Hugs starbuck27, try not to feel guilty for not connecting with baby this time around. I find first tri to be a time that's completely theoretical. Besides MS there's really no other physical sign of baby and therefore so much more difficult to connect. At least second and third tri you get to see something growing and start feeling kicks which makes it all so much more real. Maybe you and your H can take just a few seconds a day to tell the other something you're looking forward to about baby, even over text. I've done this with H and it's always a nice moment between the two of us, even if it is just a text.
Wait I think I missed something? You have to pay to go to a baby shower? I would be glad to be removed from that bs
yep!
Ok but here's the thing. It's my brother's gf's shower. And even though they said they were coming to mine and then just didn't show up (not that I'm bitter), I feel obligated to go.
But fuck me, you people are tacky. Her mom sent that message.
Oh damn that is a tough situation. I want to sit here and say I would be all hell no! But really I don't know what I would do?
If I recall correctly you have another important obligation that same day? You remember the one with that personand you just can't get out of? And you will send a gift worth $36 and a nice card. Or ya know just go without paying because I am guessing you will know where the shower is? Oh ms host ya know I saw that on April 1st and thought you had to be joking so I didn't pay attention.
Basically between tjanca22 's so called friend of a btidezilla and your brother's gf starbuck27 I want to hand out Emily posts miss manners book a la Oprah style.
Post by shedreamsincolor on Apr 8, 2016 22:07:58 GMT -5
Congrats danib on a great ultrasound!! starbuck27 Man that sucks. Do you think they're in it for the long haul? If this is someone who will be in your life long term, as bad as it blows, I might just go. Will probably create less drama down the road?
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