RRCS: Temp spiked this am but due to drinking last night. I hate when that happens which is why I usually don't drink before O. But drinking around O makes things fun. Why can't I have my cake and eat it too?
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? It has been a mild winter here which has been great. DH bought me new boots in December and they are super cute to wear out. We also did a couple romantic skating nights which was fun.
Post by ladytiffany24 on Feb 12, 2016 8:11:35 GMT -5
Cycle/Month: 4/4
CD: 15
What are you doing to GKU? Temping, CM, OPK, PNV, Preseed, HIO
RRCS: OPK is still not getting any darker. Looks like I may be Oing later than usual this cycle. *grumble* Haven't checked CM yet today but I'm not holding out any hope for that either.
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? Definitely how warm it has been and the lack of snow! Although, I should knock on wood or something because we're supposed to get some Monday and Tuesday. There have been a few days where we were able to play outside with DD this winter. I've loved it!
RRCS: my commute was extremely easy this morning. Apparently many people around here are taking a 4-day weekend. I'm not sure whether this is a rave about traffic, or a rant about apparently being the only person who doesn't get any days off from work ever lol
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? I got two new coats yesterday!!! They are both laundry by Shelli Segal and I am in love I have needed a new coat for, no exaggeration, the last 3 winters and I finally, finally hit the jackpot.
What are you doing to GKU? We'll try the whole sex thing one more time
RRCS: nothing
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? I feel like we still have a lot of winter to go...it's snowed here in April a couple times since I lived here! It has been nice and mild until the last two weeks, which was nice. I have had fun taking H skiing, it's his favorite thing. I'm much better at drinking in the lodge, but seeing him so happy doing something makes me happy...and I even enjoy trying to learn myself, for a few hours...
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
So I've got a decision to make about TTC this cycle and I would love to get input from you ladies.
Disclaimer: I do not in any way believe in "planning" the timing of pregnancies. In my experience it is not possible to do this in the least.
We are leaving for Mexico on Feb. 24th. Obviously I'm not KU so we are still going to go and just be really aggressive with the bugspray. FW will probably begin while we are away. And, my brother is getting married in NJ (5-6 hour drive) the first weekend in November, which would be approximately 1-2 weeks before my EDD if we were to be successful this cycle.
Question is this: am I irresponsible/selfish/a bad sister if we still actively TTC this cycle? And if actively trying is wrong, what are our other options?
My heart tells me I don't want to TTA because that missed chance would nag at and sadden me. My head tells me that NTNP would work in theory but in reality is not possible, unless I forego temping entirely for the month. Frankly, I do want to continue temping no matter what, for the data if nothing else. After 3 PP cycles, all I can tell you is that I'm ovulating, but I have no clue what my LP is or even cycle length.
Post by ladytiffany24 on Feb 12, 2016 8:30:21 GMT -5
dashook, Not selfish at all. I'd still be trying. If I were you, I'd be beating myself over "what if that was the cycle" and I just missed it. I'm sure he would completely understand and want you to do what's right/best for you.
dashook you are not selfish at all for ttc this month. It's very hard to plan life around events and you might regret the missed chance. Your heart is already in this cycle (as all ours are every one) so I think you should keep doing what your doing this cycle.
But for me with the travelling, that Zika thing does freak me out a bit. I hav'nt been reading up on it because I don't plan on traveling though so my fear is from ignorance of the risks and virus.
dashook, first, huge hugs for both of us being back in WTO together. Second, my brother is also getting married in early November, and I have pondered the same as you. I don't think you're selfish at all for still trying. Go by what your heart says.
That being said, I am NTNP this cycle and next. We're still "trying", but I won't be temping and we won't actively try to hit days. This is for a LOT of reasons, only one of which is the wedding.
Cycle/Month: 10/11
CD: 1
What are you doing to GKU? nada
RRCS: Just waiting for flow to start. The temp dip and cramps tell me it's only a matter of hours.
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? It's been pretty mild where I am, which is nice, but I have missed snowboarding opportunities. My favorite part was watching my pup get so excited about bounding through the (scarce) snow we got. She LOVES it.
What are you doing to GKU? All the acronyms and sex.
RRCS: I have signs of ovulation approaching but haven't turned a positive OPK yet. Maybe today, or maybe I missed it, or maybe it is further out still.
GTKY: I am actually kind of bummed out about the mild winter we've had, but we did get to snowshoe on these really beautiful wooded trails nearby a few weeks ago. But my favorite things about every winter are Christmas and my birthday (approaching).
dashook I don't think you are selfish at all. We have thought about putting things on hold for a month or two for some family events this fall as well but in the end we decided TTC was more important to us at this point. There are so many what-ifs sometimes with TTC and I don't like to dwell on those.
Cycle/Month: 9/10
CD:24
What are you doing to GKU? BBT, OPKs, preseed
RRCS: I'm thinking O will be today or tomorrow.
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? Well we haven't had much of a winter this year and I love that! Usually we get a couple nasty ice storms and where I live all hell breaks loose when that happens. So I'm thankful I haven't had to drive into work in any of that mess and hoping it stays away this year!
What are you doing to GKU? BBT, cm, pnv. And hoping I either O today or not for a week and a half when DH gets back.
RRCS: nothing new
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? My favorite thing this year was DS trying sledding for the first time. I think it is his new favorite activity!
dashook, Not selfish at all. I'd still be trying. If I were you, I'd be beating myself over "what if that was the cycle" and I just missed it. I'm sure he would completely understand and want you to do what's right/best for you.
GTKY: I'm jealous of all the snow fun people have in Winter. We've had more rain than usual but otherwise the seasons blend together here. My favourite thing has. been family visiting us in our new home over the last couple of months to help us with various projects. My second favourite thing will be when my ILs leave on Monday after a month with us. I love them but a month is a long time to have house guests...
Post by wannabmama on Feb 12, 2016 10:05:56 GMT -5
dashook totally not trying to be a fear-monger, but I'd take a look at the Zika risk. There's a lot they don't know, so it's just something to get yourself comfortable with. Most people seem to think as long as you come back and have no symptoms for two weeks, you are fine to TTC after that, but do warm against getting KU during the two week incubation period. Again, it's not all known and the risk is low overall, but just something to maybe read up on if you're going to TTC while you are away. Other than that, I'd definitely TTC with respect to the wedding, as you said, you can't plan when you're actually going to get KU and there's always something that will get impacted one way or another.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
GTKY: It's been such a mild winter this year, which has been amazing! I love how beautiful the snow is, and the fact that I work from home so much and don't have to go out in it Although this weekend I'm hoping to get out skating for the first time, despite that fact that it's supposed to be -37 out!!
ironbaby, so sorry to see you back here. Big hugs.
mikaela20, hope you're enjoying your day off and taking it easy.
dashook, You are not being selfish at all. Do what your heart tells you to do - I am sure your brother would be happy for you if you were to get pregnant. Speaking personally, we put off TTC for a few months because of a wedding and now I look back and kick myself. It is definitely a personal choice though and there is no 'right' answer, just what feels right for you and your H. Hugs. I hope you enjoy your vacation!
thelittleredm, the RRCS made me laugh. I'm sorry you're dealing with an uncooperative cervix though.
Thanks, everyone, for the advice. It actually really helps to hear from unbiased sources (i.e., not DH), that it isn't selfish to want to keep going this month. I mean, it's entirely possible that we won't be successful this month anyway, and then it's a moot point. But I would hate feeling like we might have missed "the month." I think cheezee hit the nail on the head that there are so many what ifs with TTC and I would rather not have to add yet another one of those on.
wannabmama, everything I have read so far seems to indicate that women who are TTC can safely travel as long as they take the required precautions against mosquito bites (DEET, long sleeves, sleeping in a room with AC, etc.). Not that I really trust the CDC anymore at this point, but that is my understanding at least. Additionally, we are going to Oaxaca de Juarez, where there have been no reported cases.
What are you doing to GKU? Temping at a consistent time every day, ACV
RRCS: Nothing today
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? We went to Leavenworth just before Christmas for the lights and the snow. Something I've always wanted to do and DF proposed while we were there. Thus summing up the best part of Winter for me.
*edited* Apparently I can't be trusted to do math...Oct - Feb is five months, not four. That's a depressing thought...
What are you doing to GKU? All the things! BBT, OPK, IUI, Secks
RRCS: Had my monitoring appointment with the RE today and I have 3 follicles that are big enough that they expect them to mature. She asked how I felt about that and I basically laughed and said we are full steam ahead. If I end up with triplets - please say "I told you so."
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year?
I freaking hate winter. I am happy that this winter has been relatively mild. Although it was 6 degrees when I got into my car today. BRRRR.
What are you doing to GKU? Nothing right now. Husband is out of town.
RRCS: Not much. Happy it's Friday, family is coming to visit next week and we're hosting a fun wine dinner next weekend
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? We've had a very mild winter in Texas, which is great. I've enjoyed our early warm days this year, but I know it's not over yet.
Post by kayladawn91 on Feb 12, 2016 12:50:18 GMT -5
Cycle/Month: 9/10 AL
CD: 14
What are you doing to GKU? BBT. CM, sex
RRCS: I forgot to take my temp today because the dogs were in a hurry to go outside. Grr.
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? I've definitely enjoyed the lack of snow!
Post by legalbeagle on Feb 12, 2016 13:27:01 GMT -5
Cycle/Month: 5/2AL
CD: 21
What are you doing to GKU? Lots of stuff.
RRCS: Going to see Hamilton tonight! So excited! YUUUUGE temp dip this morning but still ghosty pale OPKS. What is UP body?
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? The weekend blizzard we had a few weeks ago was so cozy. Loved it.
RRCS: Going to see Hamilton tonight! So excited! YUUUUGE temp dip this morning but still ghosty pale OPKS. What is UP body?
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? The weekend blizzard we had a few weeks ago was so cozy. Loved it.
GTKY: Since we are in the last stretch of Winter, what have been your favorite things about old man Winter this year? eh, I didn't mind being snowed in during the last blizzard but other than that I am not a fan of winter what so ever.
Can I join this thread? I posted my intro on a few other boards, and I am looking for fellow cycle buddies. We are trying naturally to conceive a sibling, but we have an IF/RLP diagnosis, so we're only going to give it 6 months tops.
Cycle/Month: Technically 4 or 5 since my period returned PP, but really only 2 of tracking ovulation.
CD: 5
What are you doing to GKU? Sex, OPK. I really want to temp, but my sleep is so erratic. We did some baseline bloodwork with an RE, all good so far on my end. Our factor is male, chromosomal.
RRCS: (gah, I have no idea what this acronym means)
Me: 36 (Hashimoto's), DH: 35 (Robertsonian 13;14 translocation) ***Losses & LC mentioned*** Blighted ovum 9/13/13, CPs 1/4/14, 01/10/16 DD, born on 10/11/2014 TTC #2 since January 2016 Natural cycles until all is ready for IVF with PGD (time TBD)
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