Monday Bitch and Moan

[bullybutt]

[bullybutt]

Ex refused to drop off DS yesterday, so I had to go out of my way to get him. DS then threw a fit and didn't want to go with me. He wanted his daddy. We both cried all the way home. He was fine when we got there but it still hurts my feelings EVERY time he says he wants his daddy instead of me

[jnnfrrose6]

My crazy time at work (about a 2 week period right in the middle) just got worse as deadlines for 2 major things moved up by a week.

[mamanorris]

bullybutt, sorry to hear that. That's the roughest.

[GrrArgh]

Feb 2, 2015 12:33:47 GMT -5 @iheartmyshiba said:

The dishes in my house are never ending. I fucking hate dishes.

For me it is laundry. I am so over putting away laundry.

[liziz]

I'm sick, but not sick enough to stay home from work, just enough to feel crappy.

Thanks LO, for sharing whatever you got!

[GrrArgh]

I have a dorito hang over from the Super Bowl. My stomach feels like sludge.

[lablover13]

A water spot appeared on the ceiling of our master bath on Saturday. DH went in to the attic to investigate and found that the entire attic is soaking wet and mold is growing on the inside of the roof. Apparently all this cold weather plus improper insulation and ventilation is causing serious condensation up there. UGH. Now we have to dedicate this week to trying to get the issue resolved which has snowballed into a ridiculius amount of work because we want to install ceiling fans in the bedrooms upstairs, but that must be done before we reinsulate. In order to fix the ventilation we have to take the roof off of our covered deck....

Oh, and we have to paint the bathroom ceiling.

I wish I never saw that stupid water spot.

[luckynumbers81]

I got a reporting request to do 2-days worth of work in 1 hour because he forgot to ask me to do it last week and he is meeting the client in an hour. WTF! I told him he could pick ONE piece for me to update in an hour. So annoying..

[littlemissmarla]

It a total sheet of ice outside. I just tried to go out and shovel and almost died 16x.

Fuck you freezing rain.

Fuck you groundhog, why do we have 6 more weeks of winter. JK, I think your adorable..but i'm still mad.

[littlemissmarla]

And another...

My reg doctor took a urine sample cause I thought I might have had a UTI, well that was last Thursday and they called me today to tell me that I need to see my OBGYN because I have bacteria in my urine.

Gross, what does that even mean bacteria?? Fuck you vagina and urethra and bacteria. No time for vagina problems.

[mary1217]

Feb 2, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Ex refused to drop off DS yesterday, so I had to go out of my way to get him. DS then threw a fit and didn't want to go with me. He wanted his daddy. We both cried all the way home. He was fine when we got there but it still hurts my feelings EVERY time he says he wants his daddy instead of me

This sucks. I am so sorry.  

[surfmama106]

Fuck you flu like symptoms! Also fuck you freezing rain! And a big fuck you to the dog who threw up in the house today! Grrr

[mary1217]

MBF: We dropped $3k this weekend on only 2 things. One was a want one was a need. However I am very thankful that we had the money to do it. It just sucked seeing our savings go down that much in such a short period.

[Lola]

Feb 2, 2015 13:50:34 GMT -5 littlemissmarla said:

And another...

My reg doctor took a urine sample cause I thought I might have had a UTI, well that was last Thursday and they called me today to tell me that I need to see my OBGYN because I have bacteria in my urine.

Gross, what does that even mean bacteria?? Fuck you vagina and urethra and bacteria. No time for vagina problems.

It means you prob have a UTI...id be annoyed that they took the sample and then arent treating it.  What was the point of them even taking it then?? 

[isolemnlyswear]

Top teeth suck. DD has been screaming all day It breaks my heart that I can't help her....

[rlb]

Feb 2, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Ex refused to drop off DS yesterday, so I had to go out of my way to get him. DS then threw a fit and didn't want to go with me. He wanted his daddy. We both cried all the way home. He was fine when we got there but it still hurts my feelings EVERY time he says he wants his daddy instead of me

My heart breaks for you.  

Bitch and moan: Our pumping room is also the fitness room, and I am pumping while a co-worker (female and I'm close enough to her it's fine.  I usually pump in the backseat while we travel - lol) runs on the treadmill.  The air conditioner is on full force (and it's 14 degrees out) to keep her cool, but the office has been so cold today I really want to cry.  ((so cold))

[Lola]

Feb 2, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Ex refused to drop off DS yesterday, so I had to go out of my way to get him. DS then threw a fit and didn't want to go with me. He wanted his daddy. We both cried all the way home. He was fine when we got there but it still hurts my feelings EVERY time he says he wants his daddy instead of me

I totally know how it feels. We go through some variation of this every time we drop the boys off. Usually, its that they dont want to go home to moms because they dont like her boyfriend, which puts us in a hard spot. DH usually cries every time he drops them off. 

How is the tax situation going?? 

[littlemissmarla]

Feb 2, 2015 14:04:02 GMT -5 Lola said:

Feb 2, 2015 13:50:34 GMT -5 littlemissmarla said:

And another...

My reg doctor took a urine sample cause I thought I might have had a UTI, well that was last Thursday and they called me today to tell me that I need to see my OBGYN because I have bacteria in my urine.

Gross, what does that even mean bacteria?? Fuck you vagina and urethra and bacteria. No time for vagina problems.

It means you prob have a UTI...id be annoyed that they took the sample and then arent treating it.  What was the point of them even taking it then?? 

You're probably right and I'm going to be SO PISSED.

[anotherdreamer]

My Internet is down (on my phone right now). I'm annoyed.

Bullybutt sorry- that is rough

[sararl07]

Feb 2, 2015 12:37:26 GMT -5 GrrArgh said:

Feb 2, 2015 12:33:47 GMT -5 @iheartmyshiba said:

The dishes in my house are never ending. I fucking hate dishes.

For me it is laundry. I am so over putting away laundry.

Laundry it's never ending....I wash but hate folding and putting away.  The clean clothes often like to camp out on one our chairs in the bedroom.  Out of necessity I stay on top of dd cloth diapering wash routine.  

[bullybutt]

Feb 2, 2015 14:25:46 GMT -5 Lola said:

Feb 2, 2015 12:17:07 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Ex refused to drop off DS yesterday, so I had to go out of my way to get him. DS then threw a fit and didn't want to go with me. He wanted his daddy. We both cried all the way home. He was fine when we got there but it still hurts my feelings EVERY time he says he wants his daddy instead of me

I totally know how it feels. We go through some variation of this every time we drop the boys off. Usually, its that they dont want to go home to moms because they dont like her boyfriend, which puts us in a hard spot. DH usually cries every time he drops them off. 

How is the tax situation going?? 

I told him that I went ahead and claimed both of the kids (which I didn't, but he doesn't know this).  He refused to drop DS off yesterday and made me come and get him (which had me even more pissed off and emotional while picking up DS).  I called his bluff. He hasn't said anything else about the tax situation.  He called me this morning asking to get together to go over exchanges with the kids and whatnot so that we don't have to go to mediation.  He said that if we can't get it resolved amongst ourselves than we can fall back on that.  I haven't called him back yet to tell him if I'm going to sit down with him or not.  He wants to do it tonight (during MY time with the kids).  I don't think so. 

[Lola]

Feb 2, 2015 15:04:00 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

Feb 2, 2015 14:25:46 GMT -5 Lola said:

I totally know how it feels. We go through some variation of this every time we drop the boys off. Usually, its that they dont want to go home to moms because they dont like her boyfriend, which puts us in a hard spot. DH usually cries every time he drops them off. 

How is the tax situation going?? 

I told him that I went ahead and claimed both of the kids (which I didn't, but he doesn't know this).  He refused to drop DS off yesterday and made me come and get him (which had me even more pissed off and emotional while picking up DS).  I called his bluff. He hasn't said anything else about the tax situation.  He called me this morning asking to get together to go over exchanges with the kids and whatnot so that we don't have to go to mediation.  He said that if we can't get it resolved amongst ourselves than we can fall back on that.  I haven't called him back yet to tell him if I'm going to sit down with him or not.  He wants to do it tonight (during MY time with the kids).  I don't think so. 

What an ass. If hes being difficult, it might be better to go to a mediator so he will be less of an ass, and that its in a binding contract. My DH had an awful divorce with his ex (he found her cheating on him, and is still with the dude now), and we have 2 designated meeting spots that are in his custody documents. She can't bitch about where we meet, because she legally has to drive the 30 mins to the meeting spot that she agreed on. 

[bullybutt]

Feb 2, 2015 15:08:37 GMT -5 Lola said:

Feb 2, 2015 15:04:00 GMT -5 bullybutt said:

I told him that I went ahead and claimed both of the kids (which I didn't, but he doesn't know this).  He refused to drop DS off yesterday and made me come and get him (which had me even more pissed off and emotional while picking up DS).  I called his bluff. He hasn't said anything else about the tax situation.  He called me this morning asking to get together to go over exchanges with the kids and whatnot so that we don't have to go to mediation.  He said that if we can't get it resolved amongst ourselves than we can fall back on that.  I haven't called him back yet to tell him if I'm going to sit down with him or not.  He wants to do it tonight (during MY time with the kids).  I don't think so. 

What an ass. If hes being difficult, it might be better to go to a mediator so he will be less of an ass, and that its in a binding contract. My DH had an awful divorce with his ex (he found her cheating on him, and is still with the dude now), and we have 2 designated meeting spots that are in his custody documents. She can't bitch about where we meet, because she legally has to drive the 30 mins to the meeting spot that she agreed on. 

With us, we live about 5 miles from each other(blessing and curse). He is just a passive aggressive bitch and tries to hurt me in any way he can.  He is just so miserable with himself that he has to get at me to make him feel better.

[Deleted]

I just shoveled so much snow and my ass feels like it's frozen off!

[Deleted]

bullybutt I'm sorry. That must have been really rough!

[GrrArgh]

This is such a FWP but the house cleaning company we have can only give us a 3 hour window for when they can get here. With 2 babies that is pretty much impossible.

[emilillies]

Sorry bullybutt

[lea]

bullybutt, I'm sorry he's being such a douche. Makes me wish I could do this to him:




My bitch is that I seem to have a never-ending period this month. I'm on day 9 and it's light but still a little more than a pantiliner. I thought it was pretty much gone on Thursday but then it came back Friday and is still hanging in.

Also, the kid who plowed my driveway earlier (that didn't really need to be plowed at that point but whatever) was supposed to come back and put sand/salt down since it's going to be a sheet of ice in the morning and he hasn't. Grr.

[dawnfire]

Whoa, so I'm not the only one experiencing uber long periods? Ever since I started them postpartum, they last around 7 days whereas before they were 3-4 days! Granted, I've only had 2 postpartum periods, but I'm not used to them lasting that long. So weird.

MBF: So. Very. Tired. DH was diagnosed with flu, so he can't help with LO at all. I'm still recovering from an upper respiratory infection and feel like I'm coughing up a lung. DS decided that last night as his before-my-bedtime feeding that he didn't want to go to sleep after he ate. He finally went to sleep but then woke up crying/hungry at 1:00am.

Zombie-mommy fed him, then put him back down where he proceeded to make cute baby noises for a while. At 4am he started to fuss again. I had a ginormous coughing fit that almost had me puking and falling over from exhaustion. He kept fussing, but zombie-mommy was too zombiefied to do much (I was seriously afraid if I picked him up I'd drop him, so I figured he was safer being sad in his pack n play.) I think I slept at some point, but at 6:20 his song of overwhelming sadness was too much so I got up for the day and took care of him.

But I am seriously dragging, and that really sucks on the night I work late. Ergh. I hope he and I are both able to sleep tonight, because my eyelids feel like sandpaper.