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Two MM/C 1/09/12 & MM/C 4/26/12 BFP#3 - Rainbow #1 born 5/11/13 via unplanned C-section Two CP 11/23/15 & 5/13/16 BFP#6 - Rainbow #2 born 2/10/17 via planned C-section
Everyone's looking great! Do we have first time mamas? It seems like we're all at least second time or more. Is that normal??!
I think it is probably because many people here were a part of BMBs when the TB exodus happened, and they followed their BMB at the time to this new site/app. I don't know that a lot of FTMs find this site unless they were here first from TTC. Other websites just come up first when you're a new mom searching for baby info.
monicageller I also ran across some FTMs on other boards that don't feel like they fit in on their BMBs because of all the non-FTMs. Lots of talk about older kids and not much about the new mom stuff.
monicageller I also ran across some FTMs on other boards that don't feel like they fit in on their BMBs because of all the non-FTMs. Lots of talk about older kids and not much about the new mom stuff.
That doesn't seem fair. I mean, a STM mom talking about her big and is the same thing as listening to a FTM debate which crib to buy or whatever. Be the change, FTMs.
monicageller I also ran across some FTMs on other boards that don't feel like they fit in on their BMBs because of all the non-FTMs. Lots of talk about older kids and not much about the new mom stuff.
That doesn't seem fair. I mean, a STM mom talking about her big and is the same thing as listening to a FTM debate which crib to buy or whatever. Be the change, FTMs.
I think there could be more helpful interaction, but I see where they're coming from. If the BMB were primarily FTMs, STM+ moms may lose interest with the exact conversation you're talking about. If we could get FTMs to join en mass, it may be more successful. Perhaps I'll start a thread...
Also keep in mine that I come from the infertility side of things, so there can be some extra anxiety and pain related to prior pregnancies or lack thereof.
monicageller I also ran across some FTMs on other boards that don't feel like they fit in on their BMBs because of all the non-FTMs. Lots of talk about older kids and not much about the new mom stuff.
That's too bad. Regardless of your situation, I would hope everyone would feel welcome and be comfortable on their birth month board.
Post by sweetieheart32 on Sept 1, 2016 17:09:27 GMT -5
5'7" stm, 16+1 My new maternity swimsuit came in the mail today! It's still a little large, but came in time for DH and I to have our getaway weekend and swim at the hotel
monicageller I also ran across some FTMs on other boards that don't feel like they fit in on their BMBs because of all the non-FTMs. Lots of talk about older kids and not much about the new mom stuff.
That's too bad. Regardless of your situation, I would hope everyone would feel welcome and be comfortable on their birth month board.
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