Post by luluandgirl on Feb 10, 2015 14:09:35 GMT -5
I was going to post this in the Tuesday Randoms thread but the board has been kind of slow so here it goes...
So, it's been almost a year since I've had sex - and WAY too many years since I've had good sex. H and I are getting divorced and I'm trying to wait until we're officially divorced to start something new. I've been talking to a guy for the past 4 months but we haven't seen each other since he lives out of town and we are planning on waiting for things to be final before we met up.
This guy I'm talking to is "the one I let get away" - he is stable, responsible, intelligent, gentle, respectful, such a gentleman, his dad died when he was young and he became the "man of the house" and takes such good care of his mom, has a great job/career, extremely athletic, so sweet, we share the same humor and we get along so well. You're probably wondering how I ended up with H, and not this guy who I'm making out to be prefect. First off, I was an idiot when I got married and thought a musician was a great idea - "but he looks so sexy up on stage". But the real reason why things didn't work out with the other guy is because he lived on the opposite side of the country and I was immature and wanted what was right in front of me. However, now we're on the same side of the country, same time zone, and only a short flight away.
What do you ladies think: would you continue to hold off or not? (Not sure if this matters, but one of the reasons we're getting divorced is because H cheated on me)
So, it's been almost a year since I've had sex - and WAY too many years since I've had good sex. H and I are getting divorced and I'm trying to wait until we're officially divorced to start something new. I've been talking to a guy for the past 4 months but we haven't seen each other since he lives out of town and we are planning on waiting for things to be final before we met up.
This guy I'm talking to is "the one I let get away" - he is stable, responsible, intelligent, gentle, respectful, such a gentleman, his dad died when he was young and he became the "man of the house" and takes such good care of his mom, has a great job/career, extremely athletic, so sweet, we share the same humor and we get along so well. You're probably wondering how I ended up with H, and not this guy who I'm making out to be prefect. First off, I was an idiot when I got married and thought a musician was a great idea - "but he looks so sexy up on stage". But the real reason why things didn't work out with the other guy is because he lived on the opposite side of the country and I was immature and wanted what was right in front of me. However, now we're on the same side of the country, same time zone, and only a short flight away.
What do you ladies think: would you continue to hold off or not? (Not sure if this matters, but one of the reasons we're getting divorced is because H cheated on me)