FFFC* 2.6.15

[penguininthecity]

Happy Friday!

So what do y'all have to confess today, folks?



....or not.


* As always, may not be totally without flaming...

EDIT: To change pic and context since previous pic wasn't showing up...
Edit2: It's 2015, darnit!

[JayneArson]

Feb 6, 2015 7:12:34 GMT -5 mgk207 said:

My confession is that, since conception, I *knew* I was having a girl. Imagine my surprise when the anatomy ultrasound disagreed. I was still skeptical. I had two more ultrasounds that also confirmed boy parts, and I now have an actual boy baby.

So, why do I keep referring to him in my head as "she" by accident? I've even mistakenly said it out loud once or twice. I feel awful, and hope I can get it together sooner than later. It's embarrassing!

I don't think this is that weird! My FIL repeatedly refers to my baby girl as "he" because he raised two boys so to him, babies are boys.

Our babies are not very gendered at the moment. I don't dress my LO in dresses or bows so she doesn't seem very "girly" to me. In fact, we put her in a dress once, for some one month photos, and my husband's reaction was "ohhhh, we have a GIRL". We forget because they're just babies.

[gdaniels77]

Feb 6, 2015 7:18:53 GMT -5 JayneArson said:

Feb 6, 2015 7:12:34 GMT -5 mgk207 said:

My confession is that, since conception, I *knew* I was having a girl. Imagine my surprise when the anatomy ultrasound disagreed. I was still skeptical. I had two more ultrasounds that also confirmed boy parts, and I now have an actual boy baby.

So, why do I keep referring to him in my head as "she" by accident? I've even mistakenly said it out loud once or twice. I feel awful, and hope I can get it together sooner than later. It's embarrassing!

I don't think this is that weird! My FIL repeatedly refers to my baby girl as "he" because he raised two boys so to him, babies are boys.

Our babies are not very gendered at the moment. I don't dress my LO in dresses or bows so she doesn't seem very "girly" to me. In fact, we put her in a dress once, for some one month photos, and my husband's reaction was "ohhhh, we have a GIRL". We forget because they're just babies.

Agreed. As pretty or handsome some parents may think their babies are, and they all are freaking adorable, nearly all babies look pretty androgynous when they're in only a diaper with no gender cues to define them.

When I was pregnant I bought almost all team green clothes for LO, even though we knew we were having a girl, because DH and I wanted her to be outside the little pink princess norm. Of course we got bombarded with cute girly clothes, so more than half the time she is obviously a girl when wearing those clothes... And maybe a few headbands here and there.
But yesterday I put her in a blue gender neutral onesie and said to DH "Awww, look at our adorable baby boy!" We both were tickled by it probably more than we should have been, but then again neither of us minds what identity she decides to take on when she gets older.

Hmm, maybe that's my FFFC...

[kathytav]

I watched all the episodes of Shameless in 4 days. There's 5 seasons.

[serunatu]

On the subject, no matter what she's wearing or not wearing, I think my baby looks like a girl. Lol and maybe it's all in my head but I've thought that since she was born. & I was sure I was having a boy, so I'm still amazed she is indeed a she.

Also, I think I need to change her diaper, but we had a rough night sleeping, and she finally passed out now so I think I'm skipping this change..

[gradschoolmama]

Sometimes I offer LO boob even tho she's not giving any hunger signs bc I just want to sit down and watch TV.

[absolutelyayrianna]

Im taking back a Tommy Tippie bottle because it sucks and I well know its been used once. It was washed and all but just not worth the 6.99 $

[gradschoolmama]

Feb 6, 2015 8:17:58 GMT -5 @txaggie08 said:

Feb 6, 2015 8:09:12 GMT -5 gradschoolmama said:

Sometimes I offer LO boob even tho she's not giving any hunger signs bc I just want to sit down and watch TV.

I read that was good for your supply in a book. So you're just relaxing while you ensure you have a good supply established.

Great news! Now I can stop feeling guilty and enjoy increasing my supply while I watch the new (and terrible) Nicholas Sparks movie

[mrscw]

I sometimes use my baby's mobile as a snooze button.

[gdaniels77]

Feb 6, 2015 8:53:31 GMT -5 mrscw said:

I sometimes use my baby's mobile as a snooze button.

I am guilty of doing this with LO's Sleep Sheep! Unfortunately I've somehow already worn out the batteries, so no more snooze button until I can buy some new ones and crack the thing open.

[JayneArson]

I tried to give my LO her pacifier this morning to hold her off for 10 more minutes of sleep. However, I wasn't totally awake and apparently I was trying to put it in her ear.

[liljsmomma]

I'm seriously lacking in the house cleaning and laundry department even tho I stay at home all day!! But u tell my husband that omg the baby was so fussy today even when she isn't! Horrible wife right here and I don't give a flying fuck haha!

[kimmie7714]

I don't feel bad for taking my LO to the library yesterday for rhyme time.  The class stated it was for babies-18 months.  My friend invited me to go with her daughter.  We sang some rhyme songs and she read a book to the kids.  Granted my guy was pretty small, but he seem to enjoy it.  I visited with another one of the mom's who couldn't believe he was only 6 weeks old and had brought her 3 month old.  She told another lady that CJ was only 6 weeks old and I got the dirtiest look from her.  I know there was a risk of exposure bringing him out, but it was nice to take him out before I go back to work.  I also didn't have him touching the toys or the other kids.  Not sure if we will go again, but it was fun to do something different.

[penguininthecity]

Feb 6, 2015 10:06:09 GMT -5 kimmie7714 said:

I don't feel bad for taking my LO to the library yesterday for rhyme time.  The class stated it was for babies-18 months.  My friend invited me to go with her daughter.  We sang some rhyme songs and she read a book to the kids.  Granted my guy was pretty small, but he seem to enjoy it.  I visited with another one of the mom's who couldn't believe he was only 6 weeks old and had brought her 3 month old.  She told another lady that CJ was only 6 weeks old and I got the dirtiest look from her.  I know there was a risk of exposure bringing him out, but it was nice to take him out before I go back to work.  I also didn't have him touching the toys or the other kids.  Not sure if we will go again, but it was fun to do something different.

And as a librarian (not in a public library), I'm happy you brought him there. If it's not one thing others are judging you for, it'd be another. Sideeye mom can stuff it.

[beckyrosen]

Feb 6, 2015 7:12:34 GMT -5 mgk207 said:

My confession is that, since conception, I *knew* I was having a girl. Imagine my surprise when the anatomy ultrasound disagreed. I was still skeptical. I had two more ultrasounds that also confirmed boy parts, and I now have an actual boy baby.

So, why do I keep referring to him in my head as "she" by accident? I've even mistakenly said it out loud once or twice. I feel awful, and hope I can get it together sooner than later. It's embarrassing!

My LO is a girl, but my firstborn is a boy and 11 years old (and was the only child until now). I frequently refer to LO as he or call her buddy just because I'm used to having a boy. Don't beat yourself up, he won't remember.

My FFFC is that my baby slept 6 hours straight last night, so when she woke to feed both breasts were full. I normally only feed of one side especially at night but I needed her to empty some from both. So after she fed from one side and she seemed almost done I took her off, burped her, and put her on the other one. I know it just gives her more foremilk but I figure that won't hurt her one time since she's growing like a weed and she's super chunky. But, I kinda feel bad like I should have just pumped it but I was so tired (and I've come down with a cold ).

[gradschoolmama]

Feb 6, 2015 10:34:15 GMT -5 beckyrosen said:

Feb 6, 2015 7:12:34 GMT -5 mgk207 said:

My confession is that, since conception, I *knew* I was having a girl. Imagine my surprise when the anatomy ultrasound disagreed. I was still skeptical. I had two more ultrasounds that also confirmed boy parts, and I now have an actual boy baby.

So, why do I keep referring to him in my head as "she" by accident? I've even mistakenly said it out loud once or twice. I feel awful, and hope I can get it together sooner than later. It's embarrassing!

My LO is a girl, but my firstborn is a boy and 11 years old (and was the only child until now). I frequently refer to LO as he or call her buddy just because I'm used to having a boy. Don't beat yourself up, he won't remember.

My FFFC is that my baby slept 6 hours straight last night, so when she woke to feed both breasts were full. I normally only feed of one side especially at night but I needed her to empty some from both. So after she fed from one side and she seemed almost done I took her off, burped her, and put her on the other one. I know it just gives her more foremilk but I figure that won't hurt her one time since she's growing like a weed and she's super chunky. But, I kinda feel bad like I should have just pumped it but I was so tired (and I've come down with a cold ).

Wow! I never think this much about he milk my LO gets. It's more like "this boob feels full, try it" or "you've been on this side awhile, let's switch ya for a change of scenery eh?"
Props for being so aware of you LO's milk consumption!

[stormygrace]

Feb 6, 2015 10:51:25 GMT -5 gradschoolmama said:

Feb 6, 2015 10:34:15 GMT -5 beckyrosen said:

My LO is a girl, but my firstborn is a boy and 11 years old (and was the only child until now). I frequently refer to LO as he or call her buddy just because I'm used to having a boy. Don't beat yourself up, he won't remember.

My FFFC is that my baby slept 6 hours straight last night, so when she woke to feed both breasts were full. I normally only feed of one side especially at night but I needed her to empty some from both. So after she fed from one side and she seemed almost done I took her off, burped her, and put her on the other one. I know it just gives her more foremilk but I figure that won't hurt her one time since she's growing like a weed and she's super chunky. But, I kinda feel bad like I should have just pumped it but I was so tired (and I've come down with a cold ).

Wow! I never think this much about he milk my LO gets. It's more like "this boob feels full, try it" or "you've been on this side awhile, let's switch ya for a change of scenery eh?"
Props for being so aware of you LO's milk consumption!

Honestly I'm not sure what full boobs feel like....my LO nurses every 1-1.5 hrs. I think I only had full boobs once and that was when my milk really came in. But I also just alternate boobs for each feeding.

[pooky08]

Oh I know about full boobs. My baby was falling asleep for my husband once without me needing to nurse him to sleep. He was so excited! Then I made him give me the baby anyway because I really needed him to help drain one of the girls.

[danisgossipgirl]

Feb 6, 2015 10:51:25 GMT -5 gradschoolmama said:

Feb 6, 2015 10:34:15 GMT -5 beckyrosen said:

My LO is a girl, but my firstborn is a boy and 11 years old (and was the only child until now). I frequently refer to LO as he or call her buddy just because I'm used to having a boy. Don't beat yourself up, he won't remember.

My FFFC is that my baby slept 6 hours straight last night, so when she woke to feed both breasts were full. I normally only feed of one side especially at night but I needed her to empty some from both. So after she fed from one side and she seemed almost done I took her off, burped her, and put her on the other one. I know it just gives her more foremilk but I figure that won't hurt her one time since she's growing like a weed and she's super chunky. But, I kinda feel bad like I should have just pumped it but I was so tired (and I've come down with a cold ).

Wow! I never think this much about he milk my LO gets. It's more like "this boob feels full, try it" or "you've been on this side awhile, let's switch ya for a change of scenery eh?"
Props for being so aware of you LO's milk consumption!

Don't feel bad, you really don't need to think about it beyond that. 

[stampingqueen]

I haven't fully cleaned my bathroom since before LO was born. We replaced the toilet a few weeks ago but the counter top and sink need scrubbed. I've done a quick swipe with a wipe but that's it.

LO is 8 weeks old...

[babar78]

Oh I have a few today:

When DH and I have sexy time, we put Lexi in the master bathroom and cut the fan on!!

There's a guy that works in the grocery store that looks like Drogo from GOT. I stand in his line so I can feel like Khaleesi.

I found those red velvet Oreos and ate two packs.
#illgetittogetheraftervalentinesday

[gradschoolmama]

Feb 6, 2015 15:11:58 GMT -5 babar78 said:

Oh I have a few today:

When DH and I have sexy time, we put Lexi in the master bathroom and cut the fan on!!

There's a guy that works in the grocery store that looks like Drogo from GOT. I stand in his line so I can feel like Khaleesi.

I found those red velvet Oreos and ate two packs.
#illgetittogetheraftervalentinesday

That is wonderful!! I would intentionally forget grocery items in order to see him everyday. S

ounds like you might be out of oreos? Another trip is in order!

[babar78]

Feb 6, 2015 15:28:34 GMT -5 gradschoolmama said:

Feb 6, 2015 15:11:58 GMT -5 babar78 said:

Oh I have a few today:

When DH and I have sexy time, we put Lexi in the master bathroom and cut the fan on!!

There's a guy that works in the grocery store that looks like Drogo from GOT. I stand in his line so I can feel like Khaleesi.

I found those red velvet Oreos and ate two packs.
#illgetittogetheraftervalentinesday

That is wonderful!! I would intentionally forget grocery items in order to see him everyday. S

ounds like you might be out of oreos? Another trip is in order!

That is an excellent idea!!! If only they sold those Oreos at his grocery store!!!

[jennielee123]

DD1 had a American landmark project due today. With the distraction of having a new baby we both completely forgot until last night. Cue mad dash play dough Mt.Rushmore. It turned out pretty good but I still feel like the crappiest parent ever. Still trying to find a parenting balance between my two girls.

[gdaniels77]

FFFC #1: I chopped off my hair today because I was starting to let the number of days between showers get shamefully long because of it. The hot water heater is abysmal in this apartment and my hair is so thick that the water would get cold by the time I finish washing it.

FFFC #2: Because of #1, I haven't washed anything but my pits in a whole week.

[mvvs82]

Feb 6, 2015 8:09:12 GMT -5 gradschoolmama said:

Sometimes I offer LO boob even tho she's not giving any hunger signs bc I just want to sit down and watch TV.

I do the same thing! Lol!

[liljsmomma]

Feb 6, 2015 10:32:16 GMT -5 rshamos4eva said:

I have another one. I keep calling LO by the dog's name. MH does too. I also keep calling the dog by the baby's name.

I do this too!!

[birch113]

Feb 6, 2015 14:42:13 GMT -5 stampingqueen said:

I haven't fully cleaned my bathroom since before LO was born. We replaced the toilet a few weeks ago but the counter top and sink need scrubbed. I've done a quick swipe with a wipe but that's it.

LO is 8 weeks old...

MIL is coming for dinner tomorrow, and I just realized that nothing has been truly cleaned since the week before I went into labor. My water broke 8 weeks ago tonight....

[birch113]

Feb 6, 2015 22:39:04 GMT -5 @txaggie08 said:

Feb 6, 2015 21:17:38 GMT -5 birch113 said:

MIL is coming for dinner tomorrow, and I just realized that nothing has been truly cleaned since the week before I went into labor. My water broke 8 weeks ago tonight....

The only reason I have vacuumed is because it calms LO down. The carpet is definitely the cleanest thing in the house.

Omg me too!!! The carpets are all that's clean here, too!

[kimmie7714]

Feb 7, 2015 9:26:27 GMT -5 lululemon said:

Feb 6, 2015 10:06:09 GMT -5 kimmie7714 said:

I don't feel bad for taking my LO to the library yesterday for rhyme time.  The class stated it was for babies-18 months.  My friend invited me to go with her daughter.  We sang some rhyme songs and she read a book to the kids.  Granted my guy was pretty small, but he seem to enjoy it.  I visited with another one of the mom's who couldn't believe he was only 6 weeks old and had brought her 3 month old.  She told another lady that CJ was only 6 weeks old and I got the dirtiest look from her.  I know there was a risk of exposure bringing him out, but it was nice to take him out before I go back to work.  I also didn't have him touching the toys or the other kids.  Not sure if we will go again, but it was fun to do something different.

Im sorry these ladies made you question going back.
I took my 9week old to rhyme time yesterday with my friend who has a 6week old.
All the other mums there had older kids but they were so nice and made us feel welcome, even though we were 5mins late and when DD was fussing a little at the end.

Our bubs couldn't really "participate" but I think they enjoyed the singing and that it's good for them and us to be out socialising with other mums and there LOs

I am glad you had a good experience!  I think we are going to go back again before my maternity leave is done.  Like penguininthecity said that mom can stuff it!  I love going 
to the library and reading and hope that my LO does too!