I would not appreciate my ob asking me how many partners I've had at 31. Why would that be relevant? I wouldn't want to be asked at 21 either, but I could somewhat see because of stds. Not saying you can't have them at 31, just that it is more likely you'll engage with multiple partners at that age.
I absolutely do not know my numbers and I'm glad it's not a conversation MH and I have had. I feel like he might look at me a little differently if he knew how much fun I had before I met him.
The only reason I could see my OB/GYN needing to know my sexual partners is if she asks if I'm in a monogamous relationship. If I say no, then I understand questioning further because STDs & all. I'm assuming she knows you're married, so past sexual partners is irrelevant. My OB tests for chlamydia & ghonnorhea every pap anyways
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Wait, like without her husband's knowledge? OMG, did they have sex in the attic next to the toilet bucket? Never mind, do not want to know.
He would come downstairs once her husband left for work and they would pretty much play house. And did oral but nothing further since she didn't want to cheat. She even posted a pic of his sleeping bag and poop bucket before admitting it was all a long con. You have to give her points for dedication though
I can't remember the first time I had sex with my H. We were in college and were surely intoxicated. He doesn't know that I don't remember. Also, I'm pretty sure he was a virgin before me, so surely he remembers? We've never talked about it.
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I also don't really remember the first time H and I had sex, also in college. I also don't remember the first time we kissed. And we collectively can't really remember when exactly we started dating. We have terrible brains.
Yes!! It was pretty epic too, everyone was asking for a pic of the homeless lover so she stuffed some of her H's clothes with pillows or something and sat it in a chair in the attic. I can't remember what she did for the head then threw a hat on top. I really should have saved that picture
Post by samanthasays on Mar 18, 2016 11:56:19 GMT -5
*I dont know how many people I have slept with. Surely over 12, but probably less than 20. I *I could hide my homeless lover in the guest room, H never goes in there. Except I DNW to empty his shit bucket, and I currently have 2 feral kittens living in there, so maybe not. I wasnt going to tell H about the kittens, because he would never have known. But they are so cute I had to show them off to him
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Post by peaseblossom55 on Mar 18, 2016 12:31:57 GMT -5
It's supposed to snow on Sunday, so that really sucks. If it does and needs to be shoveled, I'm telling H I'm too bloated to shovel, I probably will be anyway, but I'm going to avoid shoveling and helping at all costs. He has a gas snow blower now.
It's supposed to snow on Sunday, so that really sucks. If it does and needs to be shoveled, I'm telling H I'm too bloated to shovel, I probably will be anyway, but I'm going to avoid shoveling and helping at all costs. He has a gas snow blower now.
I'm not looking forward to this storm at all and I usually enjoy a good excuse to curl up inside by the fire. I hope it's not as bad as they're predicting (which seems to change every minute). If it's at all bad, though, I'm telling work it's terrible and staying home Monday.
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MH would freak out if he knew how much our kitchen remodel was actually costing. He doesn't ask, so I don't tell - but I think he'd be shocked.
Yea, H has no idea how much stuff costs. Like...anything. He stopped in the grocery store yesterday to pick up fruit because I didn't get to shop this week. This was our conversation when he got home:
H: Peaches are freakin expensive. Me: Yea....but ::looks at receipt:: looks like they were on sale, so that's cool, they were like 5 bucks. ::scans down:: But you spent 19 fucking dollars on APPLES. H: WTF? NO I DIDN'T, HOW DID THAT HAPPEN? APPLES ARE $4 A LB??? WHY??? Me: ::squinty eyes::
Post by daystardreams on Mar 18, 2016 12:35:14 GMT -5
I was coming in here to confess how much face hair I have but that's been covered. So onto the subject of sexual partners...I sort of lied to my H about it.
We had a conversation while dating about past relationships. He had two girlfriends before me, I had two boyfriends before him. Through other conversations I have come to realize that he assumes that my number (including him) is just three...but that assumption is wrong. I have never had the heart to correct him since I know that his number really is 3. I never flat out lied but it's basically the only "secret" I have from H.
I got athlete's foot from wearing snow boots and thick socks for extended periods of time. Your feet start to sweat.
Really? I guess I really don't know anything about how foot fungus works. I mean, I don't know how most people get it, but I'd like to think the floor of the women's locker room isn't the most common cause. And I would also like to think if one of the old ladies had foot problems she would be courteous enough to wear shoes to avoid sharing it. Maybe I'm too trusting.
I got it as a kid from *probably* the locker room type showers at our pool. Worst.Thing.EVER.
MH would freak out if he knew how much our kitchen remodel was actually costing. He doesn't ask, so I don't tell - but I think he'd be shocked.
Yea, H has no idea how much stuff costs. Like...anything. He stopped in the grocery store yesterday to pick up fruit because I didn't get to shop this week. This was our conversation when he got home:
H: Peaches are freakin expensive. Me: Yea....but ::looks at receipt:: looks like they were on sale, so that's cool, they were like 5 bucks. ::scans down:: But you spent 19 fucking dollars on APPLES. H: WTF? NO I DIDN'T, HOW DID THAT HAPPEN? APPLES ARE $4 A LB??? WHY??? Me: ::squinty eyes::
I did that once. I thought I picked up the $.99 apples and somehow I got the $3.99 insanely priced apples. I was all "why is my bill so high?! Oh wait a god damned minute!!"
YH probably knows about your facial hair. I wouldn't worry about it. And you should mention it.
He knows I pluck a few hairs, here and there. He doesn't know I can grow a goatee. I pluck obsessively every day, without exception.
I should get over it and bring it up at the appointment.
My RE asked me directly if I had unwanted/excessive facial hair. If they ask you this, you should answer honestly because it can be indicative of other things. (Totally not saying you have these things, but you know)
He knows I pluck a few hairs, here and there. He doesn't know I can grow a goatee. I pluck obsessively every day, without exception.
I should get over it and bring it up at the appointment.
My RE asked me directly if I had unwanted/excessive facial hair. If they ask you this, you should answer honestly because it can be indicative of other things. (Totally not saying you have these things, but you know)
I was asked that as well, it's one of the signs of PCOS I believe.
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Is it really any better to wear flip flops and then take of my germ infested flip flops and stick them back in my gym bag every day? And then pack clean clothes in there with them the next day? I figure the germs are going to find me regardless.
ETA: I'll totally admit I should be more concerned than I am about fungus/athlete's foot. But if we're just talking about germs, I really give no shits.
Is it really any better to wear flip flops and then take of my germ infested flip flops and stick them back in my gym bag every day? And then pack clean clothes in there with them the next day? I figure the germs are going to find me regardless.
You could put them in a plastic bag before you put them in your gym bag. Or you could just be gross. I dont judge you...that much.
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Is it really any better to wear flip flops and then take of my germ infested flip flops and stick them back in my gym bag every day? And then pack clean clothes in there with them the next day? I figure the germs are going to find me regardless.
You could put them in a plastic bag before you put them in your gym bag. Or you could just be gross. I dont judge you...that much.
But then I have to touch them with my hands. And then anything else I touch with my hands until I can get to the sink is contaminated. And then do you get a new plastic bag every day, or do you just carry a bag of germs around in your gym bag all the time? I think I'd rather just risk having germs on the bottoms of my feet. Do you also not walk around barefoot outdoors? I don't really see the difference.
You could put them in a plastic bag before you put them in your gym bag. Or you could just be gross. I dont judge you...that much.
But then I have to touch them with my hands. And then anything else I touch with my hands until I can get to the sink is contaminated. And then do you get a new plastic bag every day, or do you just carry a bag of germs around in your gym bag all the time? I think I'd rather just risk having germs on the bottoms of my feet. Do you also not walk around barefoot outdoors? I don't really see the difference.
I'm not truly that invested in it. I walk around barefoot nowhere, even in my house. I'm scurrrred I'll step on something sharp, get tetanus & die.
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