Meh, MH checks our account like every day so he knows if I go to Taco Bell or QT or something. I'm reaaaaaaaally bad with money. Like, really bad. He has to keep me accountable, but it doesn't bother me. I know I'm bad with money and need someone to help me out and remind me not to eat TB every day.
Me too. I mean, I won't spend us out of house and home or anything, but I probably didn't need to spend $70 for a second portable hard drive last year or $25 on more notebooks. Questionable choices, questionable choices everywhere.
Post by ohinvrtedworld on Mar 25, 2016 11:11:01 GMT -5
FFFC: Back when I thought we'd get KTFU right away, I entered a lot of giveaways and won a lot of baby stuff. I feel kind of bad now because obviously, no baby to use any of it yet. It's squirreled away in a closet for (hopefully) the future. I'm sad though at the thought that some of it might be outdated or out of style by the time we actually have a baby.
@miawallace , Ditto!! I'm not trying to fool anybody...when I go to the movies I eat an entire large popcorn by myself. I would never stop myself just so friends (Or H) think I'm less of a pig.
I put so much butter on my popcorn, but I hate that halfway though the bag there is no more butter. When H and I saw Deadpool I noticed my theater has little plastic ramekins of sliced jalepenos, so I dumped out the jalepenos and filled it with the butter, when I got halfway though the bag I poured that butter on the popcorn, it was the most perfect bag of movie theater popcorn ever.
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Post by ohinvrtedworld on Mar 25, 2016 11:16:00 GMT -5
And a less depressing confession: about seven times now I've thrown something in the trash, realized I forgot to put a bag in the trash can before the first time, but shrug and walk away. If H expresses disgust at this, I will pretend that I had no idea, not that I'm just too lazy to get the trash out and put in a new bag.
Post by samanthasays on Mar 25, 2016 11:19:51 GMT -5
I know Joy's rules were a joke, but I normally have a drink waiting for H when he gets home. I like to talk about our days over a cocktail and enjoy making new drinks for us to try.
He brings me wine and snacks while I am in the bath and rubs my feet when we are watching TV, so it evens out Not that anyone actually thought I was an overworked wife, I think its pretty clear my spirit animal is a sloth.
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Maybe. The only way I find out if MH ate fast food is if I find the bags in his car.
I am grossed out by my husband's car and refuse to drive around it in. Can that be my confession?
I may have water bottles and news papers in my car, but he will actually leave the bags from his takeout in his car so I don't see that he has had take out that day.
****Further explaination, possible second confession and triggers in the spoiler.
My husband is a compulsive over-eater. He will binge on fast food on his way home from work, then eat a full dinner with me less than 2 hours later. He is 300 lb, and only 5'9". He is now 41, and there is a long family history of death from heart disease and diabetes. His blood tests always come back that everything looks fine, but i'm still terrified he is just going to drop dead from a heart attack one day.
In that case, I could see you wanting to know, as that is bordering on a physical & mental health issue.
But "I had tacos & didn't tell my husband" seems ridiculous. Can y'all imagine if I had to tell Mr. Fire every time I ate Taco Bell? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. Who gives a fuck what or where you ate. It's not your husband's business or his decision.
I am really jealous of everyone else's ability to eat fast food. I know it's not the healthiest choice, but I just want to be to eat a damn Big Mac without having to immediately run for the bathroom.
FFFC: Back when I thought we'd get KTFU right away, I entered a lot of giveaways and won a lot of baby stuff. I feel kind of bad now because obviously, no baby to use any of it yet. It's squirreled away in a closet for (hopefully) the future. I'm sad though at the thought that some of it might be outdated or out of style by the time we actually have a baby.
I bought an assortment of baby clothes and maternity clothes that I found on clearance a couple years ago. I ended up "loaning" (giving) them to my sister when she got pregnant cause I figured I'd rather someone use them than have them sit in my closet (possibly) forever unused.
And a less depressing confession: about seven times now I've thrown something in the trash, realized I forgot to put a bag in the trash can before the first time, but shrug and walk away. If H expresses disgust at this, I will pretend that I had no idea, not that I'm just too lazy to get the trash out and put in a new bag.
And a less depressing confession: about seven times now I've thrown something in the trash, realized I forgot to put a bag in the trash can before the first time, but shrug and walk away. If H expresses disgust at this, I will pretend that I had no idea, not that I'm just too lazy to get the trash out and put in a new bag.
THE HORROR!!!!!
Right? How can civilized society handle someone like me.
In that case, I could see you wanting to know, as that is bordering on a physical & mental health issue.
But "I had tacos & didn't tell my husband" seems ridiculous. Can y'all imagine if I had to tell Mr. Fire every time I ate Taco Bell? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. Who gives a fuck what or where you ate. It's not your husband's business or his decision.
I am really jealous of everyone else's ability to eat fast food. I know it's not the healthiest choice, but I just want to be to eat a damn Big Mac without having to immediately run for the bathroom.
That is sad. Especially on road trips. My body simply goes, "Oh, McDonald's, I see. Hmm. Better stick it in your thighs and ass for safekeeping."
I am really jealous of everyone else's ability to eat fast food. I know it's not the healthiest choice, but I just want to be to eat a damn Big Mac without having to immediately run for the bathroom.
That is sad. Especially on road trips. My body simply goes, "Oh, McDonald's, I see. Hmm. Better stick it in your thighs and ass for safekeeping."
Nope. My body says What The Fuck Were You Thinking? EVACUATE!!! EVACUATE!!!!
There was a woman on the sidewalk this morning who was coming my way and was completely not paying attention because she was too busy staring at her phone. Anyway, she was headed straight for me and I could've made it easy by stepping out of her way, but I felt like making a point this morning and continued on my path. Luckily, she noticed me at the last second before she banged into me.
I guess the confession is that I like to be an asshole in the morning.
This is kind of a lame confession, but I just started using a new Bath and Body works body wash this morning, and strangely enough it smells like my high school boyfriend's cologne. I can't say that I mind... it makes me feel nostalgic.
I have a confession. I JUST discovered that the radio program I listen to every morning isn't based in Cincinnati! They broadcast over 8 cities. I'm so bummed. And feel mislead.
Ignore me if we've gotten here but...is it the Kane show?
There was a woman on the sidewalk this morning who was coming my way and was completely not paying attention because she was too busy staring at her phone. Anyway, she was headed straight for me and I could've made it easy by stepping out of her way, but I felt like making a point this morning and continued on my path. Luckily, she noticed me at the last second before she banged into me.
I guess the confession is that I like to be an asshole in the morning.
Why stop in the morning? I like to just keep it going all day.
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mrsjene My H does that all the time! He has no problem moving over for people who are paying attention but people not looking he lets them slam his shoulder and then gives them a dirty look. It kind of annoys me- I get the principle but just because they are a douche doesn't mean he has to be!
There was a woman on the sidewalk this morning who was coming my way and was completely not paying attention because she was too busy staring at her phone. Anyway, she was headed straight for me and I could've made it easy by stepping out of her way, but I felt like making a point this morning and continued on my path. Luckily, she noticed me at the last second before she banged into me.
I guess the confession is that I like to be an asshole in the morning.
Lol I do that all the time too. If a person is walking on the wrong side of the sidewalk and isn't paying attention, teach that person a lesson.
mrsjene My H does that all the time! He has no problem moving over for people who are paying attention but people not looking he lets them slam his shoulder and then gives them a dirty look. It kind of annoys me- I get the principle but just because they are a douche doesn't mean he has to be!
mrsjene My H does that all the time! He has no problem moving over for people who are paying attention but people not looking he lets them slam his shoulder and then gives them a dirty look. It kind of annoys me- I get the principle but just because they are a douche doesn't mean he has to be!
I guess I prefer to be a douche.
LOL! I mostly encourage him not to be just because you never know who is going to be that one psycho to start a fight. I get nervous when he yells at people in traffic, I'm like haven't you seen the news?! People get murdered over this dumb shit!
FFFC: I let a parent of one of my clients upset me yesterday to point I burst into tears when I got home.
I overestimated her level of understanding with court proceedings and asked the parent if they had ever used a guardian ad litem. ( For those unfamiliar the simplest way to , a Guardian ad litem acts a third party advocate for a child in custody or adoption hearings). These parent are in the middle of a very nasty custody battle. The child is 16, but it does not appear that anyone from the court has sat down with him to find out where he would be most comfortable living and why. This is where a guardian ad litem would be very handy.
Unfortunately, instead of reading the rest of my emails or asking more questions this woman starts freaking out, writing back about how she is very off put by my suggestion, and why should another person need to be his guardian, and can't she get some credit. Before finally saying, "Do u evn hve children?!!!"
I wanted to reach through my computer screen and shake her. I am trying to help this lady and she just doesn't get it. I didn't even technically have to reach out to her because the dad initiated services, but I knew that she should be involved.
Why do people do that? Why do they stoop to that level? We are offering help because your child is in need, but because you don't understand what's going on you just assume we aren't parents and don't/can't get what you are going through.
Fuck off. Don't take my suggestions and be a jerk. Fine.
Post by peaseblossom55 on Mar 25, 2016 12:11:07 GMT -5
I don't care about Easter. I don't want to see any family H's or mine. I just want to be home away from people and in person interactions.
Since my ER Tuesday I have not given any fucks about my low carb diet. I will again on Monday though.
I got my hair cut at a new salon last night. A mother got her hair cut and had her two kids waiting, they were so well behaved and cute. I had anxiety the entire time that the woman cutting my hair was going to ask me if I had kids, luckily she didn't.
Wallflwr926 fuck her. Ugh, I am sorry. I probably would have cried too.
It's been said to me more than once, and it's always stung, even before I was married or TTC had started. And I know it's a defense mechanism for many parents, but I just don't get it.
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