Post by mimsy on Mar 3, 2016 22:00:10 GMT -5
I don't. That's my point. I don't complain about weight issues because I know it's rude. But I'm so tired of seeing Tess Holliday pop up in my fb feed being a true plus sized model. I'm tied of the extremes and I'm tired of being judged by my size. No matter what the number.
Eta- I've been a size 14, I've been a size 2- all within the last 10 years. I have serious weight control issues and I'm seriously offended by anyone thinking that their size is best. I'm currently a 4 and JUST got comfortable being this small because I've been able to maintain weight. No one has the right to judge my until they know what my body image struggles are. And who are you to assume I complain about my size? (FYI- im not actually mad, I just feel like you need to quit assuming all women are vocal about struggles in their physical appearance)
I didn't mean you specifically, I meant a skinny person doing this in general annoys me. I don't assume all women are vocal about it; most aren't in my experience.
I feel you. I hate internet for contextual purposes. Which is why I pointed out that I wasn't speci dials pointing fingers at you.
I know there are women on tcf, on this board who are weight shamers. It's appalling.
Icehide- my pregnancy was plagued with that. I never cared before then. I was stressed. I was sick. I delivered 3lbs lighter than when I got pregnant. It probably wasn't healthy. No one had the right to question is unless they are your physician.