NTTGPR: Sex Question

[kasaundrar]

Okay guys, sorry if this is weird but I don't really have anyone to ask this. Is it disrespectful to give a BJ and not swallow it? I always feel like a shitty wife when I run to the bathroom to spit it out...

again sorry if this is fucking stupid.

[PugMum]

I would find it very awkward to run to the bathroom with a mouth full of jiz. That would be a mood killer. We normally have a towel near by, or tissue to spit into.

[mrsp]

If you're a shitty wife for not swallowing, then I can't imagine what I am because I do not let that shit get anywhere near my mouth. I will throw up.

So no, I don't think it's disrespectful.

[Unknown]

Disrespectful? If you want to swallow, swallow. If you don't he should be happy he got a blow job at all.

[carolinaheart]

I certainly don't think it's disrespectful.

But, I would much rather just swallow it than hold it in my mouth to get to the bathroom or even spit it out.

[mrsp]

Feb 2, 2015 20:53:48 GMT -5 PugMum said:

I would find it very awkward to run to the bathroom with a mouth full of jiz. That would be a mood killer. We normally have a towel near by, or tissue to spit into.

This. Why wouldn't you just spit it back out right away?

[kawaiikitsune]

It's only occasionally that MH will finish in my mouth. I can't swallow without gagging and usually spit into a towel or t-shirt.

[peaseblossom55]

I just swallow, it's not the most pleasant thing but it's just easier in terms of logistics.

[aussielove]

I don't think it's disrespectful.

If its already in my mouth, I don't see the point in spitting it out, so I'm a swallower I guess.

[risscaboobs]

Disrespectful?? Not at all. I swallow about half of the time. MH doesn't care either way. Sometimes, I don't even let him go in my mouth. He doesn't care about that either. I don't think he takes it as a sign of disrespect because that would be fucked the fuck up.

[carolinaheart]

Feb 2, 2015 20:56:50 GMT -5 mrsp said:

Feb 2, 2015 20:53:48 GMT -5 PugMum said:

I would find it very awkward to run to the bathroom with a mouth full of jiz. That would be a mood killer. We normally have a towel near by, or tissue to spit into.

This. Why wouldn't you just spit it back out right away?

I'm actually giggling pretty hard now, picturing someone running around with a mouth full of jizz.

[risscaboobs]

Feb 2, 2015 20:59:59 GMT -5 risscaboobs said:

Disrespectful?? Not at all. I swallow about half of the time. MH doesn't care either way. Sometimes, I don't even let him go in my mouth. He doesn't care about that either. I don't think he takes it as a sign of disrespect because that would be fucked the fuck up.

Fuck.

[MrsRC88]

DH has only finished in my mouth once and I spit it out. It's just not my thing. But to each their own- some women love it.

[kasaundrar]

Feb 2, 2015 21:03:16 GMT -5 pippacricket said:

Sometimes I feel like swallowing. Sometimes I don't.

Does this make me a SS? I don't really get the whole "if you don't swallow it's disrespectful" thing.

I had a friend flip shit on me because I don't swallow and she told me it was disrespectful for me not to. That's why I asked.

[nuggetrn]

Curious what your DH has to say about this? What does he think about you running to the bathroom right after he finishes? Lol.

DH has never finished in my mouth and I honestly don't think he wants to... we usually just end with sex.

[kasaundrar]

Sorry guys! I wasn't trying to weird anyone out haha.

[risscaboobs]

Feb 2, 2015 21:04:15 GMT -5 @littleliverpill said:

why are the only two real options on this poll "Yes, you are awful if you don't" or "No, that shit is nasty"?

i don't think you're awful if you don't and i don't think that shit is nasty.

do whatever you want to. it's your body and your choice. but i don't think anything about sex is "nasty."



...except for poop.

And this is why I'm a special snowflake in this thread.

[heatherj9603]

Feb 2, 2015 20:51:56 GMT -5 danib said:

DH has never even finished in my mouth so there's my answer.

This is me. BUT if he did, I'd spit that crap out. 

Edit: I should add that my dh isn't a big blowy fan. He says it feels good, but it's just not his thing. He'd rather "go for the vag" as he says lol. 

[risscaboobs]

Feb 2, 2015 21:11:23 GMT -5 @littleliverpill said:

Feb 2, 2015 21:07:28 GMT -5 risscaboobs said:

And this is why I'm a special snowflake in this thread.

i guess i am too, then.

LOL that gif always kills me

[wanderingheart]

Spit in a cup so you can save some for some delicious semen recipes!

[smash928]

If he's going to finish in my mouth, it's not coming back out. We don't do it very often, but it is a little exciting for me. Less mess to clean up.

[physiomeg]

Feb 2, 2015 20:51:56 GMT -5 danib said:

DH has never even finished in my mouth so there's my answer.

+1

Even if he had, I don't think I could swallow it. It's more respectful for me to spit it out than to gag and possibly puke after swallowing, no?

[thechickencoop]

I swallow cuz protein yo. But seriously? I'm surprised at the lack of blow jobs. DH is all about it though. I guess we're both very into oral sex....it evens out

ETA oh but I wouldn't think it would be disrespectful to spit; I mean, I have before, why would he care? It's not like I would spit it in his face or something. Blech.

[Sparkly]

Umm... This poll is entertaining me. I voted I like to click things. Because I do.

Andplusalso, I am not sure of the last time I have given a blow job to completion and needed to make this choice. MH likes to put P in the V. Lucky me.

[risscaboobs]

Feb 2, 2015 21:18:06 GMT -5 wanderingheart said:

Spit in a cup so you can save some for some delicious semen recipes!

[Deleted]

I'm mobile and can't see the poll. But I don't think I've ever spit it out. However, I've gotten pretty skillful in hopping on about way through which avoids the whole dilemma.

[physiomeg]

Feb 2, 2015 21:24:48 GMT -5 pippacricket said:

Feb 2, 2015 21:20:36 GMT -5 thechickencoop said:

::snip:: It's not like I would spit it in his face or something. Blech.

Now THAT would be disrespectful!

[wirt2cute]

If I'm to lazy to get up then I might swallow or if I'm really drunk other then that I kindly go to the bathroom and spit. H doesn't care either way.

[achromia]

Feb 2, 2015 20:51:56 GMT -5 danib said:

DH has never even finished in my mouth so there's my answer.

Yup. I have a strong gag reflex so I can only imagine how disrespectful my reaction to that would be. Sorry, DH.

[icaughtfire]

Well I figure if H finishes anywhere near my mouth & then I immediately puke all over him because jizz in my mouth is FUCKING GROSS, that would be way more disrespectful.