Post by onesweetworld on Jan 27, 2016 22:19:13 GMT -5
I'm an only child so my mom really is my whole world. I am so thankful for our relationship but it's very hard to explain to people unless they are only children. My BFF is probably the only other person that has ever gotten it.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
Sorry H was being a dick...mine has his moments... My mom also barely knows we are trying, we don't really talk about stuff like that. But I sometimes wish we did :/
So tell her! I'm done hiding shit.
She made a sort of off handed comment and I said, well it's not for lack of trying and I got flustered and we were around other people. She's a doctor, too, and wants grandkids bad. I've always appreciated she stays out of my business but I wish she'd ask. We don't really have talks where it could come up and are essentially never just talking alone to each other. But yes, I would like to talk to her about it. You're right. Secrets suck.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
She made a sort of off handed comment and I said, well it's not for lack of trying and I got flustered and we were around other people. She's a doctor, too, and wants grandkids bad. I've always appreciated she stays out of my business but I wish she'd ask. We don't really have talks where it could come up and are essentially never just talking alone to each other. But yes, I would like to talk to her about it. You're right. Secrets suck.
My mom is also very eager for grandchildren but has never asked me. My MiL on the other hand makes stupid comments and I want to smack her. I'm thinking of talking to her about it.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I'm an only child so my mom really is my whole world. I am so thankful for our relationship but it's very hard to explain to people unless they are only children. My BFF is probably the only other person that has ever gotten it.
That's actually really good to hear. If I ever get KU, I have a feeling I'll be OAD and that kind of worries me because I don't want our child to be lonely or resent me for not giving them a sibling. I would love to have a close relationship with my daughter/son because I never had that with either of my parents.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
I'm an only child so my mom really is my whole world. I am so thankful for our relationship but it's very hard to explain to people unless they are only children. My BFF is probably the only other person that has ever gotten it.
That's actually really good to hear. If I ever get KU, I have a feeling I'll be OAD and that kind of worries me because I don't want our child to be lonely or resent me for not giving them a sibling. I would love to have a close relationship with my daughter/son because I never had that with either of my parents.
I always asked for a sibling. I had a cousin that was an only child as well. She isn't the ideal person. Just love your child and all will turn out fine. My mom was always working but she made time for me, played with me, and took me on vacation. Even the thought of my mom having a headache makes me cry my eyes out I'm so attached to her. When she'd have a migraine and I saw her get sick, I'd cry and cry. No one hurts my mom. I have a full on panic attack thinking about her passing.
On a related note. Do you HIO during fw even if you hate him?? My instincts say yes...
Probably not. If it was a stupid argument, then I might makeup sooner than I normally would have. But if it was something serious, like I found out he was hiding something from me, then no fucking way.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
That's actually really good to hear. If I ever get KU, I have a feeling I'll be OAD and that kind of worries me because I don't want our child to be lonely or resent me for not giving them a sibling. I would love to have a close relationship with my daughter/son because I never had that with either of my parents.
I always asked for a sibling. I had a cousin that was an only child as well. She isn't the ideal person. Just love your child and all will turn out fine. My mom was always working but she made time for me, played with me, and took me on vacation. Even the thought of my mom having a headache makes me cry my eyes out I'm so attached to her. When she'd have a migraine and I saw her get sick, I'd cry and cry. No one hurts my mom. I have a full on panic attack thinking about her passing.
That's really sweet and definitely gives me a new perspective on it. I love my brother but I do wish I had a better relationship with my mom. I guess you never know how things are going to work out! Honestly, I'll be happy if we just have one. And I'll love the shit out of it.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
I always asked for a sibling. I had a cousin that was an only child as well. She isn't the ideal person. Just love your child and all will turn out fine. My mom was always working but she made time for me, played with me, and took me on vacation. Even the thought of my mom having a headache makes me cry my eyes out I'm so attached to her. When she'd have a migraine and I saw her get sick, I'd cry and cry. No one hurts my mom. I have a full on panic attack thinking about her passing.
That's really sweet and definitely gives me a new perspective on it. I love my brother but I do wish I had a better relationship with my mom. I guess you never know how things are going to work out! Honestly, I'll be happy if we just have one. And I'll love the shit out of it.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by onesweetworld on Jan 27, 2016 22:49:02 GMT -5
I'm probably going to get in bed soon. I will wash off my vitamin C mask and go to sleep. DNW to work tomorrow.
I'm considering applying for other jobs. I worry about losing pay if I get pregnant before my year of the new job but H told me not to worry about it, it's really not enough money to make it stop me from changing jobs.
I'm probably going to get in bed soon. I will wash off my vitamin C mask and go to sleep. DNW to work tomorrow.
I'm considering applying for other jobs. I worry about losing pay if I get pregnant before my year of the new job but H told me not to worry about it, it's really not enough money to make it stop me from changing jobs.
If there's something you're interested in then I would apply! You can always make more money. I'm done putting my life on hold for TTC purposes.
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
I'm probably going to get in bed soon. I will wash off my vitamin C mask and go to sleep. DNW to work tomorrow.
I'm considering applying for other jobs. I worry about losing pay if I get pregnant before my year of the new job but H told me not to worry about it, it's really not enough money to make it stop me from changing jobs.
If there's something you're interested in then I would apply! You can always make more money. I'm done putting my life on hold for TTC purposes.
Not necessarily interested in something else, just sick of the bullshit and stress.
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