Been a few days since I've been aground. Craziness at work has been keeping me busy. One of my coworkers ditched me about seeing a movie last night because it was too late, but was still partying and about to go to a bar when I left our work cookout about an hour after the movie would've started last night. This led to a whole philosophical discussion with DH about how I chase people away without realizing it and nobody tells me what offends them so I keep doing it and getting frustrated. Same coworker and a couple others were supposed to do something together today, so we'll see if I'm still invited.
Morning from the future (Saturday evening here) and I'm in bed Boom!!! Big night in the waters for me. Maybe your co-worker just felt like partying instead of a movie and it has nothing to do with you as a person. That sounds like a cray discussion with your DH. Do you think you chase ppl away?
Post by linewifekat on Jun 25, 2016 10:15:38 GMT -5
I'm hosting a baby shower with a friend today and I'm dreading it. It's going to be so weird and awkward and I'm missing out on my friends' sons birthday party.
staccajaye I was pretty emotional last night so he mainly just listened. I've always been really insecure about my friendships because none of them seem to end well. The longest friendship I had lasted 7 years so when I hear people talk about people they know from high school or college, I feel left out sometimes because all the people I was really close to more than 4 or 5 years ago don't speak to me anymore. Except DH because he's my longest friendship of any kind right now at just under 5 years. I usually don't get this way. I think it's just some crazy hormone stuff really
Post by PepperPottsJ on Jun 25, 2016 10:55:30 GMT -5
I'm sorry you had such an emotional evening ImAPepper. I'm with staccajaye , maybe she intended just 1, I've been guilty of that so many times. Regardless, I hope all goes well and you have fun today!
I'm sorry you're feeling that way ImAPepper it always sucks being left out. Maybe you and your DH can do something fun today to get your mind off it?
I've had a very productive Saturday so far. Ran a couple miles, got another coat of paint on the vanity I'm redoing & cleaned my car. Now I'm off to go get my nails done & do a little shopping
Post by flyinghorses6 on Jun 25, 2016 11:34:30 GMT -5
I worked last night in a crazy busy special care nursery. And I'm drained. Came home and slept 4 hours and I'm on Saturday and Sunday.
I'm supposed to go to a cookout today but DH is working which leaves just me to handle our 13 month old at a big party where I know she won't sit still. I just wish he was off and we could go together. It's also 45 minute drive each way...not sure if I have the energy to handle her for all that right now.
I know that feeling ImAPepper. I feel left out or forgotten a lot. I'm pretty introverted and shy so I need incredibly extroverted friends to seek me out for me to be included.
I was really worried since my symptoms went away for a couple weeks. But they are now back as of a couple days ago. Everything sounds gross and I feel like I need to throw up but my body won't let me 😞 Which makes me feel better pgal wise. I need to clean my house for our upcoming trip, but I'm letting my kids do most of it since they're still at the age they think it's cool.
Post by CoffeeOnIce on Jun 25, 2016 12:35:34 GMT -5
It's fun remembering earlier this week when I was wishing for symptoms. They're here! Bleh, just feel like I have the flu. Hungry and nauseous is an interesting combo. My dh is out golfing and Chinese is sounding bomb, hopefully he'll be a hero and bring some home.
Today I cried because a song was so happy. My emotions are ridic right now. It wasn't like this last pregnancy (that, or I mentally blocked it out) lol
Post by wildflower810 on Jun 25, 2016 12:43:07 GMT -5
ImAPepper, I know those feelings. I struggling with maintaining friendships sometimes and I don't know why. It doesn't help that I've moved away from my childhood state, so all of my close friends are many states and timezones away.
Today I cried because a song was so happy. My emotions are ridic right now. It wasn't like this last pregnancy (that, or I mentally blocked it out) lol
Post by shawnabm1320 on Jun 25, 2016 12:55:12 GMT -5
My dad is getting remarried today. I'm about to gain a stepmother and 3 step-siblings, which is quite a thing to process at age 29 (okay almost 30)! So I'm hoping everything goes well and DS wakes up less cranky from his afternoon nap. Yikes...
I think I've mentioned how much I love the musical Hamilton and am pretty obsessed with the soundtrack. Buy I cannot get through listening to the song Yorktown without crying. It doesn't make sense- it's not even the most emotional song in the show! I don't understand it, and my husband and DD1 keep laughing at me for it. Meanies.
Post by flyinghorses6 on Jun 25, 2016 13:24:27 GMT -5
Today is a constant battle of nausea, hunger, and feeling like I'm going to faint. Dreading grocery shopping but we've had no food in the house for days
ImAPepper I'm the same way with friends. I don't speak to anyone from high school. I used to have bad taste in friends and I wasn't always a good friend either (I flaked a lot, didn't keep in touch, etc). When I met DH 6 years ago, it amazed me that his closest friends were friends he had since childhood, and I mean he had like 10 best friends. It actually made me pretty depressed because I assessed my friend situation and wow, it sucked. Ever since then I've tried to be a better friend but it's so hard now having a baby. It ends up excluding me from a lot but at the end of the day I have my beautiful family and that's all I really need! pivot Can I please have half your energy?! +1 to being emotional. I picked a fight with DH this morning because he wanted to go see Independence Day with his parents and I didn't think it was fair to leave me home to watch the baby. I might have even cried about it.. At least I made it to the gym today. I figure anything else I get done is just bonus now!
Trying to get my disaster of a house ready for DS's first birthday party next weekend. Everyone coming knows I'm KU so they won't judge too much right? Tomorrow we have to tell the ILs about the new baby because they're coming to the party next weekend and are basically the only ones who don't know yet... Oops. Also on the nausea train. The dr told me to take half a unisom and 25mg of B6, I'm sleepy but feel a TON better.
We are back at the old house to do a last run through before the movers come on the 7-8 to pack the house up. Worked all morning and now just laying in bed being lazy while DH finishes up.
We are hoping to go home tonight and then we'll tell my parents the twin news.
Post by littleredfish on Jun 25, 2016 14:56:00 GMT -5
Nausea while wanting to eat nothing but still wanting to eat everything. I hope it passes in time for super tonight. Ribs, bonfire with s'mores, it will be torture if I can't eat. On the plus side my nose has eased up on the constant drip.
I've been called in to do two night shifts this weekend. I'm pissed because it was my first weekend off in about 4 months.
But since I pretty much get made redundant next week I'm glad for the extra hours to boast my pay.
Also DS has been waking at 430am every morning for the past week, and since it's just me and him, I'm up at 430am too. Can't wait for H to come back from work next week. I just need to sleep.
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Hope everyone is having a nice weekend! Sorry to all who are suffering from nausea, I actually couldn't finish my breakfast this morning and am existing purely in watermelon at the moment.
This morning we went to our town festivals parade and had a lot of fun. The ILs were there and I forgave them for being too excited and sharing our news. Just woke up from a nap and getting ready for a date night at a new restaurant in our closest city. Should be fun! DS will be spending a few hours with my parents, I'm excited for the little break
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend! Sorry to all who are suffering from nausea, I actually couldn't finish my breakfast this morning and am existing purely in watermelon at the moment.
This morning we went to our town festivals parade and had a lot of fun. The ILs were there and I forgave them for being too excited and sharing our news. Just woke up from a nap and getting ready for a date night at a new restaurant in our closest city. Should be fun! DS will be spending a few hours with my parents, I'm excited for the little break
Post by wildflower810 on Jun 25, 2016 18:28:19 GMT -5
shawnabm1320, Oh, ouch. I had a parent remarry and technically I gained over a dozen step siblings. I have met neither the other spouse, and only one of the kids. I don't consider any of them (including said parent) family, so I don't care... but I love the look on people's faces when I mention it as I'm explaining things.
Today I cried because a song was so happy. My emotions are ridic right now. It wasn't like this last pregnancy (that, or I mentally blocked it out) lol
I have been so weepy this time! No fun!
Ditto to this. Sad songs are taking me out, animated movies, and even just thinking about sending the new baby to daycare is getting me worked up. I don't remember this happening before.
Trying to get my disaster of a house ready for DS's first birthday party next weekend. Everyone coming knows I'm KU so they won't judge too much right? Tomorrow we have to tell the ILs about the new baby because they're coming to the party next weekend and are basically the only ones who don't know yet... Oops. Also on the nausea train. The dr told me to take half a unisom and 25mg of B6, I'm sleepy but feel a TON better.
This is a nausea fix? Weird, unisom is a sleep aid right? I'm already sleepy so that won't matter lol.
Post by staccajaye on Jun 25, 2016 19:18:41 GMT -5
ImAPepper I understand the hormones completely, and like others have said, it's not that common to stay friends with the same group of friends. Life does get in the way. I'm friends with people I went to preschool with, but that's because I come from a town of 4000 people. DH moved twice and only close with his younger brothers friends. Everyone is different and every situation, don't be hard on yourself, life is too short. Everyday is a new day, be happy, have fun, and if you want to hang out with people, just go do it. You're having a baby girl!!! Yay!!
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