Post by watermelonseed on Feb 4, 2016 12:54:00 GMT -5
I decided to actually take my hour lunch break and get out of the office today since it's nice out. Eating Chinese food which I probably will regret later.
pismoduo, I'm so confused about your whole mortgage thing. They like sold your debt to someone else? I would not be happy. We chose our mortgage because of the rare but also because of the service we get from that bank. Glad you got it figured out.
We refinanced through a broker this time around, and brokers usually transfer your loan to someone else who does all your processing. So we were expecting it to happen at some point in time, it was just really annoying how the whole thing was done. Last time we were transferred to a new servicer, we got like 60 days notice and the new servicer sent us our documents in a fairly timely manner.
pismoduo , I'm so confused about your whole mortgage thing. They like sold your debt to someone else? I would not be happy. We chose our mortgage because of the rare but also because of the service we get from that bank. Glad you got it figured out.
Depends on the situation, but our mortgage was technically sold to someone else, but our bank is still the servicer. So my interactions with my bank have not changed at all, I believe they just forward the funds to whatever company bought our mortgage.
Yea, ours was the opposite. The same bank still owns us, but they changed servicers. The same thing has happened to my student loans at least twice.
Can we talk about cm discharge? I'm having a lot of ewcm and I don't remember having this during my 1st pregnancy. Google tells me it's normal, but I want to know I'm not the only one!
Swamp crotch is very real. And lasts the entire time. Ugh. Did not miss this.
This might be unpopular, but like f14mama said, it's Thursday. I'm starting to doubt the necessity for all those early ultrasounds. I feel like it puts a lot of ladies in limbo when really there's nothing that they can do. It looks like it's only adding stress.
Good luck to YH on his exam cassey910- he will be one of the ones who only take it once!
I have all-morning meetings on Thursdays so they drag...but once Thursday afternoon is here it's like aaaalmost the weekend and I'm already there in my head. Peace out to the work on my desk!
This might be unpopular, but like f14mama said, it's Thursday. I'm starting to doubt the necessity for all those early ultrasounds. I feel like it puts a lot of ladies in limbo when really there's nothing that they can do. It looks like it's only adding stress.
Most of the early ultrasounds are done for a specific reason such as dating which requires an ultrasound at a specific time period, people who have had previous missed miscarriages, etc. After two losses in two years of TTC I would be a mess if I hadn't had my early ultrasound to show that this baby is currently growing properly and has a strong heartbeat.
Don't get me wrong, limbo is the very worst. I spent some time there with my first miscarriage, but we knew that chances were pretty low from that first ultrasound. I see the necessity for the ultrasounds.
I know you're right, I think I'm just very frustrated and sad for them today.
I dreamt that I gave birth, it was the easiest delivery ever btw, to a baby boy. During my last pregnancy, I only dreamt once of the baby and it turned out to also be a boy. I have DS. It adds to my boy suspicions.
Oooh! I had one baby dream and it was a girl- now I have DD. I also saw license plates that had the letters GAL in sequence so many times I lost count...coincidence?
f14mama I totally get your frustration in waiting but when my water broke I definitely didn't know for sure if it was my water. Just a trickle came out and I had just finished peeing so I didn't know if it was my water breaking or just extra pee escaping! Not everyone who doesn't know lacks common sense!
flyakite The dosage is 8mg. I'm taking it every 8 hours. I took one before bed last night and one right when I woke up. It's helping a tiny bit, but not as much as I'd hoped.
Post by LadyNymeria on Feb 4, 2016 15:39:36 GMT -5
Not sure if this needs a trigger warning, but just in case...cancer related.
Today sucks. My aunt found a lump in my grandmother's breast, who already has severe dementia (hence my aunt finding the lump, not my grandmother). It was small so she kept an eye on it and within a couple weeks it grew significantly so my aunt brought her to the dr. Turns out it's triple negative breast cancer, the same type that another aunt lost her battle to 6 years ago.
I am lucky to have all my grandparents still alive, but it's making me really sad to realize that may not be the case much longer. She would need surgery and very aggressive treatment to make any impact and because of the dementia she's not healthy enough for any of that. Apparently all they can really do is just wait and see until it starts causing pain, at which point she'll have to go into hospice care.
I'm sorry to hear that LadyNymeria, cancer sucks. My mom had stage 3 breast cancer 3 years ago and is in remission right now, but all of it sucks big time.
Congrats to your mom fem on being in remission. That's wonderful!
Thanks! It was ironic because she went through chemo when I was pregnant last time so we were having a lot of similar symptoms: fatigue, nausea, for aversions.
We just bought a really nice used treadmill from Craigslist. It was our Valentine's day present to each other. DD hates the gym daycare so I'm pretty excited. However I'm exhausted and queasy today so exercising is about last on my list right now.
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