Eeyore-ing it up

[tjr42px]

I've had some good intentions to be on here more. Yet, the last few weeks have been...challenging? Things have been crazy at work. I was "promoted" without actually being promoted. Who doesn't love added responsibility without compensation?

Home life has been equally stressful. I'm sure the change in schedule and stress at work hasn't helped. I can do nothing but eat crackers for W. And I've been dealing with my own shit more and more these days...feeling inadequate, etc. I'm sure my mood is rubbing off on W.

She's asked me to be more open with my feelings when I start feeling down and not hold it all in. Clearly this isn't something I'm good at. She asked why I felt how I did so I told her when it started and what my thinking was. I know my thoughts are illogical. I know why I think what I did/do is completely inaccurate and said as much, but it just came out accusatory like she contributed to it. The more I tried to clarify the bigger hole I dug. Guess I'll just add that to the list of things I'm fucking up lately.

[JukEboXtheTanK]

Oh hey now being down on yourself is not helping anyone. Just have to talk in a cool and non threatening tone. And also say that your not trying to be a douche. You guys can be at each other when this kind of stuff happens and work together. The second you start attacking or blaming each other and it all goes down hill. We had that problem and when we found we could work together on stuff everything fell into place.

[tjr42px]

Thanks man. I hear you. We're a team and need to keep that at forefront. It takes all we got to wrangle these little ones some days it's easy to lose perspective.

[JukEboXtheTanK]

Jun 22, 2016 22:08:12 GMT -5 tjr42px said:

Thanks man. I hear you. We're a team and need to keep that at forefront. It takes all we got to wrangle these little ones some days it's easy to lose perspective.

Its the same with the world. We was time and effort fighting each other when so much more can be ventured and gained if we work together.