here for a few months before I realized that it just wasn't right for us. I am happily OAD but still question my decision regularly.

[TheEleventhHour]

Jan 19, 2016 18:24:31 GMT -5 sammysam said:

TheEleventhHour How is your LO doing with school now? I see you said it's still not going great, which I'm so sorry to hear. What are the challenges right now? (I am terrified of June being here and having to start this with DD).

It is slowly getting better! Thank you for asking. He had a couple of days of throwing tantrums because he was having difficulty transitioning activities. For example, at home he can play Legos for 2 hours if he wants to but at school they have more structure. He didn't like being told to clean up either lol. He is doing much better with that. Yesterday he pushed a kid over while playing outside and grabbed toys from kids. Sigh. Luckily he is super verbal so we were able to talk to him about it last night and he gets it. Today he "kept his hands to himself" to quote his teacher. I made him a good behavior chart today. He gets a sticker for everyday he gets a good report from school. Kid fucking loves stickers so that seems to be a good motivator to not be a jerk lol.

Basically the biggest adjustment is being in a more structured routine and being around kids everyday. As an only and with our recent move and not knowing anyone here he hasn't had a lot of time with other kids. This is only his second week and I don't think it will be much longer before he's adjusted but two weeks of toddler misbehavior can feel like a lifetime! 

Sorry to ramble!!!

[wilmaroo]

Numbers:
I guess I'm still in cycle 7/month 12-13
Circumstances:
TFAS
I thought I was doing really well on my clomid, we saw one beautiful follie, I had a positive opk but my progesterone levels came back super low so I did not ovulate.
R/R/NSNFQ:
I'm so sad, I thought this was it. I was going to be a first clomid cycle success story. I usually lurk the shit out of TCF but I've been gone a few days wallowing.
GTKY-Where would you prefer to live if you could choose anywhere: city, country, mountains, beach, etc? I would love to live near the ocean in Washington/Oregon or Maine.

[ourcrazynavylife]

***hugs*** wilmaroo

So sorry

[Rama]

Jan 19, 2016 23:04:58 GMT -5 wilmaroo said:

Numbers:
I guess I'm still in cycle 7/month 12-13
Circumstances:
TFAS
I thought I was doing really well on my clomid, we saw one beautiful follie, I had a positive opk but my progesterone levels came back super low so I did not ovulate.
R/R/NSNFQ:
I'm so sad, I thought this was it. I was going to be a first clomid cycle success story. I usually lurk the shit out of TCF but I've been gone a few days wallowing.
GTKY-Where would you prefer to live if you could choose anywhere: city, country, mountains, beach, etc? I would love to live near the ocean in Washington/Oregon or Maine.

All the hugs, lady. This exact thing happened to me on my first Clomid cycle, too. It sucks so much. You can message me anytime you need, okay?

[penguin129]

Sending many hugs to you wilmaroo.

[wilmaroo]

ourcrazynavylife, penguin129, Rama thanks for love! It's hitting me way harder than a bfn.

[gabride2010]

I'm so sorry to hear that wilmaroo. Big hugs!

Rama I hope you get a straight answer from your doc.

TheEleventhHour I hope things get better with your son and school. I'm sure that is a hard adjustment to make!

[mosdub]

Hus wilmaroo I'm so sorry for the let down

[lettricern]

I'm so sorry wilmaroo.

Yesterday I started spotting/bleeding a bit. I'm not calling it a period until it actually looks like one though. And I'm sick DD had a fever all weekend, so I'm not surprised I caught it. I just had a runny nose up until yesterday, but now the cough has arrived. I just hope I'm feeling better by Friday night. I work weekend nights, and I'm working Friday-Sunday.

[TheEleventhHour]

wilmaroo So many hugs lady. I am so sorry this cycle didn't work.

lettricern Ugh, I hope you feel better before your shift Friday! I just had a freaking week off and the day before I have to go back (I'm also a night shift RN) I get a cold. I'm on Thursday-Saturday this week. Do you work 8s or 12s?

[penguin129]

I hope you feel better lettricern.

[lettricern]

TheEleventhHour, we do 12s. I'm weekend option, so I work every weekend. I hope you feel better too. Being sick while taking care of sick people blows. By the way, it's nice to meet a fellow Whovian RN. I have a Tardis badge reel, and NO ONE knows what it is.

[TheEleventhHour]

Jan 20, 2016 10:46:19 GMT -5 lettricern said:

TheEleventhHour , we do 12s. I'm weekend option, so I work every weekend. I hope you feel better too. Being sick while taking care of sick people blows. By the way, it's nice to meet a fellow Whovian RN. I have a Tardis badge reel, and NO ONE knows what it is.

We are 12s too. Sometimes that extra 4 hours is brutal especially if you don't feel well. I love the Tardis badge reel though! That is awesome. 

[BabyStandish]

I'm so sorry wilmaroo. Big hugs!

[daisy818]

((Hugs)) wilmaroo

[BabyStandish]

So I'm not 100% sure, but I think I might be ovulating. I had CM yesterday and I havent had that in almost 2 years. I really hope it's happening. My body needs to get with the program.

[TheEleventhHour]

Jan 20, 2016 11:12:50 GMT -5 BabyStandish said:

So I'm not 100% sure, but I think I might be ovulating. I had CM yesterday and I havent had that in almost 2 years. I really hope it's happening. My body needs to get with the program.

That's awesome! FX it is O and your body is getting it together!

[lettricern]

Jan 20, 2016 11:01:59 GMT -5 TheEleventhHour said:

Jan 20, 2016 10:46:19 GMT -5 lettricern said:

TheEleventhHour , we do 12s. I'm weekend option, so I work every weekend. I hope you feel better too. Being sick while taking care of sick people blows. By the way, it's nice to meet a fellow Whovian RN. I have a Tardis badge reel, and NO ONE knows what it is.

We are 12s too. Sometimes that extra 4 hours is brutal especially if you don't feel well. I love the Tardis badge reel though! That is awesome. 

Indeed. Right around 0330 is the worst. That's usually when I pull out my chocolate. 

[diamondsndaisies]

Numbers: 2AL-CD10

Circumstances: On the bench until May. 6 months on blood thinners

R/R/NSNFQ: Still dealing with my incision. I decided I needed someone else to look at it, so I called and made an appt with my MFM that handled all of my aftercare after delivery. He wanted to do a follow up appt to see how I am doing. It sucks because he isn't back in the area until Feb 15th. He only travels to my area once a month and the day I called to make the appt, he had just been there that morning and already left. Boo.
On a good note, I got my 2nd PP AF and it was much lighter than the first one had been. Still much worse than it should be, but this time I felt like I could actually leave the house.

GTKY-Where would you prefer to live if you could choose anywhere: city, country, mountains, beach, etc? Those are all good options except living in the city. I am not a city girl at all. Somewhere somewhat secluded would make me happy.

[penguin129]

Hugs to you diamondsndaisies. I hope this new doctor is worth the wait.

[penguin129]

Because a lot of you are invested in my thryoid...

My TSH is at 2.4! Back in normal range. We should be able to TFAS once this cycle ends. I still have to talk to my Gyno and new Family Doctor to see if they agree.

[BabyStandish]

Woo! That's great news penguin129!

[ourcrazynavylife]

penguin129 !!!!! That's fantastic news!!!!!

[TheEleventhHour]

diamondsndaisies Sorry you are still dealing with your incision. But I am glad your period is lighter than the first!

[TheEleventhHour]

Yay penguin129! I am happy you are in range with your TSH. So close to TTC. YAY!!!

[gabride2010]

BabyStandish Yay for possible ovulation!

@diamondsanddaisies I'm glad your second PP period was better than the first. Sorry you are still having problems with your incision. I hope it heals up soon.

penguin129 OMG yay! I'm so happy for you! That is awesome news!

[Rama]

Jan 20, 2016 15:28:57 GMT -5 penguin129 said:

Because a lot of you are invested in my thryoid...

My TSH is at 2.4! Back in normal range. We should be able to TFAS once this cycle ends. I still have to talk to my Gyno and new Family Doctor to see if they agree.

Aaahhh, hooray!

[penguin129]

Thanks everyone for your Congrats! I will feel much better trying with the blessing of the gyno. Good thing next projected FW isn't until Feb 4th